May 2012 Filers

[SweetDelish 38]

hey Brock, nice to see you ... how are you doing?

[sk8rpatty 17]

Or even a "congrats" not one.

[BrockUK 26]

hey Brock, nice to see you ... how are you doing?

Hey SweetDelish! I'm doing good thank you. My fiancee had got the confirmation that she is in remission and is cancer free. However she has an amount of fluid excess in her head that has built up due to the chemotherapy but apart from that she is doing good.

My fiancee called the USCIS and apparently my letter from the US embassy should be with me at some point next week, which means we have our NOA2 (I think?). We haven't had the email, text or letter confirming our petition approval, so still playing the waiting game and not giving my hopes up until we get either letter lol

I am so sorry about what you are going through. Once was more than enough but twice?! That man doesn't know what he had, he doesn't deserve a partner like you. Hang in there girl, you are stronger than you think!

Or even a "congrats" not one.

My point exactly. We are a family and should be treated as such!

[SweetDelish 38]

Hey SweetDelish! I'm doing good thank you. My fiancee had got the confirmation that she is in remission and is cancer free. However she has an amount of fluid excess in her head that has built up due to the chemotherapy but apart from that she is doing good.

My fiancee called the USCIS and apparently my letter from the US embassy should be with me at some point next week, which means we have our NOA2 (I think?). We haven't had the email, text or letter confirming our petition approval, so still playing the waiting game and not giving my hopes up until we get either letter lol

I am so sorry about what you are going through. Once was more than enough but twice?! That man doesn't know what he had, he doesn't deserve a partner like you. Hang in there girl, you are stronger than you think!

oh my yay! thats such good news! I'm so happy for you! either way Brock, your NOA2 is right around the corner, not long now.

yes, twice was too much, though, hes manned up and told me he made a mistake and has agreed to go to counseling to sort out his issues, so for now we are continuing on this path, I have told him that I wont be shipping my things over until after we actually are married. hes panicking about that now so is trying to make amends by making some firm plans, booking tickets and hotels for Christmas with his family. Its a start. His co-workers also asked him this morning what today's status was. I was trying to avoid actually telling anyone.. haha. but I figured it would come up. thank you, its nice to have the support here, even if its online.

[relshamy 11]

Oh man. There are people around my date already with approvals. I played with numbers right now, there are people before me and after me who got it today. I am soo excited but super nervous. Praying so much now.

[BrockUK 26]

yes, twice was too much, though, hes manned up and told me he made a mistake and has agreed to go to counseling to sort out his issues, so for now we are continuing on this path, I have told him that I wont be shipping my things over until after we actually are married.

IMO, that is a big step for anyone to admit their problem and go seek counselling. If he can learn to be open to a counselor, then it is only a matter of time that he realizes that he should be opening to his best friend, wife and soul mate...

...You.

Things will only get better if you both want it to

[sk8rpatty 17]

I'm doing good thank you. My fiancee had got the confirmation that she is in remission and is cancer free.

My fiancee called the USCIS and apparently my letter from the US embassy should be with me at some point next week, which means we have our NOA2

Wonderful news Brock!! That calls for 3 dancy guys!!

And yes, it sure sounds like you have NOA2! More great news.

Congratulations!!

[Andie 147]

Wonderful news Brock!! That calls for 3 dancy guys!!

And yes, it sure sounds like you have NOA2! More great news.

Congratulations!!

[BrockUK 26]

Wonderful news Brock!! That calls for 3 dancy guys!!

And yes, it sure sounds like you have NOA2! More great news.

Congratulations!!

LOL thank you, although I am being really skeptical about it as this isn't the first time USCIS told us something then it never came true (such as our petition was to be expedited).

I think it will hit me only when I open that letter, sorry Im not trying to be a downer or anything I just dont want my hopes being shattered once more...

...then again, if it is true YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH BABY!!!!! :dance: :dance:

[sk8rpatty 17]

No worries, totally understand. Let us know as soon as you received it so we can "YEEEAAAAAAAAAAAHH Baby" with you!

I know what you mean, I'm up and down so much lately. So excited about the possibility that he will soon be home, but constantly worrying that something will go wrong or there will be a delay...or worse. This whole process just sucks and I wish we were all done with it and celebrating our weddings.

[SweetDelish 38]

IMO, that is a big step for anyone to admit their problem and go seek counselling. If he can learn to be open to a counselor, then it is only a matter of time that he realizes that he should be opening to his best friend, wife and soul mate...

...You.

Things will only get better if you both want it to

he should be! hes one himself.. I think thats why he is more open to doing so, hes also recognized that its nothing to do with me, its his issues. Hes good about opening up to me, its one of the things that kept me hanging in there, its just he has a hard time with processing the information that scares him, he has an irrational fear of getting divorced. its not getting married that scares him, its getting divorced.

thanks Brock.

[AnnaLouise 5]

Awesome news Brock!!!!!

[Jacque67 7,328]

Good luck to everyone posting here!

The May filers should publish a book- much more interesting than reality tv If I hadn't got engaged to an USC I would never have known that this insane world of waiting, existed. I hope you all get to be with your loved ones soon. :thumbs:

[Pinkrlion 2,673]

We got approved!!! 178 days

Congrats

[Pinkrlion 2,673]

sir i am in tention plzz help me out can i get co-sponser from my friend?? or dad???

Anyone who has a green card (lpr), or is a US Citizen can be a co-sponsor.

Omer1 I am getting really fed up with your selfishness. You have no regard, concern or respect about anyone else's roller-coaster of emotions or what they are going through.

This May 2012 thread is to help people and what they are going through. This thread is a like a relationship itself, we are here for each other as others are here for us.

You (Sir) are completely selfish and have had not replied ONCE to anyone else's thread or concerns. Its all about you, you.....you.

We have helped you more than enough, we have answered your questions. How about giving your time up to support someone else rather than wait for people to help you all the time huh?

Rant over.

Say it again. LOL