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[Ta Ta 1]

Wow is right .....Perseverance does need a vacation .......I confirm that

[Bassi and Zainab 1]

Of course she is jealous. If you are anything like me, I know you talk about your Bassi. I talk about my Sammie, but only what I want them to know. Even then, they all got together and felt it was necessary to send me an article about how "older women" were being scammed by African men. Heifers!!!! And even if she doesnt know about your Bassi, obviously she must be miserable, because she is trying to blow out your light. Cause I know you glowing over there gurl!

Shine on and tell your boss to get some business.

P.S. When I told my boss that Sammie was coming home next month...she decided to plan an audit and sent out an email that no one can take vacation in June. I am at work, so I wont say what I really want to say!!!!!

Oh my Gosh! I can't believe she did that. How hateful! I just don't get people.

[forchika 4]

HI EVERYONE!!!!!!

I hope everyone is well.

I hear the work troubles I told LL today I need a VACATION!! Soon I will have a reprieve, the kidos are going away for most of the summer, that is kind of a vacation.

As I type this I can hear them bickering....

"stop touching me...dont look at me....blah blah blah" Shoot I was on the phone with Omoba the other night she heard them and she was like whoa! LOL, kids, I know they are GODs little blessings but when the devil gets in them ...God help me LOL. I love my babies (babies who are 14,10 & 8) they drive me cuckoo sometimes but I love em and I would take more if God would give them.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder right???? Well then a little absence will do Mom great

Too all you Moms who dont get a break, I applaud you you are some tough cookies

Heather

I can identify with you Perserverance ........ mine are 12 and a half and 10 and a half. Sometimes I want to shake the devil out of the 12 yr old, because he is a pre-teen who thinks he will have that pre-teen attitude, I think not . I just had a bit of a break as the kid's went to Orlando(Universal Studios) this past holiday weekend with father's family. Perserverance enjoy your well deserved break!!!!! I wish I could get a half of the summer break-our grocery bill just went up another $100.00 as of tomorrow

[forchika 4]

Of course she is jealous. If you are anything like me, I know you talk about your Bassi. I talk about my Sammie, but only what I want them to know. Even then, they all got together and felt it was necessary to send me an article about how "older women" were being scammed by African men. Heifers!!!! And even if she doesnt know about your Bassi, obviously she must be miserable, because she is trying to blow out your light. Cause I know you glowing over there gurl!

Shine on and tell your boss to get some business.

P.S. When I told my boss that Sammie was coming home next month...she decided to plan an audit and sent out an email that no one can take vacation in June. I am at work, so I wont say what I really want to say!!!!!

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I DITTO THAT!!!!!! She was wrong for that!!!!!!

[Ricca711 1]

Of course she is jealous. If you are anything like me, I know you talk about your Bassi. I talk about my Sammie, but only what I want them to know. Even then, they all got together and felt it was necessary to send me an article about how "older women" were being scammed by African men. Heifers!!!! And even if she doesnt know about your Bassi, obviously she must be miserable, because she is trying to blow out your light. Cause I know you glowing over there gurl!

Shine on and tell your boss to get some business.

P.S. When I told my boss that Sammie was coming home next month...she decided to plan an audit and sent out an email that no one can take vacation in June. I am at work, so I wont say what I really want to say!!!!!

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I DITTO THAT!!!!!! She was wrong for that!!!!!!

I know ladies. I had to go in the restroom to keep from crying. I am hoping something will work itself out.

Kids?! Oh now thats a good topic. I have a 17 year old. I am sure he is looking forward to meeting and getting to know Samuel. My biggest fight with him right now is to leave the girls alone for right now. Finish high school and DO NOT HAVE ANY BABIES, cause I aint ready to be a grandmother! LOL.

Happy Friday everyone! Its payday! Zee and Zain, are you guys packed? Zain are you feeling better today?

[Bassi and Zainab 1]

I know ladies. I had to go in the restroom to keep from crying. I am hoping something will work itself out.

Kids?! Oh now thats a good topic. I have a 17 year old. I am sure he is looking forward to meeting and getting to know Samuel. My biggest fight with him right now is to leave the girls alone for right now. Finish high school and DO NOT HAVE ANY BABIES, cause I aint ready to be a grandmother! LOL.

Happy Friday everyone! Its payday! Zee and Zain, are you guys packed? Zain are you feeling better today?

She's trying to break your spirit Ricca.....don't let her girl! Look right at her and smile the love of God right into her steely heart!

I'm feeling better because I've refocused on God. I had a good, focused 3 hours of prayer last night with some friends and it helped immensely to just have that inner joy amidst the storm. I'm still not sure what I'm going to do about work though. I'm on the hot seat for some reason. Today she scheduled a meeting with me on Tuesday because we have "various issues" to discuss. Among them a project I was working on stalled for almost two months. I couldn't make progress because documents were missing. Well, turns out someone had gathered all the files and placed them in the bottom drawer of an unused file cabinet. We don't know who. We don't know when. We don't know why. I told my boss that I feel that it was malicious and purposeful. She told me I'm paranoid. It was just grace that one of the time unit clerks was searching for space, found the files and asked a payroll clerk if she knew why there were a stack of files there. The payroll clerk had been helping me try to track down the missing info and so was familiar with the names on the files and came and let me know. Now, my project is back on track, but I'm still somehow to blame for the lack of progress. It's probably my fault too that the files were "misplaced". I'm getting the sense that it's time to move on before my reputation is placed in jeopardy. I need my rep to maintain my position in HR. It could also be God pushing me to move on to my new nursing career which I've placed on the back burner for altogether too long.

