Past the 30 day processing time

[saruno1958 0]

Ok Everyone,

I did called them. Well I called them the first time and waited. When they finally transferred me to pick up the call........They hung up on me. So I did it all again. I waited about 20 more minutes and finally got to talk to a warm voice on the other end. She was very nice but could not tell me anything. Other than I am definitely in the system. She took all the info... My receipt number, my name, my fiance's name etc. She told me that they would do a referral and would hear something in about 30 days. Pretty much we all have been discussing. I refuse to just stand by and wait at this point. I've done the "be patient thing". This is my life. I was hoping to have Nadya here and settled before I go on active duty with my air guard unit. Now I do not think it would be fair to bring the woman I love deeply here than leave for a month. This just sucks! Nadya is very understanding but does not make me feel better. Well this is my private hell and will just have to suck it up. Thanks to all of you

Scott

[irishgirl73 0]

Believe me I know exactly how you feel. Our case was outside the processing times, I called them and the took a "referral", I then got a letter telling me that our case was still being investigated. It is incredibly frustrating to have your life on hold-waiting for an answer. I finally got my Noa2 the other day(day 88). It was out of the blue-I checked my e-mail and there it was. I am sure you will hear something very soon.

In the words of many of my fellow vjer's .........................."be patient, your time will come" They must have told me that a thousand times-I realize that they were right. (sssshhhh don't tell them I don't want them to say "I told you so" )

I was never very good with the patience thing but in this process-we don't have a choice.

best of luck to you-I am sure you will have good news very soon