Having children a positive or negative?

[Teddy B 17,252]

No, it's not what you said. You just mentioned a two-year gap without knowing the circumstances. You considered it a bad thing, when in fact, it was a very good thing, in terms of spouse immigration, the very best of things.

It's EXACTLY what I said.

Having a child together has little to no bearing on the outcome of your case. Having proof of an ongoing and legitimate relationship/marriage and showing that you will not become a financial burden to the US taxpayers is what really matters. According to your timeline, there is a two year gap between your marriage and your filing the I-130. You will want to make sure that you have proof of a bonafide relationship during this time. Good luck.

You really need to find another hobby besides me, this obsession you have isn't a healthy one.

[GodsGift225 54]

Having a child together has little to no bearing on the outcome of your case. Having proof of an ongoing and legitimate relationship/marriage and showing that you will not become a financial burden to the US taxpayers is what really matters. According to your timeline, there is a two year gap between your marriage and your filing the I-130. You will want to make sure that you have proof of a bonafide relationship during this time. Good luck.