broken heart

[sarah and hicham 3]

What does it mean then? "I can't expect clarification if I do not ask". You asked, right?

[john_and_marlene 162]

What does it mean then? "I can't expect clarification if I do not ask". You asked, right?

If I didn't ask I would definitely not expect that clarification would be offered out of the blue.

If I did ask, it might be offered and the chances that it would be offered would be far greater than if the question had not been asked.

[sarah and hicham 3]

gotcha!

[Together4ever 1]

I know members who personally refuse to share ANY of their personal information simply because they don't wish to be fodder for those who have no consideration whatsoever for what they are going through.

this is always a good idea on the internet

... regarding their visa process. It is DEMANDED by many members. This is what I was referring in the context of this thread.

[sarah and hicham 3]

I know members who personally refuse to share ANY of their personal information simply because they don't wish to be fodder for those who have no consideration whatsoever for what they are going through.

this is always a good idea on the internet

... regarding their visa process. It is DEMANDED by many members. This is what I was referring in the context of this thread.

Well Tanya offered that information about her and her husband and told us what happened. Also, I don't get the "It was a 2 hour chat in 3 months" part. Does that mean it was their first chat in 3 months? WOW!

[morocco4ever 63]

Oh man, you guys can be so mean! I don't know Tanya's story, but it sounds like she is really hurting here. Lighten up a bit and save the witty comments for a less emotional post. Usually you guys make me laugh, but this was not the right time.

i didn't say it. i just commented on it.

don't make me get out the feather duster to make you giggle again

Well now that could be fun....

You know, when I am either pissed off or upset I ramble on and on. I have no idea what I am saying, so I think it is possible that it didn't come out as it was planned. Also, she is not a US born citizen, so her English isn't as good as ours.

I honestly doubt if someone is being paid for services they are going to post this here for the world to see. In fact, she wouldn't waste her time on this board at all...to time consumming for someone who isn't in it for love.

[othman and lavon 0]

to tanya I am so sorry for how things are going for u. Also to hichamslove and it can apply to anyone else who sometimes feel like giving up ...........be patient................ my handsome who is also in Morocco always tells me to be patient instead of me telling him. It just really helps a relationship when the couple can spend everyday online for at least an hour. The longest we spent was 4 hours I think. Yes, I do work fulltime but I make that commitment to him. We might miss two or three times a month but if we do I still call him for a few minutes. Anyways, dont give up hope ...................be patient............ and if it is meant to be then it will happen and ya'll will be together. Heck, last year I never imagine after I started talking to him that I would actually get to go to Morocco and I did this year. Good luck to everyone and Best wishes!!

[limah 1]

I totally agree with you othman and lavon, you have to talk.

We are already making sacrifices to be with our men and, and others to be with their women. We are putting the $ on the visa process, and yes its costly, so y not spend a few extra $z to talk to them as often as you can during the week. They have calling cards and stuff that cost $3. Hey, 30 minutes a week is better than 1 time every few months. This builds character in your relationship and you are not strangers to each other when you talk. You get to know each other and what to expect. Kinda helps with the interview part, too.Im sure! I couldnt even understand 1/2 the stuff my husband was saying the 1st few times we spoke. Very sexy accent! Mmm-mmm-mmm! Which only meant to me, I have to call him more often. I don't want to 4get what he sounds like. It's bad enough I have forgotten what his hands feel like and look like, and what it feels like to be held. The phone and the internet are pretty much all I have right now and I wouldn't trade it for the world. Well..... YES I WOULD! I'D TRADE IT FOR HIM!

[ya falaha! 0]

30 mins a week?? I'd be in serious withdrawal..hahaha. Mohamed and I talk at least 45 mins a day. It's a MUST. It's all we have for now so it's very important.

[Fandango 1,439]

I know members who personally refuse to share ANY of their personal information simply because they don't wish to be fodder for those who have no consideration whatsoever for what they are going through.

this is always a good idea on the internet

... regarding their visa process. It is DEMANDED by many members. This is what I was referring in the context of this thread.

Get over yourself, Mother Goose....the post was put out there, we asked for clarification.

