asking about the importance of snail mails, stamps.. etc

[lady_anne 0]

my fiance and I dont have much of snail mails with stamps. We communicate twice a day (before he goes to work - before my bedtime and before he goes to sleep - my lunchtime). Thats is everyday via skype and yahoo messenger. And of course, we got thousands of emails and chat conversations... But the only snail mail that i got from him was when he sent me the laptop via fedex. i got the receipt on that, but never postal stamps. I also got 4 cards from him, but with no stamps, as the 2 cards was with the laptop package and the other 2 were given to me in person when he came to visit me.

Do I really need those mails? will the emails not be enough to be evidence of ongoing relationship and communication? Please help me Vj family. Gracias!!

Edited December 29, 2007 by lady_anne

[chuck_n_rose 0]

Well since you are a July filer, you will probably get your NO2A real soon. You will still have about 2 months before interview. Tell him to start sending you letters via snail mail. The stamps only cost 90 cents. Even if its only a couple lines, it can't hurt. I hate to write letters, but I do it because my honey likes to receive and I know it will help during the interview process. Also, try and keep all the chat logs and print some out. Good luck to you.

[dwiz123 0]

my fiance and I dont have much of snail mails with stamps. We communicate twice a day (before he goes to work - before my bedtime and before he goes to sleep - my lunchtime). Thats is everyday via skype and yahoo messenger. And of course, we got thousands of emails and chat conversations... But the only snail mail that i got from him was when he sent me the laptop via fedex. i got the receipt on that, but never postal stamps. I also got 4 cards from him, but with no stamps, as the 2 cards was with the laptop package and the other 2 were given to me in person when he came to visit me.

Do I really need those mails? will the emails not be enough to be evidence of ongoing relationship and communication? Please help me Vj family. Gracias!!

If he had sent any money to you, you can use money tranfer receipts. Pictures of the two of you togrther would be good too. Print out some of your email conversations.

[Nagishkaw 510]

Writing letters can be a pain, but really those would help tremendously . They do not have to be long, maybe something very short, like mentioning how much you are missed, loved, reflecting on the time spent together on the last visit, etc., .... That is very solid proof and since you have some time before your interview, please take advantage of this opportunity .

[Jeraly 4]

I like to send my OH little cards - and I mean tiny ones! Just with a few lines in to say something nice and surprise him

[lady_anne 0]

well, i got 4 cards from him but no postal stamps. just worried. Do you think I will be denied without these snail mails?

[Nagishkaw 510]

Just be sure to build a strong case on what evidence you do have. Anything is better than nothing, and the more, the better.

[jessel chris 0]

I gave our snail mails to my Filipino pre-screener and some of those doesn't have postal stamp and I gave to her 3 pages of chat logs and it was fine...Don't worry too much if you have pictures together you will be fine...