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Sad.wasi   32

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hello everybody ..i need your help ..actully there is 15 years difference between me and my wife age ..i mean she is 15 years older then me ..does any body knows if the USCis or NVC will make that issue or deny our petition ?does age difference happen ? i am so worried so please help me .any kinda suggestion ll be highly appriciated ...:(

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NigeriaorBust   4,087

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An age difference that is against cultural norms is considered a red flag and you will have to do more to prove that the relationship is real but by itself is not an automatic denial

This will not be over quickly. You will not enjoy this.

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NigeriaorBust   4,087

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A red flag is something that signals that you may be faking your relationship and will cause the consulate to look harder at everything and make your interview more difficult

This will not be over quickly. You will not enjoy this.

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c12h22oh   11

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If you between 40 and 60 will be fine but if you over 70 will be a problem ... you did not mentioned the range.

let say I am 80 years old for sure my petition will be deny; but if you are below 40 and can support your fiance

I do not see reason, I do not know if from Pakistan is easy to claim someone; that should be your mayor worry

not the age. at the end all goes to the consul at the American Embassy in Pakistan this morning I was reading

a deny visa from pakistan in this VISA JOURNEY FORUM

good luck you going to need it

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You can not be denied based on age alone. You must prove that you have an ongoing, bonafide relationship. Lack of proof supporting your relationship will get you denied, not the age difference. Make sure you send all of he evidence you can, and be honest at the interview. I am 21 years older than my husband and age was never an issue at any point during our process. My husband has been here for a year.


If you between 40 and 60 will be fine but if you over 70 will be a problem ... you did not mentioned the range.

let say I am 80 years old for sure my petition will be deny; but if you are below 40 and can support your fiance

I do not see reason, I do not know if from Pakistan is easy to claim someone; that should be your mayor worry

not the age. at the end all goes to the consul at the American Embassy in Pakistan this morning I was reading

a deny visa from pakistan in this VISA JOURNEY FORUM

good luck you going to need it

there is no cutoff point of 70 or 80, not sure where you get your information, that is hogwash. A visa cannot be denied based on age alone.


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Sad.wasi   32

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waoww.....great ..and thanks all of you guys helping me and removing my sadness ....let me tell you our age difference ...i am 24 and my wife 39 .. and we filed the case at st may 2013 n that wnet to NBC and still on initial ..so how long should i wait for approval ?

Interview Date is november 18, 2014 :dancing: :goofy: :idea:

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hello everybody ..i need your help ..actully there is 15 years difference between me and my wife age ..i mean she is 15 years older then me ..does any body knows if the USCis or NVC will make that issue or deny our petition ?does age difference happen ? i am so worried so please help me .any kinda suggestion ll be highly appriciated ...sad.png

My husband is 26 yrs older than me and i dont see it being a problem either. We are at NVC stage and almost complete. I have plenty of proof of our relationship and weddings pics with family.

So i shall say the same as others age is not relevant if you have a TRUE marriage and can prove it.

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stevie b   141

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brother when did u file ur petition and after how long it was approved ?

you can plan on a mimimum of 8 months for the first approval these days

then a few months from nvc to embassy

then a month or three at the embassy

being from a high fraud country, expect AP after the interview

total time to wait minimum 10 months plus whatever AP turns out to be


8/16/2012 I-129F NOA1
11/8/2012 Married
1/3/2013 I-129F cancelled
1/29/2013 withdrawal notice received
2/5/2013 I-130 NOA1 with error on wife's name
Case status not available
2/5/2013 Unable to generate service request

3/13/2013 transferred to local office
3/26/2013 Service request generated
4/12/2013 Infopass, file in workflow March 28
4/19/2013 Case status available - APPROVED!

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6/7/2013 NVC logs file as received

6/11/2013 Case number and IIN assigned

6/12/2013 DS-3032 emailed

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6/14/2013 DS-3032 emailed attention superuser (stupid me)

6/23/2013 DS-3032 emailed attention supervisor

6/24/2013 DS-3032 accepted

6/25/2013 IV bill generated and paid

07/06/2013 IV & AOS sent; 07/11/2013 NVC logs received

07/30/2013 IV Accepted; AOS Checklist

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I am 13 years older than my husband. Age was never a concern. We have ton of proof. We used to live together in the US. I am the USC. Like an earlier post says, if you were 80 years old it might be an issue. 15 years in not a big deal POSITIVE VIBES.. Good Luck

Married March 9, 2013
NOA1 I-130 April 12, 2013
Transferred to TSC Nov 27, 2013
APPROVED March 18, 2014 FINALLY ! ! ! !! 11 MONTHS & 6 LONG DAYS FOR MY NOA2
Case shipped from TSC to NVC March 21, 2014
Rec'd NOA2 hard copy March 22, 2014
Case rec'd & Case Number assigned April 1, 2014 AMAZING !!!
PAID IV and AOS fees online April 5, 2014
Fees show paid/DS 260 avail. /DS260 submitted/AOS&IV pkg sent April 9, 2014
FEDEX delivered @ NVC April 11, 2014
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DS260 accepted April 30, 2014
Checklist for Birth cert/police cert May 1, 2014
AOS accepted May 5, 2014
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CASE COMPLETE JUNE 4, 2014 CC letter received via email June 11, 2014

INTERVIEW JULY 15, 2014

Waiver finally FedEx'd to Phoenix Lockbox August 21, 2014

WAIVER APPROVED December 17, 2014

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KayDeeCee   4,893

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If you between 40 and 60 will be fine but if you over 70 will be a problem ... you did not mentioned the range.

let say I am 80 years old for sure my petition will be deny; but if you are below 40 and can support your fiance

I do not see reason, I do not know if from Pakistan is easy to claim someone; that should be your mayor worry

not the age. at the end all goes to the consul at the American Embassy in Pakistan this morning I was reading

a deny visa from pakistan in this VISA JOURNEY FORUM

good luck you going to need it

Please cite your source for stating that someone over 70 or 80 years old will be denied their petition or for a visa.

Edited by Jay-Kay

Link to K-1 instructions for Ciudad Juarez, Mexico > https://travel.state.gov/content/dam/visas/K1/CDJ_Ciudad-Juarez-2-22-2021.pdf

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You can not be denied based on age alone. You must prove that you have an ongoing, bonafide relationship. Lack of proof supporting your relationship will get you denied, not the age difference. Make sure you send all of he evidence you can, and be honest at the interview. I am 21 years older than my husband and age was never an issue at any point during our process. My husband has been here for a year.

there is no cutoff point of 70 or 80, not sure where you get your information, that is hogwash. A visa cannot be denied based on age alone.

I agree with mimolicious!

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If you between 40 and 60 will be fine but if you over 70 will be a problem ... you did not mentioned the range.

let say I am 80 years old for sure my petition will be deny; but if you are below 40 and can support your fiance

I do not see reason, I do not know if from Pakistan is easy to claim someone; that should be your mayor worry

not the age. at the end all goes to the consul at the American Embassy in Pakistan this morning I was reading

a deny visa from pakistan in this VISA JOURNEY FORUM

good luck you going to need it

Please where did you get this information from?? I will advice to refrain from miss- informing the OP.

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