The Vent

[Krikit 1,164]

So sorry to hear of your medical issues, Ron. Hope you are feeling better, soon, and that 2008 turns out to be your best year yet. ((((((BIG HUGS)))))))

[Ron/Sharon 0]

So sorry to hear of your medical issues, Ron. Hope you are feeling better, soon, and that 2008 turns out to be your best year yet. ((((((BIG HUGS)))))))

Thank Krikit, The reason I was taking the meds will be healed in two to three weeks, the result of taking the meds should be cleared up in the next week hopefully without further follow-ups necessary. We are also hoping 2008 the early part will be ours, not all of it we only need a few minute but the choise of timing is in the hands of God and the USCIS team and I hope they can come together and negotiate in our favour soon.

It is nice hearing from you I hope all is well

Ron

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Hi Carla

Things aren't as perfect as they can be right now, pain and no pills, now that sucks big time. I also hope that the tests show the meds were incompatible so I can at least get something less strong until I return to the other meds if possible. A bad reaction right now would be good news so lets hope that is the problem and nothing else. How can those hugs not be felt there are so many that they would warm the coldest heart, thank you for sent what was and is need, I don't know what Sharon would say if she knew I was hugging someone other than her but I do she would appreciate someone caring enough to do so in her absence. I feel disruptive at times when I post because like when I posted a day or two ago there was a theme going and interrupting a flow is not my favourite thing to do but this time it felt necessary to relieve the build-up. I'll spend the weekend taking care of Sharon and she will take care of me.

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I love you and everyone else here, and I hope everything is going as well as possible for everyone during the journey.

Take care of yourself and each other

Ron

Class will out itself and you Sir are true class.

All I can say is thank you and I hope I can live up to your words.

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Hi Carla

Things aren't as perfect as they can be right now, pain and no pills, now that sucks big time. I also hope that the tests show the meds were incompatible so I can at least get something less strong until I return to the other meds if possible. A bad reaction right now would be good news so lets hope that is the problem and nothing else. How can those hugs not be felt there are so many that they would warm the coldest heart, thank you for sent what was and is need, I don't know what Sharon would say if she knew I was hugging someone other than her but I do she would appreciate someone caring enough to do so in her absence. I feel disruptive at times when I post because like when I posted a day or two ago there was a theme going and interrupting a flow is not my favourite thing to do but this time it felt necessary to relieve the build-up. I'll spend the weekend taking care of Sharon and she will take care of me.

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I love you and everyone else here, and I hope everything is going as well as possible for everyone during the journey.

Take care of yourself and each other

Ron

Class will out itself and you Sir are true class.

All I can say is thank you and I hope I can live up to your words.

Rest assured that you already have, you already have.

[L_n_O 3]

why is no one posting today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Yesterday at work Sharon wasn't feeling well at all (tired to point of collapsing) after being there 2 hour, she waited for a replacement and then went to the hospital emergency to get checked out and was told it would take as much as 3 month to recover from her illness, this is not good as all it does is add more stress in her life and it is stress that she is trying to recover from. Right now she on her way to her doctor since she (doctor) was called by the hospital yesterday and told to see the doctor first thing this morning.

I know everyone well wish well and a speedy recovery, that is what I will tell her on your behalf. Thank you for tolerating my latest post as they are not the most pleasant reading material available.

Always thinking of you and loving you very much even if not said often enough.

Ron

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

Yesterday at work Sharon wasn't feeling well at all (tired to point of collapsing) after being there 2 hour, she waited for a replacement and then went to the hospital emergency to get checked out and was told it would take as much as 3 month to recover from her illness, this is not good as all it does is add more stress in her life and it is stress that she is trying to recover from. Right now she on her way to her doctor since she (doctor) was called by the hospital yesterday and told to see the doctor first thing this morning.

I know everyone well wish well and a speedy recovery, that is what I will tell her on your behalf. Thank you for tolerating my latest post as they are not the most pleasant reading material available.

Always thinking of you and loving you very much even if not said often enough.

Ron

OH MY!

Ron....I'm so sorry to hear of Sharon's illness!!!

I hope she gets the rest and healing she needs!!!!

