Why you got Married/engaged to your spouse/fiance?!!!

[polarbear 0]

I got engaged because he asked

But seriously, we had already been seperated 9 months when I went to Egypt to visit him. When I got off the plane I was so nervous I almost wanted to turn around and get back on a plane, but when I first saw him at the exit I was calm and felt like I had come home.... Haven't had any doubts since We were "officially" engaged the next day and wanted to get married in Egypt before I left, but it wasn't in Allah's plan.

I would do it all over again. I knew (somewhat, kinda) what I was getting into when we started this journey (thought it would take 6 months ), but he's worth it.

[Aymerlu 3]

Ok i've promissed you guy i'ill tell my story

i posted that topic for a reason and that im a bit Sad and confused!

I met my wife online i enjoy chatting to her looking at her gorgeous face enjoying our jokes whatever were silly these jokes but we enjoyed saying it and seeing eachother laugh. although all of this but we did not involve in any relation yet just we both felt we miss eachother like be in touch so after that i noticed i miss her and that if im away from my pc i remember her and i just wana back home to talk to her and she was the same so it started to show something... will tell the rest after i tell the problem

as i used to chat online i talked to other women before my wife i used to be flirty with them i admit i had some relations online all knew i was not serious about it except one relation it been since three years with a married woman she was over the 40s i was still 22s we talked she shared me her problems i felt sorry for her in th begning and then turned to be a relation but i thought it would be the same as teh others so i will just cheer her sad days for a while so she will turn away , but it did not happen , to tell you something about me i dont like to piss people off i love to go slowly without noise , tried to leave her dont come online for long time but she never stoped getting in touch with me she only stuck in my words and felt i have to pay of for my fault i said ok may its your fate , was sadly trying to convince myself that i will be happy , in the same time i did not stop or chatting to other women i knwo what will you say (another cheating dog) okk but i did not realise i was this i thought im helping and sharing love online that i believed love online will never work and they we will only forget about this relation with time as its not real ... ok back to the story this lasy did not knwo what she wants she was still married and dont wana get divorce so hell it was knocking in me shes stil marroed and wants to talk to me(to make me feel good she told me her husband beats her alot and harrass other women) so i just asked if you wana me then get divorce and come to me anyways it did not happen she only wants to talk to me via phone and cheer up after that i gave up and said okk you just come to egypt and lets see if will we adapt , and warned her we wont do anything wrong you will just come to visit egypt so said okk and booked the tickets ....

now lets back to my wife in this time my relation wth my wife started to get stronger but for me i thought its only an online relation and hmmmm even if i have feeling for her but i doubt it might be a deceiving feeling and it will fade away after time, but happened what i did not excpect just did not find any word to tell her i miss you just to say i miss youu do you think thsi can be love then she was there to say the same but hmmm we both used to joke much we did not assure it was real only we doubt eachother , the bomb was when she decided she wana come to see me i said omg that greattttttt i never expected that i will see that aweseome girl face to face (we did not talk about any relation) only she will come , so baby when will you come.....the biggest bomb she will come one week before the other lady arrival ...there we go i was upset about the idea but i said okk no problem i will meet my baby we ill take tour in egypt and then she will back usa with good memories with me and about the other lady hmmmmm it will be the same just lets see what she wantsss.......hmmmm i will complete it later inshallah

And this my friends I'm sure is a reason why there is so much AP in Egypt. Seems there have been quite a few egyptian men that do this. So not cool.

For the OPs question. I would marry my husband again and again. He is the half that completes me.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Ok i've promissed you guy i'ill tell my story

i posted that topic for a reason and that im a bit Sad and confused!

I met my wife online i enjoy chatting to her looking at her gorgeous face enjoying our jokes whatever were silly these jokes but we enjoyed saying it and seeing eachother laugh. although all of this but we did not involve in any relation yet just we both felt we miss eachother like be in touch so after that i noticed i miss her and that if im away from my pc i remember her and i just wana back home to talk to her and she was the same so it started to show something... will tell the rest after i tell the problem

as i used to chat online i talked to other women before my wife i used to be flirty with them i admit i had some relations online all knew i was not serious about it except one relation it been since three years with a married woman she was over the 40s i was still 22s we talked she shared me her problems i felt sorry for her in th begning and then turned to be a relation but i thought it would be the same as teh others so i will just cheer her sad days for a while so she will turn away , but it did not happen , to tell you something about me i dont like to piss people off i love to go slowly without noise , tried to leave her dont come online for long time but she never stoped getting in touch with me she only stuck in my words and felt i have to pay of for my fault i said ok may its your fate , was sadly trying to convince myself that i will be happy , in the same time i did not stop or chatting to other women i knwo what will you say (another cheating dog) okk but i did not realise i was this i thought im helping and sharing love online that i believed love online will never work and they we will only forget about this relation with time as its not real ... ok back to the story this lasy did not knwo what she wants she was still married and dont wana get divorce so hell it was knocking in me shes stil marroed and wants to talk to me(to make me feel good she told me her husband beats her alot and harrass other women) so i just asked if you wana me then get divorce and come to me anyways it did not happen she only wants to talk to me via phone and cheer up after that i gave up and said okk you just come to egypt and lets see if will we adapt , and warned her we wont do anything wrong you will just come to visit egypt so said okk and booked the tickets ....

