Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[Shemmy 4]

SO DID ANYONE GO SEE TLYER PERRY MOVIE

Nope, hopefully tomorrow.

[nannygirl82 0]

My case was completed at NVC 10/11/07!!!!! Any ideas on how long it takes for them to schedule the interview at this point?

not really sure on anytime frame...but it goes from nvc to kingston then they enter it into the system that sometimes can take a liikle bit....then he has to make a appt. and drop of the ds230 then after that is when they schedule a interview

congratz another step closer

Well with the new process, the NVC wants all the paperwork up front. I had to send both DS230 part 1 & 2 to them along with all original documents and police certificate. They set the interview and forward the information to the embassy.

well that must be cause you are a cr-1....so i am not sure what is next for you....

[CaribQueen 0]

Just a question about the new process for the CR1...

So now you send everything at once: I-130, I-864, DS3032....then wait for an interview date?

They send a separate letter with cover sheet for all the documents.

[CaribQueen 0]

My case was completed at NVC 10/11/07!!!!! Any ideas on how long it takes for them to schedule the interview at this point?

not really sure on anytime frame...but it goes from nvc to kingston then they enter it into the system that sometimes can take a liikle bit....then he has to make a appt. and drop of the ds230 then after that is when they schedule a interview

congratz another step closer

Well with the new process, the NVC wants all the paperwork up front. I had to send both DS230 part 1 & 2 to them along with all original documents and police certificate. They set the interview and forward the information to the embassy.

For the CR-1 folks, the NVC is still scheduling November interviews. On Tuesday, October 16th, call 202-663-1225 to see if you have been scheduled an interview. If one has not been arranged, try to call back on Thursday, October 18th. Since your case was just completed on Thursday, you may be looking at a December interview. Keep your fingers crossed. I along with the other VJ members will do the same.

I'll be praying that I'm squeezed in for a Nov interview. If not......

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

Hi everybody! thanks for your well wishes and encouragement it means alot to me im just gettin myself together today im gonna go in town have a good day the rain has cleared it was sunny today and yesterday. The day i get here Chris decides to say that hes not ready to get married. Im like when did u plan on sayin this.

IM prayin that everyone get their interview dates soon!!! have a blessed day everyone

[USA-Jamaica 0]

Hi everybody! thanks for your well wishes and encouragement it means alot to me im just gettin myself together today im gonna go in town have a good day the rain has cleared it was sunny today and yesterday. The day i get here Chris decides to say that hes not ready to get married. Im like when did u plan on sayin this.

IM prayin that everyone get their interview dates soon!!! have a blessed day everyone

Kim,

I will keep you in my prayer. Marriage is huge responibility that anyone who enter into it must be sure. If Chris is telling you he does not want to get marry. Please listen to him. Some things you can talk people into doing but you never want to talk a man into marriage. My advice is just to listen to Chris and hear what he is saying to you. PM me if you want to talk.

Jenice

[Sonshyne 2]

jalove....so sorry to hear that

jamerican....have you gotten a hold of your man yet???

Nope....

really....have you called anyone to check him out...to make sure everything is ok???

The only number of family I have.....I misplaced it. I am looking for it. I may send a friend of mine to his mom's house. It is just crazy....my mind doesn't know what to think. Oh and I got a letter from the Visa Center today telling me the case number and that it should be in Kingston now. GREAT! (Sarcastic)

I hope you hear from him soon and that all is good.

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

jalove....so sorry to hear that

jamerican....have you gotten a hold of your man yet???

Nope....

really....have you called anyone to check him out...to make sure everything is ok???

The only number of family I have.....I misplaced it. I am looking for it. I may send a friend of mine to his mom's house. It is just crazy....my mind doesn't know what to think. Oh and I got a letter from the Visa Center today telling me the case number and that it should be in Kingston now. GREAT! (Sarcastic)

I hope you hear from him soon and that all is good.

hi im hoping u hear from him soon! i would call his fam to see if hes ok

[luvtravlin 0]

Hi everybody! thanks for your well wishes and encouragement it means alot to me im just gettin myself together today im gonna go in town have a good day the rain has cleared it was sunny today and yesterday. The day i get here Chris decides to say that hes not ready to get married. Im like when did u plan on sayin this.

IM prayin that everyone get their interview dates soon!!! have a blessed day everyone

Kim,

I will keep you in my prayer. Marriage is huge responibility that anyone who enter into it must be sure. If Chris is telling you he does not want to get marry. Please listen to him. Some things you can talk people into doing but you never want to talk a man into marriage. My advice is just to listen to Chris and hear what he is saying to you. PM me if you want to talk.

Jenice

I absolutely agree 100% !!!

[brownnskinn 0]

Classychic....hi and welcome.....give us some info about you and your man like where in JA is he from where are you from ect ect......

