Serious interview jitters

[elle13 15]

How do you guys cope? My interview is in 2 weeks. I have nothing to hide, no dodgy history, but occasionally freak out a little at the thought of being denied for some technicality I have overlooked or was unaware of.

Some days I feel fine but there are moments where I feel like I'm about to be wheeled into surgery!

I keep thinking of a million other things I could add to the documents I am taking with me. More photos? More emails? We have know each other for 9 years, married for over a year. I love him and miss him so much. I guess now that we are nearing the end of the process, I cannot bear the thought of a denial this close to the finishing line.

[Vitaliy_and_Katya 3]

You have known each other for 9 years and obviously have proof of ongoing relationship, why worry? Savor those moments, that you and your husband have gone through all these troubles and are still together. The officer on interview will see this as well. Think of why you love the man you married and the officer will see this too.

Good luck to both of you!

Sincerely,

Kate

[speedwell 224]

Don't make up stuff to be worried about. I bet your interview will be anticlimactic.

As my therapist says, if you're going to make up a version of future events, why not make up a version you like? Imagine yourself smiling and confident and the interviewer smiling back and saying "I've decided to approve your visa."

[elle13 15]

You have known each other for 9 years and obviously have proof of ongoing relationship, why worry? Savor those moments, that you and your husband have gone through all these troubles and are still together. The officer on interview will see this as well. Think of why you love the man you married and the officer will see this too.

Good luck to both of you!

Sincerely,

Kate

Thanks for the encouragement! Only people going through this process will understand.

[elle13 15]

Don't make up stuff to be worried about. I bet your interview will be anticlimactic.

As my therapist says, if you're going to make up a version of future events, why not make up a version you like? Imagine yourself smiling and confident and the interviewer smiling back and saying "I've decided to approve your visa."

Thanks. You have a therapist? Very Hollywood!

In all seriousness, I hope you're okay and that you get to your finishing line very soon.

[speedwell 224]

Thanks. You have a therapist? Very Hollywood!

In all seriousness, I hope you're okay and that you get to your finishing line very soon.

I have a therapist so my life doesn't turn into Hollywood

[abdelnish83 6]

me too. we havent even gotten a date yet and im freaked out. lol

[velrich 50]

I remember feeling the same way. Especially since I did not send any photographs which I had and many other things which could have proved ongoing relationship. Anyway, I worried for nothing because it was smooth sailing.

Just try and keep calm and think of what speedwell said above.

[elle13 15]

I remember feeling the same way. Especially since I did not send any photographs which I had and many other things which could have proved ongoing relationship. Anyway, I worried for nothing because it was smooth sailing.

Just try and keep calm and think of what speedwell said above.

thanks for sharing your experience.

me too. we havent even gotten a date yet and im freaked out. lol

But you already had your interview in 2011? Anyway good to know I'm not the only one!