Now Bassi, God Bless him, is going crazy. He feels powerless and can't even hold me when I'm in the middle of a rant. But I'm nervous he might want to go talk to my boss if he's here, so it's better for a little distance.

[Zee Bee 61]

Good morning peeps

Erika, your boss sounds like a piece of work. Some names to describe her come to mind but I will keep this PG. Some people just don't like to see others happy. She is stuck in her own misery and cannot stand to see anyone else with happiness in their lives. I am sure that once Samuel gets here you can work something out. The nerve of some people

Zainab, that mix-up sounds fishy indeed. Does your boss think you are doing this on purpose? Weird

Well, we have our interview Monday Inusah is not nervous. Me, I am on pins and needles. I think I need to be sedated. I just hope and pray and hope and pray that everything goes smoothly. Then I can get more excited about going home in July.

[Ta Ta 1]

Good morning.

Ricca, I hope your mean boss will change her mind and you can get a few days off with your man.

Zainab, you are right, that could be the push you need for the nursing career.

Zee everything will be ok for you guys soon, just try to relax.

[Ricca711 1]

Here is a little something for all of us in here today. You may already have it, because it was such a well circulated email. But I thought it was appropriate considering the topic.

ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVES* * * * SHAKE THEM HATERS OFF! BY REV T.D JAKES

A hater is someone that is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall. They are very negative people. Nothing is ever good enough! When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters... That's why you have to be careful who you share your blessings and your dreams with because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed... It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else. He would have given you what He gave them. You don't know what people have gone through to get what they have... The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story... If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too. We've all got some haters among us:

Some people don't like it that you can:

* Have a relationship with God

* Light up a room when you walk in

* Start your own business

* Tell a man/woman to get lost (if he/she ain't about the right thing)

* Raise children without both parents being around

* And not ask for a dime from Anyone

* Haters don't want to see you happy

* Haters don't want to see you succeed

* Haters don't want you to get the victory

Most of our haters are people that are supposed to be on our side. How do you handle the haters who you at least expect to have your guard up against?

You can handle your haters by:

1. *Knowing who you are & who your true friends are * (VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. *Having a purpose to your life *

3. *By remembering what you have is by divine prerogative and not human manipulation.

* Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be unfulfilled. A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be.

Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you. Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live..........when its your

time to leave this earth, you want to be able to say,'I've lived my life and fulfilled my dreams, .........I'm ready to go HOME!

When God gives you a favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at me... Look at who is in charge of me...' Pass this to all of your family & friends who you know are not hating on you .

If you don't get it back, maybe you caught somebody out! Don't worry about it, it's not your problem, it's theirs. Just pray for them, that their life can be as fulfilled as yours! Watch out for Haters.................BUT most of all don't become a HATER yourself!

[Ta Ta 1]

I love it !

[Zee Bee 61]

Thanks for that Erika. That is refreshing

[Bassi and Zainab 1]

Zee, I know you must be so nervous. Squeeze my hand, I feel your pain!! I know it will go well. It will all be worth it in the end. I'm praying for you guys!!

Thanks Ricca!! I loved that post. Reminding me to follow my purpose in the book Reposition Yourself TD Jakes asks how many people bother to have any passion in their lives. Real true passion to walk and work and do in your life something that's real and tangible, not just what pays the bills.

[K&A 0]

"HI EVERYBODYYYYYYYYY LOL....I USUALLY LURK ON THIS SUB-SAHARAN CYBER...BUT I HAD TO PUT MY TWO CENTS IN THIS FRIDAY LOL...GOTTA SAY LOVED THE POST RICCA, I THINK REV. T.D. JAKES IS THE TRUTH!

I ALSO DECIDED TO ADD MY TWO CENTS HERE TO WISH INUSAH A HAPPY GRADUATION DAY ON MONDAY!!! OH ZEE YOU DIDN'T KNOW? YOUR MAN IS GRADUATING "FROM WAITING ON TO GETTING HIS VISA" COME THIS MONDAY...AMEN TO THAT!!...

ZEE I DECIDED TO SAY MY GOOD LUCK TO YOU NOW BECAUSE AS YOU KNOW I AM AT WORK RIGHT NOW AND IS USUALLY THE TIME I SURF THE INTERNET WHEN I'M ON BREAK OR LUNCH....DURING THE WEEKEND I AM MIA UNTIL MONDAY...

"I CAN'T WAIT FOR TOMORROW YAY YAYAYAAAA!

SATURDAY IS JUNE 1ST!! MY COUNT DOWN BEGINS OFFICIALLY........

AND A FORE WARNING IS A FAIR WARNING TO EVERYBODY ON VJ BECAUSE I'M GONNA BE FULLY LOADED, SWAMPING THE PLACE WITH MY RELENTLESS QUESTIONS COME MONDAY UNTIL THE BIG DAY....I'M A NERVOUS RECK! I AM PRAYING FOR A HAPPY GRADUATION DAY FOR MY MAN ON HIS BIG DAY TOO...ENJOY YOUR WEEKEND EVERYBODYYYYYYYYY, ALRIGHT I'M OUT PEACE!!!!

Edited May 30, 2008 by K&A

[Zee Bee 61]

Slumber party!!!

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry1884471

[Bassi and Zainab 1]

Slumber party!!!

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry1884471

After I put Kay to bed I'll stop by!