Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Hey ppl... I really need some help. I've been searching for a good barber in the Minneapolis/St. Paul area from since I got here in Dec. I found a decent barber in St. Paul but today the guy shaved my mustache making me look like some sort of red baron pirate. I definitely won't be going back. If you guys have any suggestions, please don't hesitate to share them. Thanks in advance!!!

I hope you're DANIEL :lol:

Sorry, can't answer your question though, fass mi a fass

right

JENGS...u nuf fi deh rest...wah u a do pon line...u feel bettah?

[Jengles 0]

yes I do believe it is has alot to do with how the women are most times. alot of them make these feel it is ok to drop off money on friday and carry one single life..as long as money coming in an him a mine har she good..until him breed a next ooman dem cuss (she and di ooman) and still shack up wid this man..unbelievable..In JA SOME men still stuck in the MI A MAN A YAAD ERA...AND U DEAR NOT SHOW U LOVE UR BABY MODDA..exactly baby modda cause most girls that's all they demand..nothing else..no body nah treat mi like beer when mi expensive champagne....so di ooman dem fi get blame partially...den again u have men that are "americanized' and up to the time on things cause it seem like parts a JA wayyyy back a time..and tend to treat their lady like u see on TV..sometimes not all bad

but can these men cope when a woman doesn't need their money??? that is the part where i keep getting stuck.

You mean your husband coping with not needing your money? First of all, I wish I was there. Even though I make twice as much as my husband between my two jobs, we ALWAYS need his money. (Did I tell you guys he got another raise? Ready for this?????? 5 cents. ####### are we supposed to do with a 5 cent raise? We've been laughing ever since!)

It's not all about money, Jengles. It's about him working hard to do his part, whether we really need it or not. I'll be damned if I am working my tail off and he's not doing the same. And, it's about him doing his part at home when I can't. Like I always say, I married a partner. I did not marry to have another child to take care of! Luckily, this is not one of our issues.

no, me not needing his money

[Yaads 0]

Morning!

Congrats Shauna! Wonderful news and one less stress!!!

Congrats Dee! I hope that CSC does you well

Daniel (or Mel ) Andre couldn't really find a barber here that he liked and that didn't cost an arm, leg and your first born so we went out and bought a really nice shaver that he uses at home so he does it himself most times.

Don't get me started on the whole "women are agressive" thing...don't get me started

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awrite...onuh baxide..try dah one yah

Another Adult prohram

Who actually wrote the word program above? Not very good advertising if they did it.

ahahaahaa..a me..oonuh get di drif..baxide

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yes I do believe it is has alot to do with how the women are most times. alot of them make these feel it is ok to drop off money on friday and carry one single life..as long as money coming in an him a mine har she good..until him breed a next ooman dem cuss (she and di ooman) and still shack up wid this man..unbelievable..In JA SOME men still stuck in the MI A MAN A YAAD ERA...AND U DEAR NOT SHOW U LOVE UR BABY MODDA..exactly baby modda cause most girls that's all they demand..nothing else..no body nah treat mi like beer when mi expensive champagne....so di ooman dem fi get blame partially...den again u have men that are "americanized' and up to the time on things cause it seem like parts a JA wayyyy back a time..and tend to treat their lady like u see on TV..sometimes not all bad

but can these men cope when a woman doesn't need their money??? that is the part where i keep getting stuck.

You mean your husband coping with not needing your money? First of all, I wish I was there. Even though I make twice as much as my husband between my two jobs, we ALWAYS need his money. (Did I tell you guys he got another raise? Ready for this?????? 5 cents. ####### are we supposed to do with a 5 cent raise? We've been laughing ever since!)

