they kill our love

[masry 0]

hi every one happy new year for all i am send my paper in 28 /7 /2007 and we recev the no1 in aug from this time i check the web site every day and no news and still pending and not make dicision yet and this kill our love i am talk to my fiance every day in phone and talk online she cry when i am ask her call immigration or do something she ask me after this wait if they not accept my paper and i canot go to her in usa what we will do she lost all her wishes about we can live together it 5 month now and we didnt know what we can do she worry about income she only make 17.000 $ this year

i want be with my love that is all i wish she can life here with me or in any where but she like life in her country for her kids i hope this paper come fast to egypt

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

Wow.

Well first of all, a 6-month wait for an NOA #2 is not unusual these days. The good news is, you're probably getting close to completion (barring any unforeseen circumstances.)

Second of all, if your fiancee's income is just $17,000 a year (AND she has KIDS to support) then she's most likely going to need a co-sponsor when you get to the AOS stage. Does she have one lined up yet ?

Best of luck.

[doodlebugg 10]

Do NOT let this visa process kill your love. Be strong and this too shall pass. Hang in there.

[Ta Ta 1]

I agree unless she has enough assets that could be quickly liquidated, does she have equity in a home she owns ? Savings ?

Please keep in mind that many couples go on AP after the interview which can take months.

One must find resolve in this journey to be patient and never give up no matter how long it may take.

It takes courage to see this through and is not for the faint hearted. Be strong.

Read this forum to become familiar with the waiting times and what to expect. It helps to not feel so alone and receive encouragement

and support. There are many couples here whose wait times are a year and more. Perhaps she can visit you again.

Best wishes for a speedy journey

[ForeverAmen 0]

I know the waiting is hard. Stay strong and continue to focus on what you have.

[yassmine2878 1]

Do NOT let this visa process kill your love. Be strong and this too shall pass. Hang in there.

Exactly. We've all been through those painful days (and some still are) that never seem to end and you feel like you will never be reunited with your fiance(e). So many of us have spent nights crying ourselves to sleep because we felt so helpless in the process. But the key is to push on. Do not allow it to kill your relationship, because it will if you let it happen, just like Bridget says.

As mentioned above, its not unusual to wait 6 months or more for NOA2. That was about how long we waited and it seemed like FOREVER. I also suspect some of the delay is due to the holidays. From November through the middle of January USCIS moves leven more slowly than usual because of all the government holidays.

Ask your fiance to come vist VJ and talk to some folks who have already gone through the process and/or have completed it. I know it was a huge help to me find other women in the same situation. Even though we cant make things move faster, a support group is immensely helpful. Inchaa Allah you will have that NOA2 very soon.

[amal 4]

good luck with your journey...its long and grueling but in the end is worth it.....

amal