Deleting threads

[sarah and hicham 3]

I would like to know why Jackie's thread was deleted.

Mohammed shared his side of the story and it didn't make Jackie look like the perfect wife she tries to portray herself as... is that why it was deleted? Per her request? Because it is truthful?

Mohammed I am sorry that your side of the story got deleted. It really did shed some light on the whole situation and you are not the bad guy that just up and left your marriage for no reason.

It's ridiculous that the entire thread got deleted. Jackie you shared your story on this forum and not allowing Mohammed to share his and keep it there is shameful.

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

Well... that's what happens when one side is "empowered" and the other one isn't.

[~Jackie~ 30]

Shameful, maybe..but I have my family's safety to consider. My husband and I have talked at length since the post and both agree it should be gone. You don't know the whole story, and I would appreciate if you all could respect our privacy in this matter.

He has a right to share his side and did. We are both losers in this. There are no winners.

Jackie

[AngelK96 0]

Sarah when did Jackie ever portray herself to be the perfect wife? I been a member on this site for a long time and I never seen Jackie portray herself as the perfect wife.

[Mags 112]

As the Captain has mentioned before, the OP of a thread can request having it locked or removed.

That was what was done in this case. Thanks for understanding.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Shameful, maybe..but I have my family's safety to consider. My husband and I have talked at length since the post and both agree it should be gone. You don't know the whole story, and I would appreciate if you all could respect our privacy in this matter.

He has a right to share his side and did. We are both losers in this. There are no winners.

Jackie

Family's safety? You are the one who shared what happened and said Mohammed removed his rings and left you. So you can share and he can't? Sick.

[crazyinEgypt 0]

Jackie requested that her thread be closed end of story. Jackie needs the support of her friends here. Is there any marital dispute that is one sided? I think not. Prayers to you J

[~Jackie~ 30]

Anything else you want to call me while I am here? Fair game..have at it. Nothing Sarah, and I mean nothing could hurt as much as the reality of what I am dealing with here. So go ahead,,,anyone else want to take a swing?

Jackie

[Mags 112]

All right, let's not turn this thread into an excuse to throw around insults. If it continues I will not hesitate to lock it.

[LaL 418]

To repeat Mags' statement if an OP chooses to have a thread removed/locked that is their choice. Period. We have discussed this option ad nauseum.

Continue the personal attacks and this thread will be closed.

[hachemi_meriem 0]

Salam Alaikoum,

For a moment, I thought I was a monster, and I was going to hurt my wife, because of all the post talking about ME/NA men being bad. I felt like any moment I would be turning into werewolf, preying on my poor unsuspecting wife. I am not having any judgment about the situation. All we needed was justice. His right to say his part of the story. Now it is gone. I hope for the future the moderator will let people face the truth. Dont put a stop to any person trying to defend his self and explain how he feels in reply to a post about him and to show us the other side. Because people will never know the truth when threads are deleted without cause.

This is the opinion of myself, without my wife's input. And I am not afraid to face the truth. I know we are not angels, but we are human and we can make mistakes. I did not say we are perfect, but we are trying to do our best. That is a human being.

Thank you.

Hachemi

[crazyinEgypt 0]

All right, let's not turn this thread into an excuse to throw around insults. If it continues I will not hesitate to lock it.

Should probably do it now. I don's see this getting any better.

[Mags 112]

All right, let's not turn this thread into an excuse to throw around insults. If it continues I will not hesitate to lock it.

Should probably do it now. I don's see this getting any better.

It was the first and only warning...

[sarah and hicham 3]

Salam Alaikoum,

For a moment, I thought I was a monster, and I was going to hurt my wife, because of all the post talking about ME/NA men being bad. I felt like any moment I would be turning into werewolf, preying on my poor unsuspecting wife. I am not having any judgment about the situation. All we needed was justice. His right to say his part of the story. Now it is gone. I hope for the future the moderator will let people face the truth. Dont put a stop to any person trying to defend his self and explain how he feels in reply to a post about him and to show us the other side. Because people will never know the truth when threads are deleted without cause.

This is the opinion of myself, without my wife's input. And I am not afraid to face the truth. I know we are not angels, but we are human and we can make mistakes. I did not say we are perfect, but we are trying to do our best. That is a human being.

Thank you.

Hachemi

Well said Hachemi. You are absolutely right. Hopefully because those words came from someone other than myself that they will be accepted and heard.

Can someone point out the personal attacks? I'm not seeing them.

[Marry American 0]

Salam Alaikoum,

For a moment, I thought I was a monster, and I was going to hurt my wife, because of all the post talking about ME/NA men being bad. I felt like any moment I would be turning into werewolf, preying on my poor unsuspecting wife. I am not having any judgment about the situation. All we needed was justice. His right to say his part of the story. Now it is gone. I hope for the future the moderator will let people face the truth. Dont put a stop to any person trying to defend his self and explain how he feels in reply to a post about him and to show us the other side. Because people will never know the truth when threads are deleted without cause.

This is the opinion of myself, without my wife's input. And I am not afraid to face the truth. I know we are not angels, but we are human and we can make mistakes. I did not say we are perfect, but we are trying to do our best. That is a human being.

Thank you.

Hachemi

Well said Hachemi. You are absolutely right. Hopefully because those words came from someone other than myself that they will be accepted and heard.

Can someone point out the personal attacks? I'm not seeing them.

Family's safety? You are the one who shared what happened and said Mohammed removed his rings and left you. So you can share and he can't? Sick.