It's not all about money, Jengles. It's about him working hard to do his part, whether we really need it or not. I'll be damned if I am working my tail off and he's not doing the same. And, it's about him doing his part at home when I can't. Like I always say, I married a partner. I did not marry to have another child to take care of! Luckily, this is not one of our issues.

no, me not needing his money

Jengs mi know wah u mean exactly..JG put her twist on it ...Being able to survive by ourselves w/o financial help from our SO at this point..cause pretty much u still had all the bills u had b4 he came nothing much chnaged..except maybe the baby..and WE still can do it baxide by wiself

[Jengles 0]

lawny,

i was on my way to work and i called my boss, to tell him i was going to be a few minutes late and the man got scared and ordered me back home. i muss sound like sh!t

i tried to edit my response to Jomo's girl but my computer is acting up.

I wil always need money, let me just state that fact for the record and big up all professional golddigger. but most of us were handling life before we met these men.

no men coping with the fact that we as women do not their money to survive.

and what is a 5 cents raise supposed to do, that doesn't even equal an extra gallon of gas in the car at week time

yes I do believe it is has alot to do with how the women are most times. alot of them make these feel it is ok to drop off money on friday and carry one single life..as long as money coming in an him a mine har she good..until him breed a next ooman dem cuss (she and di ooman) and still shack up wid this man..unbelievable..In JA SOME men still stuck in the MI A MAN A YAAD ERA...AND U DEAR NOT SHOW U LOVE UR BABY MODDA..exactly baby modda cause most girls that's all they demand..nothing else..no body nah treat mi like beer when mi expensive champagne....so di ooman dem fi get blame partially...den again u have men that are "americanized' and up to the time on things cause it seem like parts a JA wayyyy back a time..and tend to treat their lady like u see on TV..sometimes not all bad

but can these men cope when a woman doesn't need their money??? that is the part where i keep getting stuck.

You mean your husband coping with not needing your money?

First of all, I wish I was there. Even though I make twice as much as my husband between my two jobs, we ALWAYS need his money. (Did I tell you guys he got another raise? Ready for this?????? 5 cents. ####### are we supposed to do with a 5 cent raise? We've been laughing ever since!)

It's not all about money, Jengles. It's about him working hard to do his part, whether we really need it or not. I'll be damned if I am working my tail off and he's not doing the same. And, it's about him doing his part at home when I can't. Like I always say, I married a partner. I did not marry to have another child to take care of! Luckily, this is not one of our issues.

DWLLLLLLLLLLLL (JG), but for real ####### are is one suppose to do with 5 bbclatt cents. I hope and pray that my fiance will be able to get a decent job, since he works for the airport in Jamaica. Damn ya'll might have seen him a few times (FLAGGING in a plane). I agree 100%. That was the major problem with my son's father (I felt like I had another child to take care of) and when I would confront him about it, he had an attitude and tell mi seh mi a treat im like one PICKNEY...well grow the frig up.

did he start the dance, signal the plane, I COULD NOT RESIST

[*JG* 2]

yes I do believe it is has alot to do with how the women are most times. alot of them make these feel it is ok to drop off money on friday and carry one single life..as long as money coming in an him a mine har she good..until him breed a next ooman dem cuss (she and di ooman) and still shack up wid this man..unbelievable..In JA SOME men still stuck in the MI A MAN A YAAD ERA...AND U DEAR NOT SHOW U LOVE UR BABY MODDA..exactly baby modda cause most girls that's all they demand..nothing else..no body nah treat mi like beer when mi expensive champagne....so di ooman dem fi get blame partially...den again u have men that are "americanized' and up to the time on things cause it seem like parts a JA wayyyy back a time..and tend to treat their lady like u see on TV..sometimes not all bad

but can these men cope when a woman doesn't need their money??? that is the part where i keep getting stuck.

You mean your husband coping with not needing your money? First of all, I wish I was there. Even though I make twice as much as my husband between my two jobs, we ALWAYS need his money. (Did I tell you guys he got another raise? Ready for this?????? 5 cents. ####### are we supposed to do with a 5 cent raise? We've been laughing ever since!)

