Things to remember to tell your SO when they arrive

[Reynaldo 0]

Ai ai...

And people, by the way:

[brnidokiegurl 0]

True i dont have the background, but i do know how many have commented what a joke this place is and how many have been turned away or left. This isnt a place for a popularity contest, its fine you have your best friends, i have a few to, i get email, i got phone numbers, so what you all are old enough to show more respect for someone every bit as equal as you all on in this forum. Last i looked no one owns it. Since we are new we do see from a differnt view point than you that are so familiar with each others ways.

When i first came on here and looked you all were argueing then about what i dont really remember. I can remember thinking geez whats wrong with these people and to this day people are still commenting.

I have nothing against anyone and never have but i do know to that i have been other places and been addressed, when the person doing the talking was Not being addressed or spoken about in any such way, but they had to jump in start making rude remarks acting like they are miss queen of whatever. Alot on here i see people acting like they dont know whats happening and those few i truly believe they dont, its not everyone that shows these attitudes. But the few that do are ruining it for all, the ones laughing the loudest are usually the most guilty i have found in my life, because yea i am one of the gross older ones. Sometimes its the life experiences that make us learn and know who we are, but respect and tolerance are taught at a early age.

We dont have to know the past, what we see is today, or yesterday or last week its all been the same. You dont need to worry about most of the newbies because they probably wont stick around, so to the comment about you dont need them maybe you dont Personally its not the sand where some of these heards are stuck

[doodlebug 3]

[Reynaldo 0]

[sarah and hicham 3]

My side hurts from laughing so much.

[UmmSqueakster 54]

But we can sure as heck try. It's the kitten kabal!

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Ai ai...

And people, by the way:

Pass that popcorn, my friend. I've run all out.

My side hurts from laughing so much.

We all know how much you LOVE conflict, Sarah. You don't need to remind us.

[jordanianprincess 0]

True i dont have the background, but i do know how many have commented what a joke this place is and how many have been turned away or left. This isnt a place for a popularity contest, its fine you have your best friends, i have a few to, i get email, i got phone numbers, so what you all are old enough to show more respect for someone every bit as equal as you all on in this forum. Last i looked no one owns it. Since we are new we do see from a differnt view point than you that are so familiar with each others ways.

This place is a joke under what reasoning? Sure we fight, but we all care about each other and move on. People argue everywhere in VJ, not just ME/NA. You are making judgments about this forum and the members in it without knowing much about it. Sure we don't own this forum, no one does, but these members who have all this useful information stick around to help new members like yourself. I don't know where I would have been if they weren't here when I joined. There is history here, we aren't going to pretend that don't know each other.

I have nothing against anyone and never have but i do know to that i have been other places and been addressed, when the person doing the talking was Not being addressed or spoken about in any such way, but they had to jump in start making rude remarks acting like they are miss queen of whatever. Alot on here i see people acting like they dont know whats happening and those few i truly believe they dont, its not everyone that shows these attitudes. But the few that do are ruining it for all, the ones laughing the loudest are usually the most guilty i have found in my life, because yea i am one of the gross older ones. Sometimes its the life experiences that make us learn and know who we are, but respect and tolerance are taught at a early age.

This is a public forum, anyone can reply to anyone. These are not closed conversations. It happens to all of us. Who are the few? Why don't you just come out and say it?

We dont have to know the past, what we see is today, or yesterday or last week its all been the same. You dont need to worry about most of the newbies because they probably wont stick around, so to the comment about you dont need them maybe you dont Personally its not the sand where some of these heards are stuck

The things that have happened in the past to this forum are exactly what shaped it to be this way today. You think newbies won't stick around but I was a newbie once myself, and I stuck around as did many.

[Bosco 1]

But we can sure as heck try. It's the kitten kabal!

can we have a canine cabal?

[Sofiyya 1,687]

brnidokiegurl, they're not listening to you. You're too "newbie". They think they know me, and it's so much fun to pile on me and list my faults. Wait your turn, girl!

Edited January 25, 2007 by Green-eyed girl

[UmmSqueakster 54]

can we have a canine cabal?

If you need some piccies, might I suggest cuteoverload? However, as a cat person, I will have nothing whatso ever to do with any member of the canine cabal

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I went to the fights and a mature, productive dialogue broke out.

I wish! Still waiting . . .

Fresh popcorn. Thx, Reynaldo!

Edited January 25, 2007 by Green-eyed girl

[sereia 0]

Edited January 25, 2007 by abdounjen

[Marry American 0]

I know better than to be convinced, but if you are, fine.

Look, I said what needed to be said. Others don't want to hear it. I'm being told that all these individual points of view exist, but it's clear that there is only one point of view when it comes to discussing the effect your friendships and bonding have on board dynamics. It's deny, deny, deny, make it go away.

Ok, I get it, I get it! enough already! Denial rules!

You're deranged.

(I came to that conclusion on my own tyvm.)

And you're a troll. I came to that on my own based on your troll like behavior, showing up to fan the flames. That's the only time I see you.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

I have nothing against anyone that acts decent, if the past is what shaped it to what it is today must have been one heck of a past to teach only stuf like this. Take a look one whole day wasted and what was accomplished? only those choice few that are still laughing and will more than likely continue on. Continue on i need to go home, hopefully it can all be resolved.

I wont have a turn, little past all that