I LOVE KIDS

[Tough_Era 71]

I think it's an incredible blessing for you ! But I know it's also an incredible responsibility and I know it's a lot of stress and hard work with 3 little babies at once as well as parenting with the other 3 older kids at the same time. You are Super Woman !

Yep, Being a mom takes a lot of work.

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

Don't be, I'm not upset or something, So, it's ok.

Ok good and i look forward to hearing about your visa approval and what you think of living here. You know the job market sucks....I am a nurse and have to go back to work because my husband never found a job, then we had the triplets and both stayed home with them for a year. Now, i have to go back to work and I am finding it very difficult to find one and it's supposed to be easy for nurses. It really sucks. Just a heads up on it may take a long while if you dont know anyone with connections for a job when you get here.

[Tough_Era 71]

Ok good and i look forward to hearing about your visa approval and what you think of living here. You know the job market sucks....I am a nurse and have to go back to work because my husband never found a job, then we had the triplets and both stayed home with them for a year. Now, i have to go back to work and I am finding it very difficult to find one and it's supposed to be easy for nurses. It really sucks. Just a heads up on it may take a long while if you dont know anyone with connections for a job when you get here.

I'm not worrying about the job.. you can tell that the job is waiting for me already .

My aim is to continue my study to become something and i will figure out what kind of area are so wanted there to get the right degree.

I will let you know about my visa approval or denial .

wish me look plz

[aaydrian 479]

It's great to be able to have the choice and opportunity to put a career first (male/female) but it's usually at the cost a family life. It's really rewarding to be successful initially but as time passes a lot of these folks become lonely because they have no kids to keep them company and family because those folks are busy with their children or granchildren.

Ah ok...thanks. I was hesitant to say how many kids i had for fear someone would attack me on overpopulating the world or something stupid like that haha

As long as Nadya Suleman isn't your role model your good. Are your boys(?) all identical?

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

Well aaydrian if it were up to me I'd stay at home with my kids until school age, but savings are near gone and hubby still in Gen ed classes its going to be a while before he can contribute. And who the Effect plans triplets if that's what you're insinuating? Yea unless you're Nadia I guess, but never in a billion years thought I'd have triplets! Ever! So we had to make some quick plans. I don't quite understand your post if your for or against working lol

Z I am glad you can just focus on school, that's lovely. I do wish you luck!

Eff...not effect...dumb autocorrect lol

You're not your...whatevee

You're not your...whatevee

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

OK, I get what youre saying aaydrian...sorry, i had just woke up and my brain wasnt fully functional yet lol

[aaydrian 479]

Well aaydrian if it were up to me I'd stay at home with my kids until school age, but savings are near gone and hubby still in Gen ed classes its going to be a while before he can contribute. And who the Eff plans triplets if that's what you're insinuating?

Oh so they are identical triplets then.

My point is pretty much working and not wanting kids is great in the early years but when those folks hit 50 and up they really start feeling alone esp so when friends & family are busy with their own family.

OK, I get what youre saying aaydrian...sorry, i had just woke up and my brain wasnt fully functional yet lol

Haha- blaming the brain when you know the kids are driving you up the wall so early in the morn.

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

If I say fraternal, what does it mean to you?

Edited September 18, 2012 by ErikaAndHamit

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

Bettrr yet what if I had a pair and a spare? That's a set of identical.twine and a fraternal?

[Darnell 8,478]

Somebody here wronged me by telling me that i hate kids

I love them so much.

What are your feelings about yer lass, being that she's past 'child-bearing-age' ?

This may be a question at the interview, ya know.

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

LOL he's had his interview and got 221g...he says it's from not having the I-134 (he brought the I-864)..yet he stated she had the 22g in her hand at the beginning of the interview...then he proceeded to get in a fight with every woman LOL got banned then returned as Zzzzz instead of Zagray, then got banned with that name...was a wild day. Either way, hopefully he got denied becasue he's obviously a fake troll. my first feelings were right.

[Darnell 8,478]

ssssh - let's not present facts here, even if'n yer gut and my gut were spot-on on day 1 .

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

I even apologized for being "wrong" when I second guessed myself...why, will I get in trouble? Hahahaha, I'm still a newbie when it comes to posting on hot topics and not getting into trouble. I love your question though, too bad he won't be back to answer. He was playing us all for a fool, used us to try to help him with his visa fraud and once denied, let us all have it. Oh well, it was interesting and entertaining while it lasted.

[sandinista! 1,816]

What is making you say he got denied?

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

I don't think the report button pushers thought this through very well. Now we don't get to hear the next chapter.