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[angel2004 0]

i just got back from Pakistan yesterday and my husband has decide to call hes visa off and call it quite between me and him. He can't handle the stress of the visa or the process of how long it is taken he was denied back in may of this year he is wanting this divorce because he thinks that there will never be an end to all this drama. What can i do to make him stay strong until we get the noir and wait for there answer to us if anyone has any suggestions on this matter then please let me know

thanks

angel2004

[Amy B. 0]

i just got back from Pakistan yesterday and my husband has decide to call hes visa off and call it quite between me and him. He can't handle the stress of the visa or the process of how long it is taken he was denied back in may of this year he is wanting this divorce because he thinks that there will never be an end to all this drama. What can i do to make him stay strong until we get the noir and wait for there answer to us if anyone has any suggestions on this matter then please let me know

thanks

angel2004

I am so sorry to hear about your heartache. If he felt like that, why didn't he discuss it with you, while you was still there

Try and talk to him and just be positive with him and hopefully he won't want to get a divorce. I know it is a long process and very emotionally draining on a person and sometimes the relationship, but we have to stay strong. Just talk to him and be positive and tell him to pray to ALMIGHTY ALLAH THAT YOU TWO WILL BE TOGETHER AND SOON insha allaah.

why was he denied and what have you done up to this point with your process??

Hang in there Angel

Aisha

[Ta Ta 1]

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

[trailmix 77]

hi angel,

Sorry to hear this.

It might help you if you post details of your application then people who have gone through the same process as you might be able to give you an idea of how long it will take and you can then discuss it with your Husband and that might give him some hope.

Good luck!

[angel2004 0]

i just got back from Pakistan yesterday and my husband has decide to call hes visa off and call it quite between me and him. He can't handle the stress of the visa or the process of how long it is taken he was denied back in may of this year he is wanting this divorce because he thinks that there will never be an end to all this drama. What can i do to make him stay strong until we get the noir and wait for there answer to us if anyone has any suggestions on this matter then please let me know

thanks

angel2004

I am so sorry to hear about your heartache. If he felt like that, why didn't he discuss it with you, while you was still there

Try and talk to him and just be positive with him and hopefully he won't want to get a divorce. I know it is a long process and very emotionally draining on a person and sometimes the relationship, but we have to stay strong. Just talk to him and be positive and tell him to pray to ALMIGHTY ALLAH THAT YOU TWO WILL BE TOGETHER AND SOON insha allaah.

why was he denied and what have you done up to this point with your process??

Hang in there Angel

Aisha

he was denied under 221 (g) i'm going to have hes child very soon i'm due in october they wont give me any information on hes case what would u suggest me to move to pakistan and be with him to talk things over and how can i get information on hes case thanks

angel

[angel2004 0]

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

[chaingang 7]

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

dear angel , if u remember i am also in same place i am waiting for my visa for 4 years now , i am also denied undersection 221g and we were waiting for noir , and i told u what to do , but ur husband seems to be selfish letting u go when u need him badly , he is not in trouble, u are also in trouble thats being unfair, he should stop being a***h**le to you , i and my wife is handling that from 4 years now i will suggest you to hire a lawyer and dont do any experiments on you any more , if u start calling senators it is useless i tried all those result is nothing hire a lawyer and start working u will get the results trust me on that

you can check my story after my denail and waiting for NOIR , i hope it will help you and motivate you and tell to ur husband stop acting like an a**h**le and try to work as team now

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=89652 check it out

my prayers are with you , and i hope ur husband will relaize he is doing wrong

[angel2004 0]

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

dear angel , if u remember i am also in same place i am waiting for my visa for 4 years now , i am also denied undersection 221g and we were waiting for noir , and i told u what to do , but ur husband seems to be selfish letting u go when u need him badly , he is not in trouble, u are also in trouble thats being unfair, he should stop being a***h**le to you , i and my wife is handling that from 4 years now i will suggest you to hire a lawyer and dont do any experiments on you any more , if u start calling senators it is useless i tried all those result is nothing hire a lawyer and start working u will get the results trust me on that

you can check my story after my denail and waiting for NOIR , i hope it will help you and motivate you and tell to ur husband stop acting like an a**h**le and try to work as team now

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=89652 check it out

my prayers are with you , and i hope ur husband will relaize he is doing wrong

i just tried to call my husband and he is not answering me ur wife works at a hospital where and in which state i would love to go and talk to her about this in person my so called husband is doing me wrong and my family is on hes side and not mine so what is ur idea on this let me know please assp

[Ta Ta 1]

I can't believe he is just thinking about his own pain right now and not of you and the baby that need all of his support.

Very sad. If you are expecting it does not seem the right time to move there, especially if he does not care to talk to you.

I hope you have a support system with family and friends. You don't need ths selfish behavior from him now.

I would give him some time to come to his senses and if not ...........let him go ! You deserve better.

