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[chispas 0]

I really thank you guys for the encouragement .

I just sent him an email telling him "I am not that strong" .

And sometimes, I just want to scream at the top of my lungs .

You know, just to relieve some pressure ,

but my kids might think I'm crazier than ever .

So I wont be doing thaaat

So, now that I have got that off of my chest, I'm going to read Joyce Meyers book, "me and my big mouth" and see what lessons I can learn.

And again, thanks for everything, I really don't know what I would do with out you guys><

[We_Destiny 1]

The journey can be very rough at times (especially at the pre-interview stage).

Be Encouraged your time to rejoice is around the corner .

[bhajishah 4]

How to deal with MENA stereotype and cultural. men etc....Be the one who needs care of , dont be his mommy, be the little devil ..he has to be wondering and guessing about. make him be the grown up.. chat with other men online, tell him ohh i thought it was cool you doing it.. ohyah... I dont know about islam sorry you have to show me and prctice it in order for me to learn...quit catering and letting them inturn walk on ya and take for granted..so there you go IMO..Its thier job to keep wives on thier toes inso se wont have anything real to complain about like him going up the career ladder, buying house mortgage and etc...normal husband wife stuff.. After all you are not the one who has to worry about loosing greencard stgatus and etc....let the boys sweat and earn some of it!!!!!!

[Zee Bee 61]

How to deal with MENA stereotype and cultural. men etc....Be the one who needs care of , dont be his mommy, be the little devil ..he has to be wondering and guessing about. make him be the grown up.. chat with other men online, tell him ohh i thought it was cool you doing it.. ohyah... I dont know about islam sorry you have to show me and prctice it in order for me to learn...quit catering and letting them inturn walk on ya and take for granted..so there you go IMO..Its thier job to keep wives on thier toes inso se wont have anything real to complain about like him going up the career ladder, buying house mortgage and etc...normal husband wife stuff.. After all you are not the one who has to worry about loosing greencard stgatus and etc....let the boys sweat and earn some of it!!!!!!

What does this have to do with anything that was mentioned here???

[Simply_Uno 1]

How to deal with MENA stereotype and cultural. men etc....Be the one who needs care of , dont be his mommy, be the little devil ..he has to be wondering and guessing about. make him be the grown up.. chat with other men online, tell him ohh i thought it was cool you doing it.. ohyah... I dont know about islam sorry you have to show me and prctice it in order for me to learn...quit catering and letting them inturn walk on ya and take for granted..so there you go IMO..Its thier job to keep wives on thier toes inso se wont have anything real to complain about like him going up the career ladder, buying house mortgage and etc...normal husband wife stuff.. After all you are not the one who has to worry about loosing greencard stgatus and etc....let the boys sweat and earn some of it!!!!!!

okay, I did not take my meds today, but #######

[We_Destiny 1]

Sounds like the person is putting us up on game. Ladies should be "gold diggers" or at least the "at the top of the food chain" in the relationship.

I think, or maybe the message was blah , blah , blah , blah , blah you know what I mean blah , blah .

[chispas 0]

Wow... We Destiny... You're good at the translation. I was up there with Uno thinking that it was a meds thing going on. Whew

[bhajishah 4]

well instead of wah wah wah...how about turn the tables...and see if he is real or you have to cater to be loved and respected...that way did not seem to work or many!!!! doubters and playa haters

[JJWashington 0]

Well going through the process was the hardest thing I ever did also. However, we really did not talk about the process until about 1 week before his interview. I just could not talk about it or I would get TOOOOO wound up and hyper....

I'm glad its over, but Chipas is right, there are days I would not mind being back there for a few days.

[Simply_Uno 1]

well instead of wah wah wah...how about turn the tables...and see if he is real or you have to cater to be loved and respected...that way did not seem to work or many!!!! doubters and playa haters

to whom are you addressing your reply? and could you be a little more specific about your "rantings?'

[bhajishah 4]

Ohh honey let me be the first to say........digging for gold in third world country NOT A GOOD IDEA..better chances of finding WMDS ..now diamonds and OIl thats another idea

Post your timeline and ill tell you who and when

[Simply_Uno 1]

here we go again,

another one wants to challenge UNO.

AS anyone can tell you, I DO NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR IDEAS?

SO SAVE THE BULL $#!T FOR SOME ONE WHO VALIDATES OR VALUE YOU, AND PLEASE TAKE NOTE, THAT I FOR ONE, DO NOT.

SO MOVE AROUND _ _ _ CH, MOVE AROUND!

p.s. I am NEVER YOUR HONEY, and you will do well not to address me as such. The name is UNO-NONE-HIGHER!

p.p.s. and don't ever think "telling me something" will get you results, it wont. it will however get you insults!

so "poof" be gone B)

Edited January 29, 2008 by unononehigher

[Zee Bee 61]

Good morning my fellow Sub-Saharans!!!

Ohh honey let me be the first to say........digging for gold in third world country NOT A GOOD IDEA..better chances of finding WMDS ..now diamonds and OIl thats another idea

Post your timeline and ill tell you who and when

Please, just go away and leave us alone. Your ignorant rantings are not appreciated here.

[We_Destiny 1]

well instead of wah wah wah...how about turn the tables...and see if he is real or you have to cater to be loved and respected...that way did not seem to work or many!!!! doubters and playa haters

translation: yada, yada, blah, blah, bang, bing, bong, plew, plewy, yad, ada, flim, flam, yada, yada, phewy.

opinion: As you, we are all trying to adjust to the issues that arise in our relationships. This (original topic) might not be a concern to all but it is an issue to most, having a foreign SO assume that life in the US is easy (based on the media) and that there are no poor or people thay struggle. This issue is relavent to most non-European regions including here, and there should be no rush to judgement or looked upon as negative by you or anyone else. We address the issues in our relationships as they arrise, we grow and we move on.

I have read some of your previous post and have noticed you have a pattern of calling out people from "third world countries". Just out of curiosity what is your view on the economic climate is Pakistan? Do you consider it a "second or a third world contry" in comparison to the US?

[Ban Hammer 13,342]

did i miss something between my first post and now?