It's not all about money, Jengles. It's about him working hard to do his part, whether we really need it or not. I'll be damned if I am working my tail off and he's not doing the same. And, it's about him doing his part at home when I can't. Like I always say, I married a partner. I did not marry to have another child to take care of! Luckily, this is not one of our issues.

no, me not needing his money

Forgive my rambling ways today.....What you said is what I actually meant to say. Took a Tylenol 3 a couple hours ago and it's kicking in big time right now.

That is what I was responding to with what I wrote above. It's not about how much money someone makes, it's about if they are contributing to the household. Men who judge their worth on how much they make are just immature in my opinion.for to get there and if he isn't willing to because he feels everything is beneath him, well....I haven't got the time for that.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Morning!

Congrats Shauna! Wonderful news and one less stress!!!

Congrats Dee! I hope that CSC does you well

Daniel (or Mel ) Andre couldn't really find a barber here that he liked and that didn't cost an arm, leg and your first born so we went out and bought a really nice shaver that he uses at home so he does it himself most times.

Don't get me started on the whole "women are agressive" thing...don't get me started

GET STARTED YARDIE...GET STARTED

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yes I do believe it is has alot to do with how the women are most times. alot of them make these feel it is ok to drop off money on friday and carry one single life..as long as money coming in an him a mine har she good..until him breed a next ooman dem cuss (she and di ooman) and still shack up wid this man..unbelievable..In JA SOME men still stuck in the MI A MAN A YAAD ERA...AND U DEAR NOT SHOW U LOVE UR BABY MODDA..exactly baby modda cause most girls that's all they demand..nothing else..no body nah treat mi like beer when mi expensive champagne....so di ooman dem fi get blame partially...den again u have men that are "americanized' and up to the time on things cause it seem like parts a JA wayyyy back a time..and tend to treat their lady like u see on TV..sometimes not all bad

but can these men cope when a woman doesn't need their money??? that is the part where i keep getting stuck.

You mean your husband coping with not needing your money? First of all, I wish I was there. Even though I make twice as much as my husband between my two jobs, we ALWAYS need his money. (Did I tell you guys he got another raise? Ready for this?????? 5 cents. ####### are we supposed to do with a 5 cent raise? We've been laughing ever since!)

It's not all about money, Jengles. It's about him working hard to do his part, whether we really need it or not. I'll be damned if I am working my tail off and he's not doing the same. And, it's about him doing his part at home when I can't. Like I always say, I married a partner. I did not marry to have another child to take care of! Luckily, this is not one of our issues.

no, me not needing his money

Forgive my rambling ways today.....What you said is what I actually meant to say. Took a Tylenol 3 a couple hours ago and it's kicking in big time right now.

That is what I was responding to with what I wrote above. It's not about how much money someone makes, it's about if they are contributing to the household. Men who judge their worth on how much they make are just immature in my opinion.for to get there and if he isn't willing to because he feels everything is beneath him, well....I haven't got the time for that.

Agreed. but then again ..most of these men are JAMAICAN MEN..who r to be very proud..they r the providers..that's what they learned and no nothing else mostly.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

lawny,

i was on my way to work and i called my boss, to tell him i was going to be a few minutes late and the man got scared and ordered me back home. i muss sound like sh!t

i tried to edit my response to Jomo's girl but my computer is acting up.

I wil always need money, let me just state that fact for the record and big up all professional golddigger. but most of us were handling life before we met these men.

no men coping with the fact that we as women do not their money to survive.

and what is a 5 cents raise supposed to do, that doesn't even equal an extra gallon of gas in the car at week time

yes I do believe it is has alot to do with how the women are most times. alot of them make these feel it is ok to drop off money on friday and carry one single life..as long as money coming in an him a mine har she good..until him breed a next ooman dem cuss (she and di ooman) and still shack up wid this man..unbelievable..In JA SOME men still stuck in the MI A MAN A YAAD ERA...AND U DEAR NOT SHOW U LOVE UR BABY MODDA..exactly baby modda cause most girls that's all they demand..nothing else..no body nah treat mi like beer when mi expensive champagne....so di ooman dem fi get blame partially...den again u have men that are "americanized' and up to the time on things cause it seem like parts a JA wayyyy back a time..and tend to treat their lady like u see on TV..sometimes not all bad

but can these men cope when a woman doesn't need their money??? that is the part where i keep getting stuck.

