married 3 months and now separating

[love my Nour 5]

I need advice for someone I know. I have a girlfriend who has been married now for 3 months. She came home the other day, found out he has been on a chat site and porn site looking for woman from his country. That is very disrepectful to her. Now, she has put him out of the house, but found out he has to get divorce first before he can move back to his country? He also tore up AOS and other papers too when they got mad with each other.

Does anyone know what site I can tell her to look at or anyone have any idea of this procedure?

She does not trust him now and does not know what to do.

Please anyone reply and I will pass it along to her

[eau_xplain 2]

Who is the USC and who is the immigrant spouse? What kind of advice is your friend seeking?

[pushbrk 13,074]

I need advice for someone I know. I have a girlfriend who has been married now for 3 months. She came home the other day, found out he has been on a chat site and porn site looking for woman from his country. That is very disrepectful to her. Now, she has put him out of the house, but found out he has to get divorce first before he can move back to his country? He also tore up AOS and other papers too when they got mad with each other.

Does anyone know what site I can tell her to look at or anyone have any idea of this procedure?

She does not trust him now and does not know what to do.

Please anyone reply and I will pass it along to her

I take it she is the USC and he is the foreign spouse. If so, his needs are not her concern unless she wants them to be. She can obtain a divorce without his cooperation. There are lots of resources for that. It has nothing to do with visas or immigration. If the AOS has not yet been approved, she can contact the USCIS and withdraw her I-864. He is then on his own and of no concern to her unless she wishes otherwise.

[zqt3344 21]

Surely someone on here can offer you some advice, or search around on the posts sure this has happened before somewhere. Good luck.

I need advice for someone I know. I have a girlfriend who has been married now for 3 months. She came home the other day, found out he has been on a chat site and porn site looking for woman from his country. That is very disrepectful to her. Now, she has put him out of the house, but found out he has to get divorce first before he can move back to his country? He also tore up AOS and other papers too when they got mad with each other.

Does anyone know what site I can tell her to look at or anyone have any idea of this procedure?

She does not trust him now and does not know what to do.

Please anyone reply and I will pass it along to her

[Nutty 2]

I need advice for someone I know. I have a girlfriend who has been married now for 3 months. She came home the other day, found out he has been on a chat site and porn site looking for woman from his country. That is very disrepectful to her. Now, she has put him out of the house, but found out he has to get divorce first before he can move back to his country? He also tore up AOS and other papers too when they got mad with each other.

Does anyone know what site I can tell her to look at or anyone have any idea of this procedure?

She does not trust him now and does not know what to do.

Please anyone reply and I will pass it along to her

The American wife should go to the local court house and ask how to file a divorce (family law division). Or she can seek a lawyer to file a divorce for her.

It is too bad that this foreign husband was a bad character. He must be a shame to his own family back home.

[salshi 1]

they need to sit down and make it work looking doesn't mean anything , so why ppl can't we advice her to sit down with him and get herself and him an other chance and see what the wrong , the relationship is between 2 so they need to sit down to talk

Edited January 17, 2008 by salshi

[brnidokiegurl 0]

this issue has been taken care of by those involved i believe we need to let it go to the land of old posts

[jasper 0]

this issue has been taken care of by those involved i believe we need to let it go to the land of old posts

well all i can say is that most of USC are used by Moroccans for green cards ,not 2 years green card the next one,sorry but this is true .

[athena_ny 1]

this issue has been taken care of by those involved i believe we need to let it go to the land of old posts

well all i can say is that most of USC are used by Moroccans for green cards ,not 2 years green card the next one,sorry but this is true .

The same could be said of Brazilians or Peruvians or whoever, if you want to talk about countries where perhaps there's a lot of people who want to come to the US. To say that all or even most are using USCs on countries promoting family immigration legally? Not only is it insulting to those of us who have real relationships, it's IGNORANT.

[Enlighten one :) 5]

She needs to take care of herself as obviously he was taking care of his own needs. If he was looking at woman from his own country it seems like that is he true attraction as commonly heard from woman who have been decieve through this process.

This is a hard pill to swallow, but she really needs to take care of her. She is who matters first. Contact the USCIS.

I need advice for someone I know. I have a girlfriend who has been married now for 3 months. She came home the other day, found out he has been on a chat site and porn site looking for woman from his country. That is very disrepectful to her. Now, she has put him out of the house, but found out he has to get divorce first before he can move back to his country? He also tore up AOS and other papers too when they got mad with each other.

Does anyone know what site I can tell her to look at or anyone have any idea of this procedure?

She does not trust him now and does not know what to do.

Please anyone reply and I will pass it along to her

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

they need to sit down and make it work looking doesn't mean anything , so why ppl can't we advice her to sit down with him and get herself and him an other chance and see what the wrong , the relationship is between 2 so they need to sit down to talk

Because LUCKILY, most people don't think like you and feel that the marriage shouldn't be over because he was looking at porn and for other women while MARRIED.

Hope she gets him deported ASAP.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

they need to sit down and make it work looking doesn't mean anything , so why ppl can't we advice her to sit down with him and get herself and him an other chance and see what the wrong , the relationship is between 2 so they need to sit down to talk

Because LUCKILY, most people don't think like you and feel that the marriage shouldn't be over because he was looking at porn and for other women while MARRIED.

Hope she gets him deported ASAP.

Most men, married or not look at porn and some women too, just because he looked at porn and was looking at women does not mean he has committed visa fraud.... she as a USC can not get him deported that is up to USCIS and the courts....

Kez

[brnidokiegurl 0]

This couple are now fine and doing ok (no its not me) so lets let this one die out and go away, they talked and worked thru some issues and life gones on

[diadromous mermaid 36]

I need advice for someone I know. I have a girlfriend who has been married now for 3 months. She came home the other day, found out he has been on a chat site and porn site looking for woman from his country. That is very disrepectful to her. Now, she has put him out of the house, but found out he has to get divorce first before he can move back to his country? He also tore up AOS and other papers too when they got mad with each other.

Does anyone know what site I can tell her to look at or anyone have any idea of this procedure?

She does not trust him now and does not know what to do.

Please anyone reply and I will pass it along to her

if he tore up the AOS papers, I presume you mean that he tore up the forms that had been filled in to file with USCIS? If so, she has no immigration issue, and neither does he. It is simple, he has no pending status.

Edited February 13, 2008 by diadromous mermaid

[*JG* 2]

This couple are now fine and doing ok (no its not me) so lets let this one die out and go away, they talked and worked thru some issues and life gones on

I wish them the very best.