NAME CHECKS ON K1 BEFORE INTERVIEW??

[sarah and hicham 3]

I guess I just do not understand why you feel you need to post anything. She never asked you to support or accept her in any way in her response to someone else. Sometimes I just get the feeling you like to be mean to others to make yourself feel better or more powerful or something.

I didn't ask for you to respond to my post to Jean, and yuo did. I have the same rights here, lady.

Lady!

No one is saying you do not have the right I am just wondering why you feel the need to hurt other people for your own personal pleasure.

Are you hurt now too?

[SandyNJack 5]

No, why? Would that give you some sort of perverse pleasure too?

[Jenn! 918]

Ummmm, you guys.....

Edited December 19, 2007 by Jenn!

[sarah and hicham 3]

No, why? Would that give you some sort of perverse pleasure too?

Dear Sandy,

You're digging too deep. I get no pleasure out of saying what I think is true. I'm blunt so get over it. Everyone has their own style of writing and support and yours and mine are clearly different.

Ummmm, you guys.....

Mhmmm.

[SandyNJack 5]

Just as you say what you have to, so do I and I do not have to get over it and will not get over you being rude and unkind to people who did not ask for your support or opinion in the first place. She never made any statement in this thread for you to respond to her in that manner.

[~~~water~~~ 0]

[~Jess~ 0]

Oh God, another thread to the toilet.

Carry on.

[Zee Bee 61]

Faith started this thread so that she could get some support and some answers. Now this thread has turned into a back and forth mudslinging fest.

Can we please try and get back on topic here (we may have passed that point but I may as well try)? Faith is still at NVC going through AP and I propose we get this thread back to that which it was intended. She still needs us.

Personally I find it disrespectful to the OP and others who have/will find the responses here useful to continue in this manner.

So

Faith, besides you and the other couple I know of I have not seen anyone else who has been put on AP at NVC recently. I did see one couple who was in the same situation (they were from China) and they were at NVC for 20 weeks at the beginning of 2007. I don't know if this helps or not but it kind of gives you a little idea.

Hang in there

[~~~water~~~ 0]

your right !!! and thats why I said what I said in the first place...

Faith I hope you get good news soon.

Water

[sarah and hicham 3]

Just as you say what you have to, so do I and I do not have to get over it and will not get over you being rude and unkind to people who did not ask for your support or opinion in the first place. She never made any statement in this thread for you to respond to her in that manner.

That's your choice Sandy.

I didn't realize that we're not allowed to reply to a post unless granted permission by the poster. I assumed that because this is a public board that anyone could reply to anything they wanted to. I couldn't care less if others disagree with people's posts, that's life.

[amrssnowangel 0]

Thank you to those for your support..we are still in AP..I guess I'll check back after the holidays...its just been miserable with his dsl out...limited dial up..(we were spoiled..long story)...but we are managing it. I will book a flight after the first of the year for sometime January..decided not to wait around for them to send the petition on to Cairo..I can always manage to get back for a short visit for the interview. Good news is...My daughter with her two sons will be coming to stay with us for a while..so I'll have help that came from a totally unexpected source...praise God...

[doodlebugg 10]

Thank you to those for your support..we are still in AP..I guess I'll check back after the holidays...its just been miserable with his dsl out...limited dial up..(we were spoiled..long story)...but we are managing it. I will book a flight after the first of the year for sometime January..decided not to wait around for them to send the petition on to Cairo..I can always manage to get back for a short visit for the interview. Good news is...My daughter with her two sons will be coming to stay with us for a while..so I'll have help that came from a totally unexpected source...praise God...

I think a visit will definitely help!

[SandyNJack 5]

Thank you to those for your support..we are still in AP..I guess I'll check back after the holidays...its just been miserable with his dsl out...limited dial up..(we were spoiled..long story)...but we are managing it. I will book a flight after the first of the year for sometime January..decided not to wait around for them to send the petition on to Cairo..I can always manage to get back for a short visit for the interview. Good news is...My daughter with her two sons will be coming to stay with us for a while..so I'll have help that came from a totally unexpected source...praise God...

We are still in AP too but after the interview. I will be going back to Alex probably around March if my honey is not here by then. All we can do is be patient and try not to drive each other crazy. lol Let go and let God!

[amrssnowangel 0]

Well, I called NVC today...after trying and holding for 20 mintues I got a rude man. Now, I used to teach customer service, manage in a call center and developed the quality assurance department, so Im very stingy with my customer service I recieve. I called because my SO realized that they dont have his full name on the papers we got. They leave one out...now that can make ALL the difference in the world on a name check with any MENA man...so I called. This guy..had the guts to tell me that I have to get his passport, mail them a copy...now does anyone know how LONG that can take?? I said..why?? You HAVE the right information in the file and YOU have the file..just fix it...he tried to get a supervisor (after 10 seconds of looking..)..said one was not available. I stated my concern that IF we were in a name check...they may be checking the wrong name...get this...he told me their process isn't any of my concern.. I said..oh yes it sure is...supervisor please...i'll hold...he argued I said...SUPERVISOR PLEASE, ILL HOLD. He puts me on hold FIVE SECONDS...comes back says one isn't available..I said I wasn't on hold long enough for him to even check..that I'll hold while he finds one..he hung up on me. Called back...20 minutes of the same..got one of the girls I talked to before..sweet. Said she doesn't understand WHY i was told I was in NAME CHECKS..cause its a k1..its being PROCESSED. That when the files come in...if all the papers look ok..it goes back out..if there is ANY questions on the paper work..its put aside to be manually gone through..and that takes 2-4 weeks average. I said..well I personally know of someone that is on K1 and has been stuck there a YEAR. She said that would be VERY rare and she's never heard of it...I said..well obviously it does...and thats my biggest fear is that they will stick us in this for MONTHS. She stated again very nicely that it SHOULD be only 2-4 weeks. I feel a bit better...but not till we get to cairo...i was EXPECTING THAT WAIT....NOT this one....I hate surprises..dont handle these well...(can you tell???? LOL) Anyways..jsut wanted to update ya all...thats for the support and advice.....

can we just stick to the AP subject though and just ALL get along??? This is stressful enough without the bickering.... :whistle:

[MelindaandTarek 0]

Faith,

I hope your petition is on its way to Cairo soon - - (((HUGS))) we are all here for u girl!!!! we shall get to Cairo together and through this tog:) melinda -