Question regarding sending money to spouse

[Mononoke28 134]

Hehehehe, that's funny.

I feel the same way. My husband got his bachelor's in IT and was being paid $20 a day, his days consisted of 10-12 hours on average and no, there was no over time. Then he got laid off and that was that, couldn't find work anywhere else. So what I do is I send him the money first and then call him to let him know, that way he won't refuse it. He always says he'll pay me back and I'm like "what???" Once he gets here he can get a job that will pay a minimum of $20/hr not per day and we'll be ok.

And it's true... Alhumdullah and Inshallah.

Diana

[Captain Oates 910]

Hehehehe, that's funny.

I feel the same way. My husband got his bachelor's in IT and was being paid $20 a day, his days consisted of 10-12 hours on average and no, there was no over time. Then he got laid off and that was that, couldn't find work anywhere else. So what I do is I send him the money first and then call him to let him know, that way he won't refuse it. He always says he'll pay me back and I'm like "what???" Once he gets here he can get a job that will pay a minimum of $20/hr not per day and we'll be ok.

And it's true... Alhumdullah and Inshallah.

Diana

Yes after quoting Groucho Marx, I should now quote Karl Marx > 'From each according to his ability, to each according to his needs! '

Groucho gets my vote BUT

probably Jesus H Christ (Mr J Nazareth) and Mohammad (peace and blessings etc - but can't remember his last name), and atheists too , would say the same as Karl

I reckon we should help the lower earner (without being a mug) - you can usually tell what the deal is ...

Mummy elephants help baby elephants up a slope and they are not religious at all as far as I know - so the immigration folk should understand whatever belief system they hold to .......

[In Gods Hands 0]

Really glad to hear others input and comments. One more reason why I'm glad I found this site. There aren't too many people I know of personally that could give me some of the info and insight that I've been getting here. ...

Hmmm.. I was just thinking... My dad helped us out financially to help pay for visa related fees too. Since he will be a co-sponsor, perhaps I should include this too. I think it would also show sincerety and good relations between him and my husband (beneficiary). What do you think? Wish I didn't have to feel like I have to build a strong case and prove ourselves... but if thats what it takes.. then I'm game!

Note: "If that's what it takes" by celine dion.. special song to my love, my husband

Edited July 7, 2007 by AhmadGwen4evr

[irahaymeh 0]

That's what it takes! You do have to prove yourself and the validity of your marriage to the interviewer.

[In Gods Hands 0]

That's what it takes! You do have to prove yourself and the validity of your marriage to the interviewer.

"Oh Yeaaah!!! .. "high 5 to ya irahaymeh!" (sorry no high 5 smileys)

IMUA!!! (GO FORWARD)

Thanks VJ gang for all the help, input and encouragement to keep us focused and not lose sight or hope when the going gets tough and confusing. I really do appreciate all who participate in this with a common goal and interests.. (and especially to those who haven't abused this site as if it were some anonymous silly chat room).

Mahalo..Shoukron

Thank you