[chaingang 7]

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

dear angel , if u remember i am also in same place i am waiting for my visa for 4 years now , i am also denied undersection 221g and we were waiting for noir , and i told u what to do , but ur husband seems to be selfish letting u go when u need him badly , he is not in trouble, u are also in trouble thats being unfair, he should stop being a***h**le to you , i and my wife is handling that from 4 years now i will suggest you to hire a lawyer and dont do any experiments on you any more , if u start calling senators it is useless i tried all those result is nothing hire a lawyer and start working u will get the results trust me on that

you can check my story after my denail and waiting for NOIR , i hope it will help you and motivate you and tell to ur husband stop acting like an a**h**le and try to work as team now

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=89652 check it out

my prayers are with you , and i hope ur husband will relaize he is doing wrong

i just tried to call my husband and he is not answering me ur wife works at a hospital where and in which state i would love to go and talk to her about this in person my so called husband is doing me wrong and my family is on hes side and not mine so what is ur idea on this let me know please assp

ok thats good , she would suggest u good things , send me private msg i will give u her full address and phone number, my wife is in Ga , Comer close to athens or u can mail me on passionzhere@yahoo.com i will give u her address and phone number so u can talk to her i and my wife would love to help you and if u want , i can talk to ur husband on ur behalf

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

dear angel , if u remember i am also in same place i am waiting for my visa for 4 years now , i am also denied undersection 221g and we were waiting for noir , and i told u what to do , but ur husband seems to be selfish letting u go when u need him badly , he is not in trouble, u are also in trouble thats being unfair, he should stop being a***h**le to you , i and my wife is handling that from 4 years now i will suggest you to hire a lawyer and dont do any experiments on you any more , if u start calling senators it is useless i tried all those result is nothing hire a lawyer and start working u will get the results trust me on that

you can check my story after my denail and waiting for NOIR , i hope it will help you and motivate you and tell to ur husband stop acting like an a**h**le and try to work as team now

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=89652 check it out

my prayers are with you , and i hope ur husband will relaize he is doing wrong

i just tried to call my husband and he is not answering me ur wife works at a hospital where and in which state i would love to go and talk to her about this in person my so called husband is doing me wrong and my family is on hes side and not mine so what is ur idea on this let me know please assp

keep the baby and hang in there...this bb is your gift.......he will change his mind when your child is here

[angel2004 0]

I can't believe he is just thinking about his own pain right now and not of you and the baby that need all of his support.

Very sad. If you are expecting it does not seem the right time to move there, especially if he does not care to talk to you.

I hope you have a support system with family and friends. You don't need ths selfish behavior from him now.

I would give him some time to come to his senses and if not ...........let him go ! You deserve better.

he has my family support and i don't he could care less i think

[angel2004 0]

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

dear angel , if u remember i am also in same place i am waiting for my visa for 4 years now , i am also denied undersection 221g and we were waiting for noir , and i told u what to do , but ur husband seems to be selfish letting u go when u need him badly , he is not in trouble, u are also in trouble thats being unfair, he should stop being a***h**le to you , i and my wife is handling that from 4 years now i will suggest you to hire a lawyer and dont do any experiments on you any more , if u start calling senators it is useless i tried all those result is nothing hire a lawyer and start working u will get the results trust me on that

you can check my story after my denail and waiting for NOIR , i hope it will help you and motivate you and tell to ur husband stop acting like an a**h**le and try to work as team now

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=89652 check it out

my prayers are with you , and i hope ur husband will relaize he is doing wrong

i just tried to call my husband and he is not answering me ur wife works at a hospital where and in which state i would love to go and talk to her about this in person my so called husband is doing me wrong and my family is on hes side and not mine so what is ur idea on this let me know please assp

keep the baby and hang in there...this bb is your gift.......he will change his mind when your child is here

i'm due in October that more then likely that wont change hes mind

[A.A.R 0]

Hi there! Sorry to hear about your husband, but when I see it, its also good. Look if he had loved you enough with his whole heart and soul, he would have never talked about divorce. I am sorry for being so straight forward and you might not like what I say, but that is the truth. Look me and my wife lived apart from each other for six long years and eventually Allah has rewarded us for our patience. Saying "I love you" is very easy to someone, but to prove the love is not that child's play. If you want to wait for him is something different and I am sure you love him more than he loves you. If he could turn his back to you now when you are pregnant with his child, what could you expect more of him? I am really sorry for you and happy that you still find it out in time. Be strong and try to go with the flow.

[Peggy 1]

I can't believe he is just thinking about his own pain right now and not of you and the baby that need all of his support.

Very sad. If you are expecting it does not seem the right time to move there, especially if he does not care to talk to you.

I hope you have a support system with family and friends. You don't need ths selfish behavior from him now.

I would give him some time to come to his senses and if not ...........let him go ! You deserve better.

he has my family support and i don't he could care less i think

Sorry to hear your news about your husband.

Do I understand this right? Your family is supporting his decision to divorce you while you are carrying his baby?

Or am I misunderstanding what you are saying.