A little pick-me-up

[Nana_Afia_B 0]

When I'm away from my hubby I miss his sarcastic sense of humor. I know that sounds strange..Sarcasm, how could that be funny?? But, I'm tellin' yall the things he says sometimes are hilarious! When we're apart I also miss how he always listens to me...even if CNN is on, or soccer, or football.

[Simply_Uno 1]

Can a guy add to this? I will.

I noticed most of the posts are from girls/ladies/women. You know what I mean. So here is something from a guy. What do I think about when I miss my missus? I will list two:

Firstly, I go through the pictures of us on my phone. Particularly the one I took of her while she was asleep. Looking all so chilled, reminding me of all the reasons why I am crazy about this woman. I have got one of those PDA phones, with the camera and huge screen that even lets one zoom in to pics. So I get to zoom in and take a closer look. Enough details for now…

Secondly, I think of one particular visit of mine to New York. It was a Friday and relatively quiet at work. By the way, this is in London. Right about lunch time I got an email advertising unbelievable flights to NY. So I called my brother-in-law (her brother in NY) and told him I was going to make a surprise visit, so he could pick me up at JFK. So I left the office, picked up a few things at home and caught a 4pm GMT flight and was in NY by 6.30pm EST. Her bro got me at the airport and we were home by 8pm.

Before I go on, you must understand that my missus is not use to surprises like this. She wasn’t expecting me in NY for another, maybe, 3 weeks. My/our flights are usually booked weeks/months ahead. She says I am a very organized person.

Anyway, so I arrived at the apartment and walked into the living room. I remember she was with a few friends and family watching the BET channel on TV. She said hello to her bro and then froze when she saw me. Then she started pacing backwards away from me and was looking around. I learnt later that at this time she was trying to confirm that every one in the room could knew I was there. She thought I was a ghost or something and was scared.

Now that was beautiful. How come the rest of the men can't stand up like that. That was truly elegant and heart warming. Cheers to you.(applaus) By this time, I realized or confirmed just how fragile she could be. So I walked up and gave her hug. You know the mushy details. With her slender arms around my neck, her heart still beating and the mixed look of surprise and elation on her face, I knew I would never forget this particular visit. I think of this day quite often.

Not long after this trip, we decided it was better if I moved to the US.

T

[jawi876 2]

Ok, so it's Friday and I don't want to be at work, and I'm missing my fiance somethin' terrible. So I decided to start this thread.

I want to know what things you think about your fiance when you miss him/her. Like is there a particular trait they have that you love? Or is there something SUPER cute that they do for you that makes you smile? Is there something about them that just makes your heart melt? What do you think about to help you when you miss them?

I'll go first (since I'm posting the topic).

There are so many things I love about him, but the one that's sticking out right now is that he tells me I can call him anytime. And when I've had a really busy day and can't call him until I get home from work, he STILL answers the phone and will talk to me for like an hour. Even when it's 2 or 3am for him.

Maybe it seems silly, but it just melts my heart that he will wake up in the middle of the night, just to talk to me.

Hey Queen Jenn! I love this topic.

There are a lot of things that I think about when I miss my honey. My honey is definitely not a people person. He doesn't quickly make friends, and his demeanor is always so serious. Anyway, from the very start, I have always been able to get him to smile. When he is very happy, he will dance for me and he comes close to me...kisses me or makes a funny face...then dances away just to repeat it all over again. It's the part of him that no one else gets to see but me.

The other thing he does all the time is fantasizing about winning the lottery. He will tell me all the things he wants to do for me, getting me the best doctors money can buy, helping me pack up my office, buying us our dream home here and in Jamaica, etc. etc. When I met his brother for the first time, he told me all the dreams A had for taking care of me. He told me that he has never seen him so in love with someone before, and I should not give up on him...that they would both take care of me. :wub:

Going to call my honey now! Thanks for this thread! See you around the Stella threads.

Jawi

[Queen Jenn 0]

That's cute about the dancing. I have an image in my head and it's making me giggle!!

I am so glad to hear that he is so in love with you and wants to take care of you. I hope you can get the medical help you need!!