I'm Renee, 30, from Michigan. He's from Montego Bay. We met in May while I was vacationing. And have talked on the phone every day since. I went back to visit 10/3 - 10/7. He proposed 10/5 at this great restaurant that was a boat. We haven't filed yet, things are moving pretty quickly but we both know we need to make sure we really know each other. This whole situation seems so surreal but incredibly right at the same time. I am so thankful I found all of you. It helps talking to people who have experienced the same thing.

Well take your time.

[brownnskinn 0]

Hi everybody! thanks for your well wishes and encouragement it means alot to me im just gettin myself together today im gonna go in town have a good day the rain has cleared it was sunny today and yesterday. The day i get here Chris decides to say that hes not ready to get married. Im like when did u plan on sayin this.

IM prayin that everyone get their interview dates soon!!! have a blessed day everyone

Kim,

I will keep you in my prayer. Marriage is huge responibility that anyone who enter into it must be sure. If Chris is telling you he does not want to get marry. Please listen to him. Some things you can talk people into doing but you never want to talk a man into marriage. My advice is just to listen to Chris and hear what he is saying to you. PM me if you want to talk.

Jenice

I absolutely agree 100% !!!

Ditto, sorry to hear, but hopefully he has cold feet and will get over it soon. Are you doing a K1?

[luvtravlin 0]

**OFF TOPIC** (but gosh what isn't?)

VENTING and question for you guys ....

Craig's brother got married (in the *real* ceremony to an american woman) this weekend in Philly. I didn't know anything about it until about 2 weeks ago. We never received an actual invitation. Craig was his brothers best man. His brother, over the phone last week Wed asked me if I was coming. I asked him....when, where, what time, I would need to find a sitter for my son (didn't sound like my sound was invited...at least his brother didn't say...bring him) just a bunch of questions....and he could not (or chose not) to answer any of them......sorry, but I wasn't going to be able to make it...

SO, I get a call from Craig's father today....TELLING me that Craig was going to stay late and when "I" would need to pick him up at the bus station. I said, sorry sir, but that is not an option ...Craig and I discussed that the 8:20pm bus would be the latest for me to go DOWNTOWN Baltimore to get him. Then he asked me if "I" knew his name and then said that they were at a "family" function ....and I said, okaaay??? His father is "controlling" and has NEVER been in Craig's life. Craig is the product of an affair that his father had. He's been living in Philly for a year and **now** just calls me (and he's never once called Craig since he's been here)???? Anyway, "daddy" asks if Craig could come home tomorrow and I said, it doesn't matter to me when he comes home as long as he has a ride from the bus station since I'll be working and then I need to pick up my son from soccer practice. So then he asks if I could speak to his Auntie...........not wanting to............I said, sure. So she gets on the phone and says (rudely) WHY AREN'T YOU AT THE WEDDING ??!! I wanted to go off, but nicely I said, I didn't know anything about it until 2 weeks ago, my son has obligations on the weekend, we don't have anyone that could watch our cats..... she could have CARED less what I said.... I was pretty ticked....

Anyway, question that I have is..... should we have been sent a wedding invitation? I mean 150 people were coming to the wedding!! Craig had no clue what his brothers wife's name is.

[jamerican 2]

**OFF TOPIC** (but gosh what isn't?)

VENTING and question for you guys ....

Craig's brother got married (in the *real* ceremony to an american woman) this weekend in Philly. I didn't know anything about it until about 2 weeks ago. We never received an actual invitation. Craig was his brothers best man. His brother, over the phone last week Wed asked me if I was coming. I asked him....when, where, what time, I would need to find a sitter for my son (didn't sound like my sound was invited...at least his brother didn't say...bring him) just a bunch of questions....and he could not (or chose not) to answer any of them......sorry, but I wasn't going to be able to make it...

SO, I get a call from Craig's father today....TELLING me that Craig was going to stay late and when "I" would need to pick him up at the bus station. I said, sorry sir, but that is not an option ...Craig and I discussed that the 8:20pm bus would be the latest for me to go DOWNTOWN Baltimore to get him. Then he asked me if "I" knew his name and then said that they were at a "family" function ....and I said, okaaay??? His father is "controlling" and has NEVER been in Craig's life. Craig is the product of an affair that his father had. He's been living in Philly for a year and **now** just calls me (and he's never once called Craig since he's been here)???? Anyway, "daddy" asks if Craig could come home tomorrow and I said, it doesn't matter to me when he comes home as long as he has a ride from the bus station since I'll be working and then I need to pick up my son from soccer practice. So then he asks if I could speak to his Auntie...........not wanting to............I said, sure. So she gets on the phone and says (rudely) WHY AREN'T YOU AT THE WEDDING ??!! I wanted to go off, but nicely I said, I didn't know anything about it until 2 weeks ago, my son has obligations on the weekend, we don't have anyone that could watch our cats..... she could have CARED less what I said.... I was pretty ticked....

