Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[Sonshyne 2]

Hey everyone...

So my move this past weekend was successful...nothing out of the ordinary. It is definitely different though...

Anyways I am asking for your prayers/kind words/love/or whatever else you can throw my way...things have definitely gotten ugly and the ####### is hitting the fan. I have and always will remain the bigger person with integrity and respect but it is getting really hard as the truth and all the gory details are starting to emerge. Andre has chosen to bad mouth me to basically everyone and while I am choosing to keep my mouth shut and if I do speak only speak facts, it is really getting hard. Andre has made himself out to be the victim and is playing it up for all its worth and all he can get out of it...which is really sad because what he says to me is usually the opposite of what he has been telling others Don't want to be a downer but would love some prayers.

Sorry to hear that things are going the way they are I'll keep you in my prayers, with that and "you" praying for strength... Things will be ok

Edited May 10, 2007 by Sonshyne

[Jamaica to CT 0]

Jamie- if there's anything I can do; please let me know. It's so disappointing and heartbreaking when someone you love starts acting like that. You've already take some positive steps, and I'm sure you'll continue to do so. Keep your head up;

maintain your dignity and grace. And TRUST ME on this- eventually people will see right through him. More importantly, God knows you and what you've been doing, so that's what matters most. Bad mouthing someone reflects more negatively on the person doing it. The old adage applies, "Actions speak louder than words."

[Sonshyne 2]

We went to the Social Sercurity office today to apply for a SSN... The first person to help us told us that he hadn't done a K-1 in a long time After messing around in the computer for about 2-3 minutes, he said Neil wasn't in the computer yet, and for us to come back in another 10 days. I told him that we were told at POE to come in 10 days after his entry. We went back and forth for about 10 minutes before he finally decided to go ask someone else for some help. He came back and told us to bring the passport and follow him, that he found someone else who could probably help us.... The next man took the passport and didn't ask one question... He did his thing on the computer... and handed us the paper to look over, had Neil sign and date and told us the card will come in the mail in ten days.

[BelwinMills 0]

3.5 for me.

...and i got some good news late last night.

NOA2

yeah baby!!!!

Congrats

Ditto

[BelwinMills 0]

Updated 5/9/07 in the evening

Poll How long did you know your SO in person before you applied for their Visa? If anyone wants to participate

Less than 6 months 1 (Rhonda & Tony)

6 months to a year 5 AlienUKGirl, Jengles, JLVR, Jomo'sgirl, and Marlita

One year 6 Mornatbaygirl, Sonshyne, luvtravlin, Denden, Belly'sGirl, SJB1221

Two years 2 EbonySean and Shauna (Nannygirl)

Three years 1 MyDestinyAwaits

Four years 1 Jamie (Jme3584)

Five or more years 4 Jax (Belwinmills), Anna, KimmyKashi, KKholiday

[Dwarf_Ogress 0]

Updated 5/9/07 in the evening

Poll How long did you know your SO in person before you applied for their Visa? If anyone wants to participate

Less than 6 months 1 (Rhonda & Tony) FutureMrs

6 months to a year 5 AlienUKGirl, Jengles, JLVR, Jomo'sgirl, and Marlita

One year 6 Mornatbaygirl, Sonshyne, luvtravlin, Denden, Belly'sGirl, SJB1221

Two years 2 EbonySean and Shauna (Nannygirl)

Three years 1 MyDestinyAwaits

Four years 1 Jamie (Jme3584)

Five or more years 4 Jax (Belwinmills), Anna, KimmyKashi, KKholiday

Greetings!

I feel so out of the loop.

I just wanted to say howdy and spread some yardie love

[BelwinMills 0]

Updated 5/9/07 in the evening

Poll How long did you know your SO in person before you applied for their Visa? If anyone wants to participate

Less than 6 months 2 (Rhonda & Tony) and FutureMrs.

6 months to a year 5 AlienUKGirl, Jengles, JLVR, Jomo'sgirl, and Marlita

One year 6 Mornatbaygirl, Sonshyne, luvtravlin, Denden, Belly'sGirl, SJB1221

Two years 2 EbonySean and Shauna (Nannygirl)

Three years 1 MyDestinyAwaits

Four years 1 Jamie (Jme3584)

Five or more years 4 Jax (Belwinmills), Anna, KimmyKashi, KKholiday

[MyDestinyAwaits 0]

thanks everyone. I thought that once I got noa2, i'd sleep better. but now all i'm thinking about is what's coming next. lol I think I finally fell asleep around 2:30am last night after an hour long conversation with my fiance. now i'll have to backtrack through this joint so I can plan the next step.goodnight yardies!

[rhondapayter 0]

So....Rhonda...are you saying the pregnancy was planned?

Yeah, I guess you could say that I went off the Pill back in October and we figured if it happens, it happens!

[rhondapayter 0]

Talk to me, lol, I've been to JA 10 times in the past 13 months and me and my big belly is going next week. to be honest he did pay for a couple of my trips.

How far along are you? We were supposed to go to JA in Nov. but I will be 8 months preggo then We moved the trip to August instead.

Edited May 10, 2007 by rhondapayter

[rhondapayter 0]

We're planning a trip to JA this December and Damien said my belly better be big by then

Do I need to update the baby list??

[rhondapayter 0]

How long did it take to get pregnant when you stopped taking BC pills?

About 6 months. We weren't using ovulation predicters or anything - just natural. Probably would have happened sooner if we didn't have such crazy work schedules

[rhondapayter 0]

I was so hoping for twins...a boy and a girl so I could be finished. now I might have to go again but not anytime soon

Yeah, that would be the ONLY good reason!!! Only have to be preggo ONCE!

[rhondapayter 0]

So my move this past weekend was successful...nothing out of the ordinary. It is definitely different though...

Anyways I am asking for your prayers/kind words/love/or whatever else you can throw my way...things have definitely gotten ugly and the ####### is hitting the fan.

I'm so sorry Jamie I hope things get better soon.

...and i got some good news late last night.

NOA2

yeah baby!!!!

Congrats

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Hey everyone...

So my move this past weekend was successful...nothing out of the ordinary. It is definitely different though...

Anyways I am asking for your prayers/kind words/love/or whatever else you can throw my way...things have definitely gotten ugly and the ####### is hitting the fan. I have and always will remain the bigger person with integrity and respect but it is getting really hard as the truth and all the gory details are starting to emerge. Andre has chosen to bad mouth me to basically everyone and while I am choosing to keep my mouth shut and if I do speak only speak facts, it is really getting hard. Andre has made himself out to be the victim and is playing it up for all its worth and all he can get out of it...which is really sad because what he says to me is usually the opposite of what he has been telling others Don't want to be a downer but would love some prayers.

Hugs to you, and I hope with all my heart things work out in a way that will make you happy......

As for him bad mouthing you, I don't know him, but that's a common reaction in people that are hurting....It's hard I know, but it is NO-ONE's business what happened between you and him, try your best to ignore things, you could even ask whoever is relaying this to just stop, it's serving no real purpose.

Hopefully your move will allow you both to get a sense of perspective.....

Praying for you both....