Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)

[dancehallquana 5]

hey guys! so much reading to catch up on. Mothers-in-law can be crappy. So far I havent had any real issues with mine..but we are very very different.

Thank you ALL for the PMs and prayers! They did not go unnoticed!!

The update is that Marsh and I have decided to work things out and we just really reevaluated some things and I am just confident that the Lord is going to bring what we need.

On a less great note, Marsh runs taxi (illegally of course...) and got a ticket and has to go to court (or whatever they call it there) for it. he THEN got pulled over again.

So..my question... how will this affect the police record and how will THAT affect us getting the VISA?

I dont know what I would do without you guys... probably live in ignorance and stress myself to death!

Good Luck 2 both of u

I pray that God blesses your dedication to your marriage SG and that he continues to direct u in the way that u should go..

[IrieCat 2]

So drama of the day..Kashi tell him mumma seh mi preggo...her reply was "so, how it ago go wid the mining" WHAT how it a go now..mi a ask u ar nobody fi nuttin ? AND him a tell mi seh she a seh if him want to leave him can leave don't feel like him affi stay... a wah di rass dis pon mi soul dear Lord ! oonuh no tell mi dis blasted ooman no waant mi trace har and dat ago cause problems btw me and mi husband...aww bwoy

I say GOD BLESS HER cause some days she actually makes my MIL look tame in comparison!

Sorry, Kimmy.

lol, what JG your MIL is now wearing an halo

Boy I am glad we have no cheesecake Factory around here... I did make brownies today... will make my daughter bring a couple for her teacher tomorrow so I dont eat them all!!!

All the talk about MILs and I get a little worried. My future MIL is so sweet. I am the 1st woman Louis introduced to her. When I talk to her on the phone she is always so nice and wants to know how her baby (my daughter) is doing. I really think she is a nice woman and genuinly likes me! I hope I am not just wishful thinking. But I also see what a sweet guy Louis is so he must have got it from somewhere. Louis' dad .... always asking him where all his grandkids are.... Louis can't be any son of his without his seed spread all around (louis has who knows how many siblings from dad)!!!

I guess I just need to count my lucky stars!!!

My ex's mother .. she is another story! Don't get me started there. Says she loves me God Bless blah blah blah .... but will bad mouth me in a minute! I am the b*c that tries to get money from her son yadda yadda yadda ....

No your the b#@$h that wan'ts her son to support his daughter.

Yeah! and I still don't get anything!

Funny I just got an e-mail from her ... It was all " I thank God for you and God bless you" ..... I totally respect religion and I am a spiritual person but it really gets me when people throw around the God this and that and then don't practice what they preach!!!

Ugh!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Lawd....been on the phone all day with my friend.

About 3 months back she got a call from a friend of hers that her husband's car was parked outside his baby mother's house when he was supposed to be on night shift.

She went there and confronted him, and him tell her all kind of foolishness bout loving her and how he made a mistake.

She asked me for my advice, mi did done tell her LEAVE HIM.

She went back with him, I supported her and now she fine out that he got the baby mother pregnant again.

She was scared to call me, she thought I was going to cuss har for being so stupid.

Nuh my business if she wah mek a damn fool of herself.

Look like she FINALLY come her senses and leaving him for good this time, she said she can't deal with him having another child out there......

In other news, my son has done VERY well these past few days at school, hopefully we're over that hiccup!

[brownnskinn 0]

awrite eerybody decided fi ignore mi OK...well my husband come from Town....where does "UR" SO/husband come from ..u no affi be specific mi nah try find him/her trust

I didn't know who you were talkin to. My husband is from westmoreland, lucea? Mi ask you dis days ago and u nah ansar.

[brownnskinn 0]

a wonder who a did 1 anonymous and who a di 1 guest dat won't leave...

Mi lef de compuda on when mi went for a nap I'd be one of the ananymous one at the bottom.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Lawny u trace di nasty gyal yet ?

Kim....u'll be fine it's ok if u don't want anyone or anything near you..I went/going thru ddat with this one..Kimora I wanted sex all the time ..i mean i didn't want his hands near me on nothing....just make sure he's on the same page as ur feelings

Bwoy mek mi tell onuh mi a chat bout did dutty ooman and go lay dung..why dream mi a trace out har rass...no lie mi swear mi did a talk inna mi sleep di way mi did bex and finally a tell her pisa a mi rass mind

English..I'm happy ur is better thank God cause u really gotta stay on top of them

by did way ur friend would have only left when she was ready...(more time it too late)....

awrite eerybody decided fi ignore mi OK...well my husband come from Town....where does "UR" SO/husband come from ..u no affi be specific mi nah try find him/her trust

I didn't know who you were talkin to. My husband is from westmoreland, lucea? Mi ask you dis days ago and u nah ansar.

really ? Brownniw u know if di brain did a wuk mi woulda answer

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Lawd....been on the phone all day with my friend.