Anyway, question that I have is..... should we have been sent a wedding invitation? I mean 150 people were coming to the wedding!! Craig had no clue what his brothers wife's name is.

My question is why wasn't craig calling you to discuss this??? You shouldn't have to go through family to discuss your and craig's plans.

[luvtravlin 0]

**OFF TOPIC** (but gosh what isn't?)

VENTING and question for you guys ....

Craig's brother got married (in the *real* ceremony to an american woman) this weekend in Philly. I didn't know anything about it until about 2 weeks ago. We never received an actual invitation. Craig was his brothers best man. His brother, over the phone last week Wed asked me if I was coming. I asked him....when, where, what time, I would need to find a sitter for my son (didn't sound like my sound was invited...at least his brother didn't say...bring him) just a bunch of questions....and he could not (or chose not) to answer any of them......sorry, but I wasn't going to be able to make it...

SO, I get a call from Craig's father today....TELLING me that Craig was going to stay late and when "I" would need to pick him up at the bus station. I said, sorry sir, but that is not an option ...Craig and I discussed that the 8:20pm bus would be the latest for me to go DOWNTOWN Baltimore to get him. Then he asked me if "I" knew his name and then said that they were at a "family" function ....and I said, okaaay??? His father is "controlling" and has NEVER been in Craig's life. Craig is the product of an affair that his father had. He's been living in Philly for a year and **now** just calls me (and he's never once called Craig since he's been here)???? Anyway, "daddy" asks if Craig could come home tomorrow and I said, it doesn't matter to me when he comes home as long as he has a ride from the bus station since I'll be working and then I need to pick up my son from soccer practice. So then he asks if I could speak to his Auntie...........not wanting to............I said, sure. So she gets on the phone and says (rudely) WHY AREN'T YOU AT THE WEDDING ??!! I wanted to go off, but nicely I said, I didn't know anything about it until 2 weeks ago, my son has obligations on the weekend, we don't have anyone that could watch our cats..... she could have CARED less what I said.... I was pretty ticked....

Anyway, question that I have is..... should we have been sent a wedding invitation? I mean 150 people were coming to the wedding!! Craig had no clue what his brothers wife's name is.

My question is why wasn't craig calling you to discuss this??? You shouldn't have to go through family to discuss your and craig's plans.

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight !!!! I'm not quit sure why they ALL think that "our" business is supposed to be a group discussion !!! It's absolutely and totally Bulls*** and his brother called me last night.... 1st ???

[Shemmy 4]

**OFF TOPIC** (but gosh what isn't?)

VENTING and question for you guys ....

Craig's brother got married (in the *real* ceremony to an american woman) this weekend in Philly. I didn't know anything about it until about 2 weeks ago. We never received an actual invitation. Craig was his brothers best man. His brother, over the phone last week Wed asked me if I was coming. I asked him....when, where, what time, I would need to find a sitter for my son (didn't sound like my sound was invited...at least his brother didn't say...bring him) just a bunch of questions....and he could not (or chose not) to answer any of them......sorry, but I wasn't going to be able to make it...

SO, I get a call from Craig's father today....TELLING me that Craig was going to stay late and when "I" would need to pick him up at the bus station. I said, sorry sir, but that is not an option ...Craig and I discussed that the 8:20pm bus would be the latest for me to go DOWNTOWN Baltimore to get him. Then he asked me if "I" knew his name and then said that they were at a "family" function ....and I said, okaaay??? His father is "controlling" and has NEVER been in Craig's life. Craig is the product of an affair that his father had. He's been living in Philly for a year and **now** just calls me (and he's never once called Craig since he's been here)???? Anyway, "daddy" asks if Craig could come home tomorrow and I said, it doesn't matter to me when he comes home as long as he has a ride from the bus station since I'll be working and then I need to pick up my son from soccer practice. So then he asks if I could speak to his Auntie...........not wanting to............I said, sure. So she gets on the phone and says (rudely) WHY AREN'T YOU AT THE WEDDING ??!! I wanted to go off, but nicely I said, I didn't know anything about it until 2 weeks ago, my son has obligations on the weekend, we don't have anyone that could watch our cats..... she could have CARED less what I said.... I was pretty ticked....

Anyway, question that I have is..... should we have been sent a wedding invitation? I mean 150 people were coming to the wedding!! Craig had no clue what his brothers wife's name is.

My question is why wasn't craig calling you to discuss this??? You shouldn't have to go through family to discuss your and craig's plans.

Right. And why didn't Craig tell you about the wedding before two weeks ago? Have you talked to Craig since you talked to his father?