obsession

[mike42979 57]

I checked mine like twice a week and that wasnt until the third month lol, i knew they would text me so i sat back and relaxed completely care free.

[RICARDO4EVA2 194]

Oh, Ricardo, we are gonna argue - Sunday dinners need to be a compromise and not only Jamaican food - And if he wants a JA meal, he can cook a JA meal HIMSELF

SUS i & I made a mistake as I think the poster was "eagle+eyed" just notice when we see how the poster just a quote up me 2 times . Also You know they love the "home cooked meal"

ricardo end end of september?! way to burst a girl's bubble! hahawww! i'll take in stride...if a hit mi get a hit mi haffi tek...

and fyi i am a jamaican and i dont need a cook book to learn how to cook jamaican my granny and my momma did a pretty good job of making sure of that...

and PS i'm not as psychotic as my post sounds...i mean i do check it all those times i say i do but i lead a pretty full life with my 21 month old and being 6 months preggers...

End of sept is good... dont want yuh get get knock down with waiting

FYI i dont need a cook book my granny and my momma did a pretty good job of making sure of that (not that either way I would feel any obligation to LEARN to COOK any kind of food on any day of week out of fear of or ELSE.leaving that up to narrow minded individuals who believes a woman place in in the kitchen and no where else)

...and contrary to the post i'm not as psychotic as it might sound...i do LIVE my life...i have a 21 month old son and i'm 6 months pregnant with our second and i have a full time job...but along with that i miss my husband and i'm impatient and a born worrier so sue me...

why you want me sue you babes..? and i'm not sweet talkin you at all. thats the only thing i picked out from the 2 part message.

[iwuvcheshert 6]

Hint: when you stop checking it will come.

i did tgat, and indeed it came after a day of not minding about it

[mo&sain 0]

*biighhug*

stop checking. i know its hard not to, but it brings you through too many emotions. Just wait on the text to come through/letter in the mail. It's coming! Sometimes you may even have to take a break from VJ. Get your mind on to other stuff to help pass the time. Hang in there muffin!

[CDN2US 10]

It's true, the day I didn't check was the day I got a text.

I got the text first - it was later in the evening like 9pm, so I definitely wasn't expecting it. Immediately afterward came the email, and one week later the official letter/notice.

[dsamyra3 3]

Oh how I remember those days......I was in your shoes, it is an obsession. Best of luck, my friend.

[sus 70]

SUS i & I made a mistake as I think the poster was "eagle+eyed" just notice when we see how the poster just a quote up me 2 times . Also You know they love the "home cooked meal"

Yup, big mistake and it's 2011 - if they love to nyam the "home cooked meal" they can learn how to cook fi demself!

[bigdog 376]

wish i could just forget about noa2 until it comes instead of obsessing abt it all the time...all day,everyday...especially since we got in the vj timeline noa2 estimate. i wake up i check status,check again before i leave for work,get to work check again.check before leaving for lunch,chech after lunch.check as soon as i get home and again before i go to bed...then do it all over the next day

I check our stuff all the time, I think they update on the 15, but haven't seen any thing on ours for 4 months. Info-pass did not help. Tthis will drive you crazy.

[Ben and Jill 37]

wish i could just forget about noa2 until it comes instead of obsessing abt it all the time...all day,everyday...especially since we got in the vj timeline noa2 estimate. i wake up i check status,check again before i leave for work,get to work check again.check before leaving for lunch,chech after lunch.check as soon as i get home and again before i go to bed...then do it all over the next day

It's really, really hard. We waited nearly six months for our NOA2. It does kill you...I remember reading a post where someone said that they made USCIS their homepage because they kept checking to see if their petition had been 'touched', LOL, omg, that made me laugh! You are not alone...I checked obsessively as well...Igor's List was my lifeline, sadly enough, but it's all normal and part of the process, and I guarantee you there's lots who do it. But they are right when they say it will come when you're not expecting it, and to try to occupy yourself with other things; it's a tough road. I'm still sane (for the most part ) and you will make it through. Hang tough.

Edited August 24, 2011 by Ben and Jill

[WaitingToExhale 3]

SUS i & I made a mistake as I think the poster was "eagle+eyed" just notice when we see how the poster just a quote up me 2 times . Also You know they love the "home cooked meal"

End of sept is good... dont want yuh get get knock down with waiting

why you want me sue you babes..? and i'm not sweet talkin you at all. thats the only thing i picked out from the 2 part message.

sus great backing me up!

ricardo sorry abt being so defensive.i reaaly did'nt meant to send TWO posts directing at u.but i sent the firsyt one and then checked could'nt find it and thought it was'nt added so i did a redo...

u have a way with your sarcasm most times and lets just say tieing a knot at the end of the rope and hanging leaves little room for sarcasm tolerance.

have a good day

*biighhug*

stop checking. i know its hard not to, but it brings you through too many emotions. Just wait on the text to come through/letter in the mail. It's coming! Sometimes you may even have to take a break from VJ. Get your mind on to other stuff to help pass the time. Hang in there muffin!

awwwwwwwwwwww much needed! thanx

[sus 70]

sus great backing me up!

ricardo sorry abt being so defensive.i reaaly did'nt meant to send TWO posts directing at u.but i sent the firsyt one and then checked could'nt find it and thought it was'nt added so i did a redo...

u have a way with your sarcasm most times and lets just say tieing a knot at the end of the rope and hanging leaves little room for sarcasm tolerance.

have a good day

LOL, Ricardo knows I am teasing him - he definitely has a way with sarcasm and a very witty way of trying to lighten the mood - it's tough though when you are so stressed to laugh at yourself - Just trust that everyone, whether they admit it or not, has stalked the USCIS website or this one at some point or another -

you are not alone, we need a stalkers' intervention police!

[FB14 14]

I thought I was the only one obsessing over my nao2. I check my email, the uscis website and igors list at least two to three times a day. It's emotional draining for both me and my fiance. I'm trying my best to keep the faith and to remember that God is in control and nothing happens before it's time. The VJ timeline is really getting to me. Tomorrow makes four months since my petition has been filed.

[Princessblack 21]

I know its very hard to do. i use to do the same thing till my husband had to ban mi. Then I had a headache each time. I was waiting for Septembr/October time and baps!

When I stopped looking and left it in God's hands, it came.

Go on your way...occupy your time....look once a week.

(Just got back from Jamdown. Miss hubby already)

Keep the faith.

Edited August 25, 2011 by Mrs. Blackwood

[WaitingToExhale 3]

well...september came and went and still nothing ..but i'm not so much "obsessed" anymore...i only check every 2 days or so now and def not weekends hahaaaww!

still waiting (impatiently!) to exhale...

[RICARDO4EVA2 194]

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