Jeez, if you think this place is the cesspool you make it out to be, I wonder why you stick around...unless you like being the tissue patrol. I'm sorry to sound so harsh, but your lectures are tired and tbph, getting on my nerves.

We're all adults here....you don't need to tell us how to act. I don't care how you act insomuch as you stop getting on your pedestal and telling the rest of us what to do, or giving an oratory on how ####### we are. Govern yourself, and if this place is sooo bad:

1) leave

2) get over it

3) put everyone you think is so ####### on ignore

...otherwise, you're in for always being upset.

I say this with the nicest of intentions, but really...this mother hen routine really needs to stop imo.

This place will never be the happy happy rainbow and unicorns getalong gang, superfically Stepford place that you think it should be. I think you need to really accept that in order to find happiness in belonging to the place that it is.

[jordanianprincess 0]

30 mins a week?? I'd be in serious withdrawal..hahaha. Mohamed and I talk at least 45 mins a day. It's a MUST. It's all we have for now so it's very important.

2-4 hours a day for us....but phones only. He hates the internet now that he has vonage.

[CarolineM 0]

This place will never be the happy happy rainbow and unicorns getalong gang, superfically Stepford place that you think it should be. I think you need to really accept that in order to find happiness in belonging to the place that it is.

I used to love the getalong gang...that TV show

But in all seriousness...this is 100% accurate!

[sarah and hicham 3]

I know members who personally refuse to share ANY of their personal information simply because they don't wish to be fodder for those who have no consideration whatsoever for what they are going through.

this is always a good idea on the internet

... regarding their visa process. It is DEMANDED by many members. This is what I was referring in the context of this thread.

Get over yourself, Mother Goose....the post was put out there, we asked for clarification.

Jeez, if you think this place is the cesspool you make it out to be, I wonder why you stick around...unless you like being the tissue patrol. I'm sorry to sound so harsh, but your lectures are tired and tbph, getting on my nerves.

We're all adults here....you don't need to tell us how to act. I don't care how you act insomuch as you stop getting on your pedestal and telling the rest of us what to do, or giving an oratory on how ####### we are. Govern yourself, and if this place is sooo bad:

1) leave

2) get over it

3) put everyone you think is so ####### on ignore

...otherwise, you're in for always being upset.

I say this with the nicest of intentions, but really...this mother hen routine really needs to stop imo.

This place will never be the happy happy rainbow and unicorns getalong gang, superfically Stepford place that you think it should be. I think you need to really accept that in order to find happiness in belonging to the place that it is.

Lisa, thank you!

Ding ding ding!

[ya falaha! 0]

Yessssssssssss!!!

I know members who personally refuse to share ANY of their personal information simply because they don't wish to be fodder for those who have no consideration whatsoever for what they are going through.

this is always a good idea on the internet

... regarding their visa process. It is DEMANDED by many members. This is what I was referring in the context of this thread.

Get over yourself, Mother Goose....the post was put out there, we asked for clarification.

Jeez, if you think this place is the cesspool you make it out to be, I wonder why you stick around...unless you like being the tissue patrol. I'm sorry to sound so harsh, but your lectures are tired and tbph, getting on my nerves.

We're all adults here....you don't need to tell us how to act. I don't care how you act insomuch as you stop getting on your pedestal and telling the rest of us what to do, or giving an oratory on how ####### we are. Govern yourself, and if this place is sooo bad:

1) leave

2) get over it

3) put everyone you think is so ####### on ignore

...otherwise, you're in for always being upset.

I say this with the nicest of intentions, but really...this mother hen routine really needs to stop imo.

This place will never be the happy happy rainbow and unicorns getalong gang, superfically Stepford place that you think it should be. I think you need to really accept that in order to find happiness in belonging to the place that it is.

[othman and lavon 0]

limah, we loved ur comments. It made me and my husband laugh. I also agree with u about wanting to hear the sexy voice of my husband. Better than the phone is getting online using cam and the microphone. That is what we do. We NEED to see each other. It has REALLY help our marriage alot.

Lavon