I'm thinking of you both

Stay strong

~Laura

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Yesterday at work Sharon wasn't feeling well at all (tired to point of collapsing) after being there 2 hour, she waited for a replacement and then went to the hospital emergency to get checked out and was told it would take as much as 3 month to recover from her illness, this is not good as all it does is add more stress in her life and it is stress that she is trying to recover from. Right now she on her way to her doctor since she (doctor) was called by the hospital yesterday and told to see the doctor first thing this morning.

I know everyone well wish well and a speedy recovery, that is what I will tell her on your behalf. Thank you for tolerating my latest post as they are not the most pleasant reading material available.

Always thinking of you and loving you very much even if not said often enough.

Ron

Oh dear. Don't know what to say Ron. Please please tell that girl that she is much too loved by you and all of us VJ freaks. I always have you both in my prayers. Sweetheart, she should perhaps (pardon my intrusion and unrequested advise) go drop by a psychiatrist office? Perhaps something to help ease the pain (emotional) and stress will help - both therapy and medications. I know this first hand my dear friend, and it kept me alive through the hardest of times.

We love you both. Len and Bren.

[trailmix 77]

Ron i'm truly sorry to hear of these issues that you and Sharon are now dealing with in addition to what you already have to deal with.

I'm wishing you both health and happiness soon!

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Yesterday at work Sharon wasn't feeling well at all (tired to point of collapsing) after being there 2 hour, she waited for a replacement and then went to the hospital emergency to get checked out and was told it would take as much as 3 month to recover from her illness, this is not good as all it does is add more stress in her life and it is stress that she is trying to recover from. Right now she on her way to her doctor since she (doctor) was called by the hospital yesterday and told to see the doctor first thing this morning.

I know everyone well wish well and a speedy recovery, that is what I will tell her on your behalf. Thank you for tolerating my latest post as they are not the most pleasant reading material available.

Always thinking of you and loving you very much even if not said often enough.

Ron

OH MY!

Ron....I'm so sorry to hear of Sharon's illness!!!

I hope she gets the rest and healing she needs!!!!

I'm thinking of you both

Stay strong

~Laura

Thank you Laura, I hope you have a very happy birthday and many more.

Thank you for the kind words I will pass them on to Sharon, She also will appreciate them.

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Yesterday at work Sharon wasn't feeling well at all (tired to point of collapsing) after being there 2 hour, she waited for a replacement and then went to the hospital emergency to get checked out and was told it would take as much as 3 month to recover from her illness, this is not good as all it does is add more stress in her life and it is stress that she is trying to recover from. Right now she on her way to her doctor since she (doctor) was called by the hospital yesterday and told to see the doctor first thing this morning.

I know everyone well wish well and a speedy recovery, that is what I will tell her on your behalf. Thank you for tolerating my latest post as they are not the most pleasant reading material available.

Always thinking of you and loving you very much even if not said often enough.

Ron

Oh dear. Don't know what to say Ron. Please please tell that girl that she is much too loved by you and all of us VJ freaks. I always have you both in my prayers. Sweetheart, she should perhaps (pardon my intrusion and unrequested advise) go drop by a psychiatrist office? Perhaps something to help ease the pain (emotional) and stress will help - both therapy and medications. I know this first hand my dear friend, and it kept me alive through the hardest of times.

We love you both. Len and Bren.

Len and Bren, thank you very much for thinking of us especially Sharon at this time, she is in need of prayers at this time, none are ever too few. Sharon’s doctor is an angel and she is helping Sharon both physically and mentally, but our concern at the moment is her physical well being. What I didn’t say was she has a few weeks ago had a terrible case of Shingle that has drawn every bit of strength she had and this is what the present problem is, no matter what she does it is too much. The shingles are pretty much healed, but the doctor yesterday said it can take up to 3 month before she is herself and well enough to function as she has in the past. She returned to work as her doctor suggested working half days for the first week, but even at that she has not been able to do the half days but 2 to 3 hours only. The advice may have been un-requested but it truly is appreciated and would have been requested if only I weren’t so closely involved, and the intrusion is very welcome from someone as yourself who know what it is we are going through.

Thank you for the comfort of your words and the advice you offer us none is wasted.

Thank you and thank Bren you are always in our hearts and thoughts

Ron

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Ron i'm truly sorry to hear of these issues that you and Sharon are now dealing with in addition to what you already have to deal with.

I'm wishing you both health and happiness soon!