About 3 months back she got a call from a friend of hers that her husband's car was parked outside his baby mother's house when he was supposed to be on night shift.

She went there and confronted him, and him tell her all kind of foolishness bout loving her and how he made a mistake.

She asked me for my advice, mi did done tell her LEAVE HIM.

She went back with him, I supported her and now she fine out that he got the baby mother pregnant again.She was scared to call me, she thought I was going to cuss har for being so stupid.

Nuh my business if she wah mek a damn fool of herself.

Look like she FINALLY come her senses and leaving him for good this time, she said she can't deal with him having another child out there......

In other news, my son has done VERY well these past few days at school, hopefully we're over that hiccup!

So, typical. I'm glad I found out my son's father was engaged to someone else in Jamaica (while engaged to me) before I married him.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

a wonder who a did 1 anonymous and who a di 1 guest dat won't leave...

Mi lef de compuda on when mi went for a nap I'd be one of the ananymous one at the bottom.

ok one duppy identified

Lawd....been on the phone all day with my friend.

About 3 months back she got a call from a friend of hers that her husband's car was parked outside his baby mother's house when he was supposed to be on night shift.

She went there and confronted him, and him tell her all kind of foolishness bout loving her and how he made a mistake.

She asked me for my advice, mi did done tell her LEAVE HIM.

She went back with him, I supported her and now she fine out that he got the baby mother pregnant again.She was scared to call me, she thought I was going to cuss har for being so stupid.

Nuh my business if she wah mek a damn fool of herself.

Look like she FINALLY come her senses and leaving him for good this time, she said she can't deal with him having another child out there......

In other news, my son has done VERY well these past few days at school, hopefully we're over that hiccup!

So, typical. I'm glad I found out my son's father was engaged to someone else in Jamaica (while engaged to me) before I married him.

Lawny everyday ur EX mek mi waan just find him...wah mek some man tan so..my gosh

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Spoke to my frienf who had the miscarriage today..she's a mess..the baby heartbeat stopped..no spottin nothing..the doctor called her Friday and told her the heartrate was a little slow..and yesterday she went and there was none..but she's going to fine

[SupportOAFJF 0]

So drama of the day..Kashi tell him mumma seh mi preggo...her reply was "so, how it ago go wid the mining" WHAT how it a go now..mi a ask u ar nobody fi nuttin ? AND him a tell mi seh she a seh if him want to leave him can leave don't feel like him affi stay... a wah di rass dis pon mi soul dear Lord ! oonuh no tell mi dis blasted ooman no waant mi trace har and dat ago cause problems btw me and mi husband...aww bwoy

I say GOD BLESS HER cause some days she actually makes my MIL look tame in comparison!

Sorry, Kimmy.

JG a she mi sarry fah to tell u the truth i just like talking about cause funny well sometimes !!

[brownnskinn 0]

Why did i call the cardiologist and say my daughter needs to see the doctor Bc she's having chest pain again and they tell mi they cannot get her in until May .Health care sucks.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Lawny u trace di nasty gyal yet ?

Kim....u'll be fine it's ok if u don't want anyone or anything near you..I went/going thru ddat with this one..Kimora I wanted sex all the time ..i mean i didn't want his hands near me on nothing....just make sure he's on the same page as ur feelings

Bwoy mek mi tell onuh mi a chat bout did dutty ooman and go lay dung..why dream mi a trace out har rass...no lie mi swear mi did a talk inna mi sleep di way mi did bex and finally a tell her pisa a mi rass mind

English..I'm happy ur is better thank God cause u really gotta stay on top of them

by did way ur friend would have only left when she was ready...(more time it too late)....

awrite eerybody decided fi ignore mi OK...well my husband come from Town....where does "UR" SO/husband come from ..u no affi be specific mi nah try find him/her trust

I didn't know who you were talkin to. My husband is from westmoreland, lucea? Mi ask you dis days ago and u nah ansar.

really ? Brownniw u know if di brain did a wuk mi woulda answer

Lawd...Kimmy mi just reach a di house and my son father a gwaane wid im madness again, so mi tell im fi leave. Come show up a di house wid im new ooman. Two a dem come to the door, im want fi get di rest a im tings...girlllllllllll (MI AFI ASK AR WEH SHE A TEP FUT GO) Hear she....oh, I don't have to put up with this BS...mi seh u bettah no come back a mi yard.

Den mi an di tinkin gyal a wurk catch up. She wah mi fi wurk late..mi tell ar no, mi afi get my son...bway mi a tell u...dis is not di day fi ramp wid mi...hear di tinkin ooman (DON'T HE HAVE A FATHER)! ALL BBCLAAT loud in the meeting. I didn't want to do it, but mi tell fi guh *(&$ ar MAN! Hear her SHE'S CUSSING ME IN JAMAICAN...SHE'S CUSSING ME IN JAMAICA...my other co-workers including her boss just laughed and said, I though Jamaicans spoke English, that sounded like English, it was just a little fast. So, they asked me what I said, because TINKIN ooman was very upset. I told them I told her to mind her business and walk out.