now lets back to my wife in this time my relation wth my wife started to get stronger but for me i thought its only an online relation and hmmmm even if i have feeling for her but i doubt it might be a deceiving feeling and it will fade away after time, but happened what i did not excpect just did not find any word to tell her i miss you just to say i miss youu do you think thsi can be love then she was there to say the same but hmmm we both used to joke much we did not assure it was real only we doubt eachother , the bomb was when she decided she wana come to see me i said omg that greattttttt i never expected that i will see that aweseome girl face to face (we did not talk about any relation) only she will come , so baby when will you come.....the biggest bomb she will come one week before the other lady arrival ...there we go i was upset about the idea but i said okk no problem i will meet my baby we ill take tour in egypt and then she will back usa with good memories with me and about the other lady hmmmmm it will be the same just lets see what she wantsss.......hmmmm i will complete it later inshallah

And this my friends I'm sure is a reason why there is so much AP in Egypt. Seems there have been quite a few egyptian men that do this. So not cool.

Dispicable.

[HannahP 119]

I don't think that I could ever marry a person "just" for love. It takes a lot more than love to make a relationship work!

[Ban Hammer 13,110]

I don't think that I could ever marry a person "just" for love. It takes a lot more than love to make a relationship work!

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[Aymerlu 3]

I don't think that I could ever marry a person "just" for love. It takes a lot more than love to make a relationship work!

If not marrying for love, then what are you marrying for?

[mybackpages 0]

I don't think that I could ever marry a person "just" for love. It takes a lot more than love to make a relationship work!

If not marrying for love, then what are you marrying for?

economic security? emotional support? compatibility? Lots of resons to marry besides love

BUT I think what HannahP is saying is what I have said many times- love isnt enough to make a marriage work. Love is good, but you need to think through this contract with reason not just emotion.

[allousa 1]

For many reasons I married Hicham and we've been married for 6 years now....although half have now been apart. But I must say, it was his fabulous looking bum that caught my initial attention!!!!!

[PetraPerson101 0]

I don't think that I could ever marry a person "just" for love. It takes a lot more than love to make a relationship work!

If not marrying for love, then what are you marrying for?

economic security? emotional support? compatibility? Lots of resons to marry besides love

BUT I think what HannahP is saying is what I have said many times- love isnt enough to make a marriage work. Love is good, but you need to think through this contract with reason not just emotion.

Definitely - incompatible personalities, erm, will lead to disaster.

Values, personality, education, intelligence, beliefs - plenty of things will add up.

Edited November 2, 2007 by KyanWan

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I don't think that I could ever marry a person "just" for love. It takes a lot more than love to make a relationship work!

If not marrying for love, then what are you marrying for?

economic security? emotional support? compatibility? Lots of resons to marry besides love

BUT I think what HannahP is saying is what I have said many times- love isnt enough to make a marriage work. Love is good, but you need to think through this contract with reason not just emotion.

Definitely - incompatible personalities, erm, will lead to disaster.

Values, personality, education, intelligence, beliefs - plenty of things will add up.

Do not marry the one you can live with.. Marry the one you cannot live without

.....and I did...

[morocco4ever 63]

Wow, this is the reason I believe 100% that once you are in a comitted relationship you are not to "chat" with other women (or men as the case may be). Your wife deserves better than this, and any woman or man that carries on when either married or with a married person has no moral values, and will eventually get what they deserve.

As for the initial question, I married for love, and because I finally found a man that I could TRUST with my heart.

Would I do it again? Hell yes....he has shown over and over again that he can be trusted with my heart.

[miles 0]

hmmmm....hmmmm I believe that He ismy "SOUL MATE" We were enaged 20 years ago for 6 years ...parted from each other... because were still young to marry...and won't you believe that we met again after 13 years...with the same feelings...like nothing hapen got crazy again with each other...born our cute son...I think that's why We married...to give name for our son ...and most of all...We don't want to be separated from each other again...Hop-efully to live happily ever after.....

Miles

[SandyNJack 5]

I never thought I would ever marry, I always thought I would be the old crazy lady on the block with the 20 cats. LOL

I finally found someone that I could love and loved me that made me feel at peace inside. I am not insecure or crazy about this relationship it just feels right. I have never felt that I needed a man to be complete but it is like together we are one.

Would I do again? But of course!

[sarah and hicham 3]

Basically I married Hicham for his curly hair. I thought it would look cute on our kids someday.

[~Jackie~ 30]

If not marrying for love, then what are you marrying for?......................sex.

J

jk..........$ and sex