Thank you trailmix,

We have hit a low point and with the proper help we will pull through and carry on. This does not minimize our love for each other it fortifies our resolve to be together regardless of whether it is a stone in our shoes or a rock on the road. We are one of many who have travelled and will travel this path to the where our hearts will have no more longing.

I hope you are well and are enjoying your new life.

Ron

[L_n_O 3]

I'm really sorry you guys are going through more than just a "rough patch" at this point..

I hope you both find yourselves together no matter when that is..

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Yesterday at work Sharon wasn't feeling well at all (tired to point of collapsing) after being there 2 hour, she waited for a replacement and then went to the hospital emergency to get checked out and was told it would take as much as 3 month to recover from her illness, this is not good as all it does is add more stress in her life and it is stress that she is trying to recover from. Right now she on her way to her doctor since she (doctor) was called by the hospital yesterday and told to see the doctor first thing this morning.

I know everyone well wish well and a speedy recovery, that is what I will tell her on your behalf. Thank you for tolerating my latest post as they are not the most pleasant reading material available.

Always thinking of you and loving you very much even if not said often enough.

Ron

Ron, I just read this post and I know how stressful your situation has been for both you and Sharon but I can't think of some palliative cliche or banal pleasantry that will provide succour. My eloquent fellow VJers have posted much of what I am feeling. The only thing that strikes me is the power and depth of your love for each other, as Shakespeare once wrote,

Love is… an ever-fixed mark That looks on tempests and is never shaken.

I don't mean to engage in a course of sophistry or clever wordplay and I hope that you take no offence but in a backhanded way your maladies are the manifestation of your love for each other. This crucible of tragedy is forging an ever stronger bond that few people will ever experience. We are all grateful to have been given the opportunity to observe it first-hand, albeit all of us wish that it had come under more felicitous circumstances. As you have already pointed out, this is the nadir, there is only up and it will get better. You have had your health problems recently and now Sharon has had hers and you are on the cusp of great and joyous changes, you've steeled yourselves to the insults of the fates and nothing more can affect you. The strength of the bonds of your love are not altered by calumnous insult. Your posts are never intolerable, they are the very parable of ineffable affection. We all share your longing in our collective hearts and yours will be in our daily supplications for peace and strength to you and Sharon.

The quality of mercy is not strained, it droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven and the weather forecast calls for rain.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Yesterday at work Sharon wasn't feeling well at all (tired to point of collapsing) after being there 2 hour, she waited for a replacement and then went to the hospital emergency to get checked out and was told it would take as much as 3 month to recover from her illness, this is not good as all it does is add more stress in her life and it is stress that she is trying to recover from. Right now she on her way to her doctor since she (doctor) was called by the hospital yesterday and told to see the doctor first thing this morning.

I know everyone well wish well and a speedy recovery, that is what I will tell her on your behalf. Thank you for tolerating my latest post as they are not the most pleasant reading material available.

Always thinking of you and loving you very much even if not said often enough.

Ron

Ron, I just read this post and I know how stressful your situation has been for both you and Sharon but I can't think of some palliative cliche or banal pleasantry that will provide succour. My eloquent fellow VJers have posted much of what I am feeling. The only thing that strikes me is the power and depth of your love for each other, as Shakespeare once wrote,

Love is… an ever-fixed mark That looks on tempests and is never shaken.

I don't mean to engage in a course of sophistry or clever wordplay and I hope that you take no offence but in a backhanded way your maladies are the manifestation of your love for each other. This crucible of tragedy is forging an ever stronger bond that few people will ever experience. We are all grateful to have been given the opportunity to observe it first-hand, albeit all of us wish that it had come under more felicitous circumstances. As you have already pointed out, this is the nadir, there is only up and it will get better. You have had your health problems recently and now Sharon has had hers and you are on the cusp of great and joyous changes, you've steeled yourselves to the insults of the fates and nothing more can affect you. The strength of the bonds of your love are not altered by calumnous insult. Your posts are never intolerable, they are the very parable of ineffable affection. We all share your longing in our collective hearts and yours will be in our daily supplications for peace and strength to you and Sharon.

The quality of mercy is not strained, it droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven and the weather forecast calls for rain.

Ron, don't listen to Mumsie, we all know he is, well, special....

Kidding. Mumsie has given me very very good advise and has been a real brother. So I second his thoughts (except the ones that involve running around nekkid with a food processor )