You mean your husband coping with not needing your money?

First of all, I wish I was there. Even though I make twice as much as my husband between my two jobs, we ALWAYS need his money. (Did I tell you guys he got another raise? Ready for this?????? 5 cents. ####### are we supposed to do with a 5 cent raise? We've been laughing ever since!)

It's not all about money, Jengles. It's about him working hard to do his part, whether we really need it or not. I'll be damned if I am working my tail off and he's not doing the same. And, it's about him doing his part at home when I can't. Like I always say, I married a partner. I did not marry to have another child to take care of! Luckily, this is not one of our issues.

DWLLLLLLLLLLLL (JG), but for real ####### are is one suppose to do with 5 bbclatt cents. I hope and pray that my fiance will be able to get a decent job, since he works for the airport in Jamaica. Damn ya'll might have seen him a few times (FLAGGING in a plane). I agree 100%. That was the major problem with my son's father (I felt like I had another child to take care of) and when I would confront him about it, he had an attitude and tell mi seh mi a treat im like one PICKNEY...well grow the frig up.

did he start the dance, signal the plane, I COULD NOT RESIST

JENGS...u sure seh u no drink di whole bakkle a NIQUIL...no he didn't, but some days he says he feels like acting a fool out there. Jengs, mi nevah know seh Jamaica sun so STRANG...my fiance use to be brown skinned...now im darkkkkkkkk (from working outsdie)...mi tell im when the COLD wedah a foreign lick im...im ago look like one DUPPY

[Yaads 0]

If have something to say...I am going to say it! Most of us were raised by extremely STRONG Mothers and the days when we stand by and have our man talk for us are LANG GONE!!! When women started joining the workforce in droves ...we had to start speaking up or get pushed dung!

Bless,

Gill

Ok mi cyaan resist...mi muss put inna thoughts pon dis...

I was raised to be very independent and know how to take care of myself. For the most part I raised myself in my early teenage years and beyond. I had to grow up fast and take care of my bro and sis because my parents were so messed up and weren't really around to do the parenting much. So I grew up taking care of myself and not taking any bs. Andre says that he one of the reasons that he was attracted to me in JA was because I could handle myself well and didn't put up with anything...I spoke my mind and stood up for myself. Not sure if that makes me aggressive...it is just the way I am.

I do know that Andre has said many times that he feels like sometimes I don't need him. That I can handle myself and my business and don't have to rely on him for anything. While I do rely on him for many things I guess he is intimidated by the way I take care of business and the resources I have acquired over the years and that I really don't need him to survive, know what I mean?

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

yes I do believe it is has alot to do with how the women are most times. alot of them make these feel it is ok to drop off money on friday and carry one single life..as long as money coming in an him a mine har she good..until him breed a next ooman dem cuss (she and di ooman) and still shack up wid this man..unbelievable..In JA SOME men still stuck in the MI A MAN A YAAD ERA...AND U DEAR NOT SHOW U LOVE UR BABY MODDA..exactly baby modda cause most girls that's all they demand..nothing else..no body nah treat mi like beer when mi expensive champagne....so di ooman dem fi get blame partially...den again u have men that are "americanized' and up to the time on things cause it seem like parts a JA wayyyy back a time..and tend to treat their lady like u see on TV..sometimes not all bad

but can these men cope when a woman doesn't need their money??? that is the part where i keep getting stuck.

You mean your husband coping with not needing your money? First of all, I wish I was there. Even though I make twice as much as my husband between my two jobs, we ALWAYS need his money. (Did I tell you guys he got another raise? Ready for this?????? 5 cents. ####### are we supposed to do with a 5 cent raise? We've been laughing ever since!)

