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[*julez* 124]

I thought so - so that is what the bridesmaids are wearing... wondered if Julez could wear something like that - they do loads of different dresses and are really good - Kin the guy I was liasing with had my dresses specially made He was really good throughout the whole thing

Aly, the dresses you linked to are lovely, my biggest problem (pardon the pun) is my bust! I need to try stuff on to make sure it will fit my assets With time running so short, I am really freaking out! Its all day shopping this Saturday! Eeek!

[weedebz 0]

I thought so - so that is what the bridesmaids are wearing... wondered if Julez could wear something like that - they do loads of different dresses and are really good - Kin the guy I was liasing with had my dresses specially made He was really good throughout the whole thing

Aly, the dresses you linked to are lovely, my biggest problem (pardon the pun) is my bust! I need to try stuff on to make sure it will fit my assets With time running so short, I am really freaking out! Its all day shopping this Saturday! Eeek!

I have the opposite problem.

[Alex & Rachel 78]

I love corsetting. I have 6 corsets ranging from 24" to 22". They are all tightlacing steel boned corsets. I have been corsetting/waist training for 4 years and can now take 6" off my natural waist with a corset. They are not uncomfortable if you ease into it gently and get proper style, size and shape for yourself. If you find it uncomfortable either corset wrong or you going too fast.

I think the lack of appitite caused by the stress is the reason for my weightloss...that and the fact my mother on a diet so either diet food or no food.

Yes; stress can certainly cause weight loss!

Do you have any favourite sites or shops that you buy your corsets from? I've found several lovely looking ones online but it's always good to have a personal recommendation.

julez - my bust is also a problem; but not so much my actual breasts as my chest, which is very deep (I have a pretty masculine upper body...*sigh*)

[weedebz 0]

vollers or axfords. Also try these websites.

fairy gothmother

drac in a box

[Alex & Rachel 78]

Thank you! Some of these look stunning.

[weedebz 0]

Thank you! Some of these look stunning.

fairy goth mother is my fave

[Jeraly 4]

Julez - I have the same problem (34G) but these dresses are really good - the back is elasticated at the top which helps and you can always get adjustments made

[Jeraly 4]

As for corsets - this is the one I was looking at - I love it - nice and simple... but I just can't justify the money on it Maybe one day...

[snowfrostedlashes 0]

Morning folks!

[Jeraly 4]

Morning!!

[snowfrostedlashes 0]

Finding it increasingly difficult to concentrate on dull work as it gets closer to when Mark will be arriving to visit me! I'm much to excited to be sat here doing paperwork

[Jeraly 4]

When is he coming over? I am excited too - next Thursday and I will be there! After many hours of travel but still!!! I can't wait to get through immigration!!

[snowfrostedlashes 0]

Ooohhh so soon - you must be so excited! Will you be posting any photos from the non-legal ceremony btw? (I'm obsessed with all things wedding-related at the moment).

Mark's flight is on the 12th February so, all being well, he'll reach me on the 13th I'm going to be such a bundle of nerves waiting for him to arrive.

[Jeraly 4]

Haha - he flies out the day after the wedding I don't know if I will be posting photos or not - I might put some on facebook but I don't want to chuck too many of them about as there are people who like to abuse you for "committing visa fraud" which it isn't - we're not signing the register - gay marriage in AZ is illegal as well and yet they still have ceremonies - they just aren't legal ones so I don't see what the difference is really - there are just people out there who like to criticise and condemn and I just don't want that...

Will maybe post a link to pics in some of the more friendly threads

[snowfrostedlashes 0]

*nods* I don't really understand how people struggle so understanding the differences between a legal ceremony and what is essentially a big celebration of your love for each other. Ideally you would have had both at the same time, but sometimes things don't work out that way.

Mark keeps fussing asking me when we can arrange the wedding and I tell him we can't even THINK about it until we get the NOA2 (which I'm hoping will be before the end of May this year) and even then we can't make firm plans until I have an interview date.