VERY Large AGE difference

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

good morning...got engaged a few months after knowing my fiance and filed for K-1 this month; I know we've not know each other for a long time at all, but we do communicate a lot (my cell) and I've been back to see him in Jamaica since meeting him the first time. We met 9/07, got engaged 11/07 we also have a 13 year age difference...I (female) 37 he 24. Just trying to calm my nerves.

[*JG* 2]

My husband and I have a 12 year age difference. Some days we see things differently. Mostly, it's a non-issue.

Communicate....communicate....communicate. That's my advice.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

My husband and I have a 12 year age difference. Some days we see things differently. Mostly, it's a non-issue.

Communicate....communicate....communicate. That's my advice.

Thank you. And thanks again, for the quick reply. Beautiful picture by the way. Beautiful couple.

[Shemmy 4]

My husband and I have a 12 year age difference. Some days we see things differently. Mostly, it's a non-issue.

Communicate....communicate....communicate. That's my advice.

Ditto. We have a 11 year age difference. Not a major issue.

[Sonshyne 2]

Communitcation and patience is the key

[clairern 0]

Welcome to VJ and goodluck on the rest of your journey!!!

[Jamaica to CT 0]

As far as the Jamaican embassy is concerned I've only heard of a couple of people where the "age" issue was addressed. Having said that I would certainly make sure that his maturity level falls into your acceptable parameters. Some men mature at an early age and some never do no matter how old they are

Welcome and best wishes on the rest of your journey!

[Tonya 0]

good morning...got engaged a few months after knowing my fiance and filed for K-1 this month; I know we've not know each other for a long time at all, but we do communicate a lot (my cell) and I've been back to see him in Jamaica since meeting him the first time. We met 9/07, got engaged 11/07 we also have a 13 year age difference...I (female) 37 he 24. Just trying to calm my nerves.

Hey Lawny,

I work here at the airport in Charleston, WV and met a lady here at my counter that is getting married in Jamaica in February. She is in her 40's (41-42) and he is in his mid 20's. I would not worry about it. Love has no boundaries. She is from Tennessee and of course, he is in Jamaica.

Peace & Love,

Tonya

[Sylvia_n_Joseph 3]

Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

Well, when u live in a culture where people turn their noses up and a 7yr difference it's different. And therefore you seek out people/persons that share you issue, so it is worth posting. My culture !# YEARS is a big deal to most. If ur dating someone younger than ur kid then there's a problem significantly or not...

[*JG* 2]

Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

Ha Ha Ha...................

Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

Well, when u live in a culture where people turn their noses up and a 7yr difference it's different. And therefore you seek out people/persons that share you issue, so it is worth posting. My culture !# YEARS is a big deal to most. If ur dating someone younger than ur kid then there's a problem significantly or not...

Well, in my case, that would just be plain SICK............

[Sylvia_n_Joseph 3]

My first husands third wife is the same age as our daughter. So there is a 20+ year age difference. However she is getting close to 30 which is when he runs. Next time he should hit the point when he is married to someone younger than his childern.

[*JG* 2]

My first husands third wife is the same age as our daughter. So there is a 20+ year age difference. However she is getting close to 30 which is when he runs. Next time he should hit the point when he is married to someone younger than his childern.

That is one of the funniest things I ever heard. Sad; but funny.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

************KISSTEET***********KISSTEET*********** bout something juicy

No badda wid dat...if sintin dem pon mi mind mi a go post it...mi wuda tell u fi go chuk aff a flat bridge, but u no know weh dat deh...anyways...

Ladies thanks for the advice....

[tnw 0]

Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

************KISSTEET***********KISSTEET*********** bout something juicy

No badda wid dat...if sintin dem pon mi mind mi a go post it...mi wuda tell u fi go chuk aff a flat bridge, but u no know weh dat deh...anyways...

Ladies thanks for the advice....

There's a 12 year difference with me and my fiance....communication and patience is key! No biggie...