It's not all about money, Jengles. It's about him working hard to do his part, whether we really need it or not. I'll be damned if I am working my tail off and he's not doing the same. And, it's about him doing his part at home when I can't. Like I always say, I married a partner. I did not marry to have another child to take care of! Luckily, this is not one of our issues.

no, me not needing his money

Forgive my rambling ways today.....What you said is what I actually meant to say. Took a Tylenol 3 a couple hours ago and it's kicking in big time right now.

That is what I was responding to with what I wrote above. It's not about how much money someone makes, it's about if they are contributing to the household. Men who judge their worth on how much they make are just immature in my opinion.for to get there and if he isn't willing to because he feels everything is beneath him, well....I haven't got the time for that.

Agreed. but then again ..most of these men are JAMAICAN MEN..who r to be very proud..they r the providers..that's what they learned and no nothing else mostly.

Kimmy,

Some a di yard man dem mi know seh dem naw tek any and any kind a wurk...(misconception)...u can come American an get any jab u want widout experience (LIEEEEEEEEEEE) dat. Mi no know weh some a dem git dat fram...some a dem mi know seh dem naw wuk pon trash truck, naw clean up aftah no badi, naw wash pot ar wipe floor...all mi afi seh is (A WASH POT) put mi through college and meking up bed a hotel.

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Lawny..u nah lie..but dat a one ting mi tank God that fi mi man..he will do any work as long as the salary is good enough..anything fi put food pon him table..mi waan si di man w/o some hook up of stumble pon a job..fi get good job w/o experience

Yaards mi know exactly wah u mean ..

Edited February 26, 2008 by kimmykashi

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

If have something to say...I am going to say it! Most of us were raised by extremely STRONG Mothers and the days when we stand by and have our man talk for us are LANG GONE!!! When women started joining the workforce in droves ...we had to start speaking up or get pushed dung!

Bless,

Gill

Ok mi cyaan resist...mi muss put inna thoughts pon dis...

I was raised to be very independent and know how to take care of myself. For the most part I raised myself in my early teenage years and beyond. I had to grow up fast and take care of my bro and sis because my parents were so messed up and weren't really around to do the parenting much. So I grew up taking care of myself and not taking any bs. Andre says that he one of the reasons that he was attracted to me in JA was because I could handle myself well and didn't put up with anything...I spoke my mind and stood up for myself. Not sure if that makes me aggressive...it is just the way I am.

I do know that Andre has said many times that he feels like sometimes I don't need him. That I can handle myself and my business and don't have to rely on him for anything. While I do rely on him for many things I guess he is intimidated by the way I take care of business and the resources I have acquired over the years and that I really don't need him to survive, know what I mean?

Dang Yardie, come outah mi head...

That was the main problem with my son's father and I. I make twice the amount of money he does, when he met me I had my own house, car and bank accounts. Mi nevah did a brag...but a fi mi and mi wuk hard fi it... Since he was new to the country I tried to teach him things his bbclatt ex-wife didn't so, he would get defensive and seh mi a treat im like one pickney. My grannie always tell mi fi mek sure mi can mine mi self...give dem di respect dem want as a man, but MEK sure dem respect u ... mek dem earn di respect. Some men CANNOT HANDLE A WOMAN THAT HAS IT ALL TOGETHER...some want a woman who i totally dependent on them. I don't know how to let the man take control, I'm afraid to, I like to be in control, but I know at time I might have to step back a bit...mi still a STRUGGLE -- a so dem build some a we

[Yaads 0]

Hey Kim, hear that all the time..I'm American by naturalization so mi no count.. but mi wi switch both ways inna hart beat...u waan dutty lets do it..one ting dow mi nah live no cayliss life wid no man a yaad..u nah go have me a yaad and feel u waan do SINGLE ppl tings hell no..we are separate but yet one....

So true...if yuh waan live like yuh single by all means do that...being single. You can't have all the perks of marriage and all the perks of bachelorhood Pick one and stick with it.