activities with your SO

[Nessa 23]

strip poker

[Amby 490]

it's a bit of a hike but it's worth a trip to the getty museum

[Donna A 4]

i'm tired of the conversation:

him: "what do you want to do today?"

me: "i don't know, how about we see a movie?"

him: "nahhhhhh"

me: "okay. how about ____?"

him: "nahhhhhh."

me: "i don't know either. so what do YOU want to do?"

him: "i don't know."

are u living my life? this is exactally what goes on around here too.

[Nessa 23]

i'm tired of the conversation:

him: "what do you want to do today?"

me: "i don't know, how about we see a movie?"

him: "nahhhhhh"

me: "okay. how about ____?"

him: "nahhhhhh."

me: "i don't know either. so what do YOU want to do?"

him: "i don't know."

are u living my life? this is exactally what goes on around here too.

our life is exactly the opposite. We settle for not doing anything ever so we don't have to worry about finding something to do

[Amby 490]

that's about where we are now too!

[Marilyn. 340]

i'm tired of the conversation:

him: "what do you want to do today?"

me: "i don't know, how about we see a movie?"

him: "nahhhhhh"

me: "okay. how about ____?"

him: "nahhhhhh."

me: "i don't know either. so what do YOU want to do?"

him: "i don't know."

are u living my life? this is exactally what goes on around here too.

same here... it drives my hubby batty

[sereia 0]

well being depressed makes it all the more difficult to come up with anything (or to get the energy to DO IT even if we had an idea!)

i'm so glad i got all these ideas...(except the pregnancy one) and i hope i can convince my husband to try some of them with me! :energetic:

great news: my husband just got approved for his knee surgery so he'll soon be on his way in recovery and we can be active again!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

a few months ago i moved from busy NYC to the significantly slower life of orange county, CA. (to say the least, ha!)

i'm having a difficult time coming up with ideas for things to do with my husband that we either haven't done 1000000x or he doesn't poo-poo. my husband was very active in his home country. he was always doing something whether it was school, football, swimming, boxing, etc. now that he is here i think he has a case of culture shock/depression. he also hurt his knee and cannot do any of the physical activities he is used to until after recovery. so combining depression and physical pain has made it pretty difficult. i have run out of ideas for activities we can share together!

what kinds of activities/hobbies do you share with your SO?

i'm tired of the conversation:

him: "what do you want to do today?"

me: "i don't know, how about we see a movie?"

him: "nahhhhhh"

me: "okay. how about ____?"

him: "nahhhhhh."

me: "i don't know either. so what do YOU want to do?"

him: "i don't know."

then the frustration begins. i really need !

Jen, do you guys get the Laguna Beach community publication? There's city league sports that he could into.

[Alex+R 0]

But aren't you guys moving back here?

[sereia 0]

i'm not sure. he currently says he doesn't want to move to NYC. (long story) i really hope i can convince him though!

[Alex+R 0]

i'm not sure. he currently says he doesn't want to move to NYC. (long story) i really hope i can convince him though!

Me too!!

[Jeraly 4]

Haha - I love going to the grocery store when I am there too!!! And I can totally relate to this topic - we struggle too but I am hoping(!) it will be easier when we are together in person!!!

[almaty 19]

i'm not sure. he currently says he doesn't want to move to NYC. (long story) i really hope i can convince him though!

new york city suxs

[Jeraly 4]

I'm going to be living in Riverside/San Bernardino area when I move in the summer so will be lokoing for things to do there too I am sure!! I was there last summer for a couple months and I used to drive my OH mad wanting to go to the store as soon as he came in from work all day - all he wanted to do was put his feet up!!

[Nutty 2]

a few months ago i moved from busy NYC to the significantly slower life of orange county, CA. (to say the least, ha!)

i'm having a difficult time coming up with ideas for things to do with my husband that we either haven't done 1000000x or he doesn't poo-poo. my husband was very active in his home country. he was always doing something whether it was school, football, swimming, boxing, etc. now that he is here i think he has a case of culture shock/depression. he also hurt his knee and cannot do any of the physical activities he is used to until after recovery. so combining depression and physical pain has made it pretty difficult. i have run out of ideas for activities we can share together!

what kinds of activities/hobbies do you share with your SO?

i'm tired of the conversation:

him: "what do you want to do today?"

me: "i don't know, how about we see a movie?"

him: "nahhhhhh"

me: "okay. how about ____?"

him: "nahhhhhh."

me: "i don't know either. so what do YOU want to do?"

him: "i don't know."

then the frustration begins. i really need !

It does sound like your hubby is in culture shock or maybe a little depression. I can also understand when he says, "I don't know" to your question asking him what he wants to do. He just moved from his home he has known all his life and all the things he used to do. It takes a lot of time to develop a network of friends in the US and establish a new routine of past times.

Is he a nature lover? Does he like sports? Does he like art? Music?

Maybe he just needs to meet some other morrocans to feel a little more settled.