Just Turkish

[Flothera 0]

Here you go: http://turkey.usemba.../k1k2102009.pdf

My wife said that at the interview the officer was mostly interested in our pictures together. I had sent along one that I took just before I got on the plane to leave her at the airport and we had tears on our cheeks. He said "What were you both so sad about?" She told him "We were sad because he was leaving and we didn't want to be apart." He said "Awwwwwwwwwwwwww..... approved!" There was no detailed interview for her or anything like that.

Thank you! And in all honesty - I "awwwwwwwww"ed too upon reading that %) It appears I must keep in mind to constantly remind my fiancé to actually USE his camera >_>

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

Hey there Flothera...age difference? me and Hamit are 7 years apart and they didn't even ask! I don't think it is much of an issue...I think the only time it becomes an issue or anything else for that matter is when the relationship isn't genuine and they will sniff that out correctly about 99% of the time...so no need to worry! Just be yourself, be honest and provide proof and oh yea, try to be there if possible!

[Flothera 0]

Hey there Flothera...age difference? me and Hamit are 7 years apart and they didn't even ask! I don't think it is much of an issue...I think the only time it becomes an issue or anything else for that matter is when the relationship isn't genuine and they will sniff that out correctly about 99% of the time...so no need to worry! Just be yourself, be honest and provide proof and oh yea, try to be there if possible!

Try to be there..? Oh, you mean the USC? %) %) I don't know. The age difference is 25 years; I'm 21, he's 46. Perhaps this fact will be all the more visible when/if he's there with me. I can only hope that it works out at this point... *sigh*

Edited April 21, 2010 by Flothera

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

I think because you are the female and younger it would work as that is the norm in Turkey: for the man to be a lot older so I think you are OK. It isn't necessary for the USC to be there, but it can help in some cases and also alleviates a lot of the stress if you are apart at this time and not only that, you can fly back together!

[Jenn and Fuat 2]

Hi Everyone,

Just wanted to drop in and let you know what's going on. Deb... as you will soon see, it has been way to busy for me to send you a PM and I apologize.

First, Fuat and I are doing well as far as his adjustment to the country is concerned. The last few weeks had one much better and we were finally settling into a routine.

But, I have some bad news I wanted to share. Last week, I was diagnosed with Ovarian cancer. I'm still in a little shock, and I can't believe Fuat is going to have to go through all this after everything we;ve done to try to be together. It just doesn't seem fair that we fought to be together for two years... he's here less than a month and then THIS.

I won't give a lot of depressing informaiton here, but if anyone wanted to keep tabs on what's happening I have a web site you can check.

It's www.kast2006.com

This is the web page we used for my sister, when she was diagnosed with Leukemia. We'll use it now to update people on me. I warn you.. the picture of me on the page is pretty darn funny and was taken when we were teenagers ( love my 1980's glasses ) but it's a great way for people to keep updated on me.

Now, I need to try to get everythign done for AOS, and mailed in, before I go into surgery on Friday. I am hoping we can get through all this without an interview, since I won't be able to travel for at least 6-8 weeks.. but I know that may not be possible.

I know he can stay in the country, but I am going to need him to be able to work ( and there is a job for him at my company).. so I NEED that AOS. Keep us in your prayers. Insallah this will all go well and we can start getting back to normal soon.

Take care,

Jenn

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Jenn,

My heart just broken for you!!! and am speachless....InshAllah this too shall pass and your health becomes strong. Ameen.

All my thoughts and prayer are with you, Fuat and your family. I have gone to the web site you listed, Thank you for sharing that with us.

It is so nice to hear that Fuat is doing well. AOS took us about 5 months, give or take a few days then ended with an interview. InshAllah you can get the paperwork in the mail so the process can be started while you are recovering.

I wont make this long. PLease let us know if you need anything.

Please take care

{{{hugs}}}}

Debbie

Hi Everyone,

Just wanted to drop in and let you know what's going on. Deb... as you will soon see, it has been way to busy for me to send you a PM and I apologize.

First, Fuat and I are doing well as far as his adjustment to the country is concerned. The last few weeks had one much better and we were finally settling into a routine.

But, I have some bad news I wanted to share. Last week, I was diagnosed with Ovarian cancer. I'm still in a little shock, and I can't believe Fuat is going to have to go through all this after everything we;ve done to try to be together. It just doesn't seem fair that we fought to be together for two years... he's here less than a month and then THIS.

I won't give a lot of depressing informaiton here, but if anyone wanted to keep tabs on what's happening I have a web site you can check.

It's www.kast2006.com

This is the web page we used for my sister, when she was diagnosed with Leukemia. We'll use it now to update people on me. I warn you.. the picture of me on the page is pretty darn funny and was taken when we were teenagers ( love my 1980's glasses ) but it's a great way for people to keep updated on me.

Now, I need to try to get everythign done for AOS, and mailed in, before I go into surgery on Friday. I am hoping we can get through all this without an interview, since I won't be able to travel for at least 6-8 weeks.. but I know that may not be possible.

I know he can stay in the country, but I am going to need him to be able to work ( and there is a job for him at my company).. so I NEED that AOS. Keep us in your prayers. Insallah this will all go well and we can start getting back to normal soon.

Take care,

Jenn

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lol...omgosh Erika I am a space head these days, pardon me please. I should keep my mouth shut sometimes

Oh Deb, Hamit finished his military duty! I was talking about 10K for IVF! You are too cute.

Congrats on the baby girl! So exciting. Better give us pictures when she's here lol!

Thanks Mindi!

Whatever happeed to Julia? How are ya Wendy?

How is it for all the newbies here?

[Ctrl+alt+delete 0]

Just wanted to say "HI" and welcome. Wishing you a speedy visa journey.

Take care,

debbie

Hello, people! Thought I'd say hi another Turkish k-1 filer here. I've had a look at the posts related to Turkey, and it seems like the Turkish beneficiary is usually male? o_O It's interesting reading the stories of those that have managed to go through with the process. Makes me think about potential problems with adjusting... Our process is in the NOA2 stage, we've just received approval on the 15th. Pretty quick. I can't help but expect a late RFE or something. Sure hope not... also pretty clueless about Packet 3, I think we'll end up waiting for the consulate to send us the list before starting to collect anything...

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

Oh damn it Jenn! I am so sorry. I am so pissed for you. I don't get life sometimes. I hope you make it through this. This is BS! Thanks for sharing your site with us. I will keep posted. Biggest hugs.

Deb no probs lol I love your new pic! You guys are beautiful!

[kennyandhandan 2]

Sorry to learn about the tough news, Jenn. Here's to a bright future.

[Gil + Pel 2]

I am so sorry to hear that Jenn... my prayers are with you! I hope you will get over this as quick as possible and become even healthier than you were!

take care pls!

I just wanted to let you know guys that I went to my interview today and I got approved!hopefully I will receive the GC soon enough.

[kennyandhandan 2]

Congrats on your successful interview!

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

CONGRATS!

[Gil + Pel 2]

Thank you kennyandhandan and ErikaandHamit !!!

[kennyandhandan 2]

Anatolian festival in Irvine this week:

http://www.anatolianfestival.org/

I guess they have an ayran fountain there