So, let's see what happens tomorrow. Tinkin dutty bbbclaat gyal wah come ruin my vibes and just start wuk deh...dat naw go mek it. Mi well wah poor some PINE SOL pon ar RASS!

Then I went to David's Bridal for a fitting for my girlfriends wedding. We all there waiting for my girlfriend to come out with her dress and waiting for them to bring out our bridesmaid dress...her di fass chini ooman...(mi did a stand up by the wedding dressing SMALL SIZE or MAGAH SIZE), ohhhhhhhh no...U BIG GIRL...come I show u nice dress...U BIG GIRL, mi no even ansah ar ---- SERENITY NOW...

Look like mi day just full a crasses

I need a huggggggg

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Spoke to my frienf who had the miscarriage today..she's a mess..the baby heartbeat stopped..no spottin nothing..the doctor called her Friday and told her the heartrate was a little slow..and yesterday she went and there was none..but she's going to fine

Hey Kimmy,

That's what happened to my little girl at 4.5 months. Everything was fine, then 3 days later she died (no heartbeat). I was heartbroken. I dreamt about here before I lost her. She was nice and brown with ALOT of hair. That's why I had so much heartburn. Wow, that was October 9, 2000 4:45pm. I'll never forget the day.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Hi hope everyones day is gooding splendiferous

Got a new word-of-the-day calender, there, JALOVE?

Splendiferous??????

hahh yup i tend to make up words lol it sounded good ok guys i have some questions

1. is it normal not to even want to have sex while pregnant i feel weird lately i dont like anything anymore things i used to do, foods nothing!!! i feel like another person

2.is it possible ill never get sick ( i pray not) cuz right now i feel ok just smells bother me chris cologne and all the bath and body works lotions, fish smells and grease and even peopls voices at work. This one cackling hen is annoying me to no end i wish she would stop talking!

i remember the first couple months i didn't want mike anywhere near me...i felt he had done enough then hormones kicked in....

it is possible to not get sick...i know some who have no problems at all...i know chicken still bothers me the smell the look and taste yuck....and your sense of smell will become very strong as well....you will be able to smell things that a lot can not....

ok i thought it was just me lol he says ur pushing me awayyyy

i had to say i have no idea whats goin on with me i jsut feel weird and anything i used to like i dont anymore even food and boy i can eat lol so i know somethin wrong im not as tired as i used to be though but i sleep almost till time for work lately so we will see what comes as time passes

Even'n Jah'love

Smells killed me during all 3 of my pregnancies. I had to give up all my Bath and Body Works products, could only take a bath with DOVE, no perfume, and HELL no to MENS' colongone (would throw up instanly). I loved fried FISH, but if I smelled it I would get lightheaded (can't explain it). What I loved, I could not eat or even stand to smell it anymore. Like ackee and saltfish, loved it, but when I was pregnant it was the worst tasting thing. But give me a pice of PONE or potatoe pudding and I was done for the day. That was one of the few thing that stayed in my stomach. So, when my dad when to Jamaica while I was pregnant I told him to bring ALOT of it back.

[nannygirl82 0]

Hi hope everyones day is gooding splendiferous

Got a new word-of-the-day calender, there, JALOVE?

Splendiferous??????

hahh yup i tend to make up words lol it sounded good ok guys i have some questions

1. is it normal not to even want to have sex while pregnant i feel weird lately i dont like anything anymore things i used to do, foods nothing!!! i feel like another person

2.is it possible ill never get sick ( i pray not) cuz right now i feel ok just smells bother me chris cologne and all the bath and body works lotions, fish smells and grease and even peopls voices at work. This one cackling hen is annoying me to no end i wish she would stop talking!

i remember the first couple months i didn't want mike anywhere near me...i felt he had done enough then hormones kicked in....

it is possible to not get sick...i know some who have no problems at all...i know chicken still bothers me the smell the look and taste yuck....and your sense of smell will become very strong as well....you will be able to smell things that a lot can not....

ok i thought it was just me lol he says ur pushing me awayyyy

i had to say i have no idea whats goin on with me i jsut feel weird and anything i used to like i dont anymore even food and boy i can eat lol so i know somethin wrong im not as tired as i used to be though but i sleep almost till time for work lately so we will see what comes as time passes

tell him to just wait be patient with you....your body is going through a lot of changes in the first couple of months..a likkle baby is starting to grow and form...two books that i like a lot that have helped me are What to Expect when expecting and the other not sure if it is still in print because i got it at a 2nd hand store is Idiot's Guide to Pregnancy...i read both of those books all the time!!