Illegal Husband

[cb20om24 0]

Yes, my dear I DO think about status and if they are following the law. How can you say "if they are responsible" you do think about spending your life with them. Well your fiance/husband IS NOT responsible for having a FAKE SS card!

Yes I agree that was irresponsible for him to do but in the United States, you can't work, you can't get a lisense, and you can't even cash a check without a SS card and without an Id. So he felt like he had no other choice.

My sister's husband refused to get a fake SS card because he doesn't think that is right so he breaks his back and works six days a week/ 12 hour days just to bring home a normal amount of money.

So which situation is better and who are you to judge? These are both God fearing men and God is there only judge.

My sister has been happily married for a while, her husband has been supporting the family. They have two children; a 4 year old and a 3 month old. They have never been away from each other for more than a day. If he goes back to Mexico how is she supposed support the family and how is she supposed explain to their children why their dad is gone. She will not tell her children that he had to leave because other people doesn't want him here.

"Also we have a a problem he uses a fake soc. security card and resident card. Can they find out?"

As most of us here have to jump through all the hoops that USCIS deceide just to get our Residents Card... I have no simpathy for his situation... sorry

As my Greencard went missing in the mail.... for all I know it could have been doctored and is now being used by someone just like your fiance... That just makes it harder for all of us...

Kezzie

My fiance SS Card is his name and it comes from a number that DOESN'T EXIST. When it comes to people using SS cards that do exist I don't support it. Please don't judge him.

[000OOO000 0]

You bro-in-law doesn't think its right to have fake documents but hes here illegally? And neither situation is better they both needed to come here to start with the legal way. I can make my own judgments to topics as I wish. You posted. People on here go the legal route and you shouldn't always expect replies you just want to hear in your favor.

Edited April 20, 2006 by LMR

[zyggy 9]

Yes, my dear I DO think about status and if they are following the law. How can you say "if they are responsible" you do think about spending your life with them. Well your fiance/husband IS NOT responsible for having a FAKE SS card!

Yes I agree that was irresponsible for him to do but in the United States, you can't work, you can't get a lisense, and you can't even cash a check without a SS card and without an Id. So he felt like he had no other choice.

My sister's husband refused to get a fake SS card because he doesn't think that is right so he breaks his back and works six days a week/ 12 hour days just to bring home a normal amount of money.

So which situation is better and who are you to judge? These are both God fearing men and God is there only judge.

My sister has been happily married for a while, her husband has been supporting the family. They have two children; a 4 year old and a 3 month old. They have never been away from each other for more than a day. If he goes back to Mexico how is she supposed support the family and how is she supposed explain to their children why their dad is gone. She will not tell her children that he had to leave because other people doesn't want him here.

Well.. what's worse... leaving now and trying to do things the right way while you can stiull somewhat plan for the absence or.. wait until La Migra comes kocking on your door to forcibly remove him from the US... or he dies on the job because he was working in an unsafe working environment because he's an illegal...

How much longer do you and your children want to keep looking over your shoulder.. the more you delay.. the greater the chances that some much bigger calamity will come rolling along... bite the bullet and make things right.. because all you'd be doing is delaying the inevitable..

I'm sure you want what's right for your children and your family.. well a GC is the golden ticket to a more successful and prosperous live for all of you..

Edited April 20, 2006 by zyggy

[cb20om24 0]

Without trying to step on your toes, why are you posting to questions on illegals (your fiance, your sister's husband) on the same board? Is that a coincidence or are you out for a flame war? Are the issues somehow connected?

I posted about my fiance because I have got so stressed out that I made myself sick thinking about what to do. I wish my fiance was legal but he is not and I can't help who I fall in love with. I am just scared and I just want him to be legal so we don't have to worry all the time and so he can see his family again. So I thought it would hurt to ask for some advise.

When I posted about my fiance I thought maybe someone might know about my sister's situation so I thought I would ask.

Fair enough. Best thing to do for both of you would probably hire a lawyer and have him/her help you with making your spouses/fiances legal. Try posting in the waiver-forum for some more specific advice.

Oh, and normally people on this board are really helpful, but there's currently some frustration when it comes to illegals. Just ignore it; there's nothing you can do to change the fact that your fiance is illegal and most people know that finding someone's love doesn't always entail first checking their immigration status or criminal history.

Thank You So Much

God Bless You

[Created 6]

If I could not have come here legally then I would not be here and my husband would be living with me in the UK...

Yes I think people should be given help to do thing legally... but it just pees me off when I hear or see people saying what about our rights... IMO you gave up those rights the minuet you set foot in the US illegally... yoes you should be able to do all the paper work to become a PR but only after you have returned to your own country... as many on this forum have had to do...

