My journey with a Moroccan is over

[Becky&Sam 0]

I am so sorry for your pain!! Be strong for the new life growing and focus on that!!

I hope that things get better for you soon!!

[Mrs Alford 0]

I am so sorry to hear that you are going through all of this. My heart and prayers go out to you and your baby. Hang in there and take extra good care of yourself. Stay STRONG.

[Meriem_DZ 37]

I am so sorry this has happened to you. I hope you and your baby will be alright.

Meriem

[a1angied 0]

My prayers are with you and your baby that God gifted to you. You are the one that knows what is in your heart and your mind. I pray that God will give you the comfort and guidence to do His will. I know at times in our life we wonder why things are happening in our life, for what reason. Well it have already been said in time it will become known to you. Right now I know that doesn't bring comfort but know you have a great support system here and you are welcome to pm me and I am sure many others. We are all God's children and that makes us connected.

The best medicine is to let it out cos it will speed the healing.

[Zee Bee 61]

[Ban Hammer 13,105]

i'm sorry to hear this

[sarah and hicham 3]

I agree with what others have said and I am very sorry that this happened. Hang in there, we're all here for you.

[polarbear 0]

Again, I am in agreement with what was already said. You are in my prayers.

[keamoussaoui13 0]

Embarressed for what? That person doesn't deserve some one like you this is they type of sh*t that messes it up for the good men who are really out there looking for a good woman. I hope the baby will be strong and healthy.

Keandra

I am hurting very badly right now. My husband left yesterday after 10 months. I am 8 weeks pregnant. I found out he was cheating on me and he immediately said he wanted a divorce and to get rid of the baby. I am writing my story in MS Word right now and I will post the entire story as soon as I can stomach to get it all out. Right now I'm feeling used and betrayed and deeply hurt. I gave everything to him and spent time, money and emotions getting him here. Things were just going to turn around for us and I found out I was pregnant. We have been trying for 7 months. He wanted a baby more than anything. When he found out, he cried and called all of his family and friends and they were all happy and crying about it too. Then he started cheating on me 2 1/2 weeks ago. His family is furious with him (I called and told them).

I am canceling the AOS tomorrow. Our relationship was all a lie.

I posted under a new ID because I am so embarassed. Things were going ok until all of this.

Just needing to get some empathy because I'm feeling pretty worthless right now.

[sereia 0]

I'm so sorry for your experience and you felt embarrassed to show us your real ID. We're all here for you if you need anything... this is not your fault!

DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU!

[chiquita 0]

oh i am so sorry this has happened to you. i know you may hear this over and over and perhaps feel we cant possibly understand and while that my be true we can empathize with you and support you. you have a life growing in you. how wonderful is that? the father is the one who is going to end up losing, not you. you chose to keep your child despite the circumstances. i too cant get over---get rid of it. heartless. he doesnt deserve you sweetie.

you need to take care of yourself and your little one growing inside. try to elimiate as much stress as you can. i know, easier said than done. but you made one strong decision to keep your child you can take baby steps(no pun intened) each day to heal from the pain he has caused you and then remember what you do have. you did not cheat, he did. it is natrual to go through these feelings you are having after a break up. the best thing for you is to be good to you. do things that make you feel good. do what you have not done. go places--see people. do what brings a smile to your face even if it is just once a day. time to pamper YOU!

lol---this may sound weird--but bear with me. another wonderful 'treatment' so to speak is what i call MIRROR work. its sounds silly and if you really do it you will feel silly at first but then you will come to relize the truth of what you are saying. i learned this after my devastating divorce years ago. it was amazing how it helped me. i hope you try it to see if it helps you.

ok here it is>>>

you stand--sit whatever feels better to you---i always stood until i got brave enough to sit, look at yourself---really look at yourself. then start talking. say positive things. you are a wonderful person---say your YOUR name. your name are a beautiful person. like i said it can be difficult at first but keep going. do it each day. add as many positives about yourself---doesnt matter if you believe them just speak them to YOU.

if it helps then good. you will have a better day and there is another added benifit---you will have had your pep talk to set the tone for your day. you can add other stuff to this routine but this is the main thing---you build you back up!!

remember there are many here who will also do the same. when it gets tough give it to us!! my heartfelt prayers to you and your baby.

chi

[salshi 1]

Dear itsfinallyover ,

im really sorry to hear this. this is NOT your fault. No matter what happens in a marriage, cheating is WRONG as is the

fault of the person that does the cheating. not every realtion is meant to be , try to think if ur baby and take care of

yourself , i hope things will solve im sure u love each other

Edited October 24, 2007 by salshi

[SaadBell 0]

I am so sorry for you, these guys are good at what they do, he might have not really taken in how much change this would be for him. I have heard countless storeis like this, myself have my own nightmere. So at least his family is on your side, he is a ######, looks like he was looking for a green card. I have heard that in Morocco they all are at the cafes looking for american women. They find one and they are in love and ready for marriage, only to come here, and later send for their real muslim wife. If you feel like talking just throw me a line, you are doing the right thing by warning others, that this does happen alot. I also had the young men tell me that they look for women that american men would not take so they feel they are deopserate.

I am feeling ya

Sherry

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[yassmine2878 1]

I am so sorry for you, these guys are good at what they do, he might have not really taken in how much change this would be for him. I have heard countless storeis like this, myself have my own nightmere. So at least his family is on your side, he is a ######, looks like he was looking for a green card. I have heard that in Morocco they all are at the cafes looking for american women. They find one and they are in love and ready for marriage, only to come here, and later send for their real muslim wife. If you feel like talking just throw me a line, you are doing the right thing by warning others, that this does happen alot. I also had the young men tell me that they look for women that american men would not take so they feel they are deopserate.

I am feeling ya

Sherry

It is unecessary to make such a crass generalization. Its offensive to those of us who married Moroccan men and Im sure it doesnt make the OP feel any better.

For the OP... my prayers are with you. From one mom to another, I hope you soon find peace and tranquility and take joy in the new life you are bringing into the world.