Kezzie

I'm with my Husband of course and Kezzie on this

We are hopelessly in love.........we didn't plan to get married when we did, but we did it because it felt right for us, and we were 100% sure that our union would be a legal one. When we took these decisions, he was, and still is a LEGAL US Citizen, and was and am a LEGAL British Citizen. We took LEGAL advice on how we could LEGALLY be together - even got the $200 consultation fee refunded from a so called Lawyer to tried to show us how to do it ILLEGALLY!!!!. We never intended for me to stay in the US ILLEGALLY. We've paid the money for the applications and albeit IMPATIENTLY!!!, waited for due process of the immigration journey.

By all means straighten yourselves out - go back to your courntry and start over legally. It really is hard to know that my heart is aching LEGALLY all the way over here in England, and you're there trying to get information on how your illegal azz can stay put! It bother's me big time.

Before anyone shouts me down............remember...........this is a forum.

[Isabel 0]

Hi there,

Well just in general I don't support ppl who try to enter the US illegally since so many of us have to wait so long for the visa to be approved. Although I might understand it partly.

But I mean every single person has to go to the sometimes really nasty visa process. I just dont believe that breaking the law and go to America illegally will make things better. Actually with all those ppl who try to come to the US illegally, all other ppl who really try to get there legally have to take the consequences by longer waiting times...more paperwork etc. I really think it is kinda selfish in some ways to just believe I am the only one who counts...but honestly there are other ppl out there. And you as an illegal person actually stop those ppl from being happy. All the visa stuff goes more detailed....they want more stuff and more....they talk about fraudaulent and pass new immigration laws.

Why not take the legal way and rather wait a few months? I mean everybody who goes through that, suffers in a specific way but comeon it is not the end of the world. Soon u will be together. And I would rather take that way instead of getting caught by the gouvernment cos I was there illegally...and the things getting really bad.

Well that is just in general. There are so many circumstances to be considered. It is impossible to put that in one threat.

Take Care and good luck

Isabel

Edited April 20, 2006 by Isabel

[babybunny 2]

My sister is married to a illegal immigrant from Mexico. They went to one attorney and she told them that they would have to wait for the law to change. So basically it sounds like he wont be able to ever become legal. Does any of you know what they could do?

Thank You

THEN HE SHOULD TAKE HIS AZZ BACK TO MEXICO!!!

I am so sick and tired, as we all are of hearing about the plight of these illegals here. What about all the people on here (my wife included) who are doing thing legally toi get here? Ones who have to juggle two households until their paperwork is approved? I mean all the marches that they have for the rights of these people These people are here ILLEGALLY and they should suffer the consequences of any Lawbreakers here. In a perfectly mandated society everyone who is here illegally should be put out and not be able to re-enter for ten years. Just think how that would be for the US economy

I can tell i am gonna have to take some advil..brb.. hold that thought ok.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Try Tylenol they work better for immigration issues.....

Kezzie

[Bootylicious!! 2]

First of all I am sorry we have so many people on here who can't be helpful and only want to gripe you out. There is a whole waiver section on this forum, I suggest you come over there. We don't hold anything against people and we try to help them out. There are lots of us over there that are married to once illegal aliens. It is a long hard road but you can get your husband here legally.

As for every one else, yes, he may be here illegally, but they are obviously trying to do it the right way. Instead of yelling and cursing at them, why not try to help them out so he can be legal. We all know, no one on here likes illegals, but for gosh sakes, if you run them off when they are trying to get legal how is that helping.

[joej 0]

My sister has been happily married for a while, her husband has been supporting the family. They have two children; a 4 year old and a 3 month old. They have never been away from each other for more than a day. If he goes back to Mexico how is she supposed support the family and how is she supposed explain to their children why their dad is gone. She will not tell her children that he had to leave because other people doesn't want him here.

Sorry, I can't sympathize either. Because we went the legal route, my husband missed the birth of our child and much of the critical bonding untill he got here. Are her children better than mine? In fact there are many people with children that are separated because they are doing things LEGALLY. I'm not trying to be harsh, but isn't illegal immigration partly to blame for the long wait periods for those who enter legally?

[Consejero de Inmigracion 0]

If you know they are illegal why marry them in the first place?

I love intelligent people...

[sowens 0]

What a situation! First I sympathize with all who are going thru this process, you included....wait your not going thru this, your looking for the easy way out. There is no easy way out. He has a SS card but from somebody that doesnt exist? Hmmm that doesnt seem right. I'm sure he would miss his kids, just as my daughter misses her father, just as I miss the children we should be having right now but cant because we are apart! There are so many people here that are trying to make a life for themselves, juggling two households and such , oh yeah and we are doing it all the while being seperated from our spouses, no one said it would be easy, but we are doing it. Face the music, the longer you wait the harder it will be and the consequences may be worse. Sorry but just as I would say to anyone else looking for a shortcut----BACK OF THE LINE PAL.

[iceyspots 0]

sigh..

[KarenCee 3]

sigh..

ditto

[Kez/JWolf 6]

The OP may have got more support if she had not gone down the road of saying its ok coz he is using a made up SSN and a fake Greencard..... I for one have major objections to people who make things harder for those of us who had had to go through the AOS...

Kezzie