I feel very unlucky

[VSSKS 0]

I am trying to feel hopeful with the flurry of March approvals from CSC but nothing is really helping me feel better..... I feel depressed, sorry for myself and ..... utterly lonely.

After sending my application on April 7th, I first waited (with many of you) for the IMBRA situation to resolve. Then I had to fly to India in June. My luck:: IMBRA RFE arrived just a day after I left the country. While in India, I thought I would spend some good time with my fiance. As luck would have it, my fiance suffered heart attack two days after I arrived there... we spent 5 weeks in hospitals. ICU, operation theatres, recovery room, OPD...... I was so stressed out that I myself ended up in ICU for one day.

Is there silver lining here? Yes! Our love grew stronger and stronger. We braced rough time together. We developed a bond that cannot be broken now.

The delay in submitting RFE, put me right in the back of the line..... !!

I miss him more now....I cry all the time. Would I get lucky and get approval notice now?

[ready4ONE 5,400]

I would certainly hope so! And wow, quite a story. There appears to be little rhyme or reason to the approval application process and clearing out the older applications appears to be a priority. Hold on a little while longer, which I am sure is very difficult, but your approval will indeed come.

[gugu24 0]

Hey hang in there bahiya loog. dunyia bohat zaalim hoti hay. hum ki timeline daikho or soocho kon majloom hay. allright just being urdu speaker from bombay. dont worry be happy. see one movie or sharukh khan everyday and drink daaru it would be fine. ok again kidding.

well waitting, hoping, thinking are more sweeter when the time goes by bcz once you get out of this situation, you enjoy more than ussual.

[The_dip_sticks 0]

Im sorry that your having such a hard time. I truely hope you both you and your loved one feel better and that you hear something regarding your petition in the upcoming days. God bless you both to stay strong as you have been till now.

[ready4ONE 5,400]

One more thought too, if you are ever really down just search for a gugu post! That kid's happy little face can cheer anyone up!

[gugu24 0]

One more thought too, if you are ever really down just search for a gugu post! That kid's happy little face can cheer anyone up!

thanx for the good and sweet remarks about our baby. my wife/fiance and our daughter gave me the courage to go through all this painful process and still far away. inshallah i hope it would be over soon.

[Michaela_Hassan 1]

Hang in there! Hope you get your approval fast!

Michaela

[jenny and manny 0]

I am trying to feel hopeful with the flurry of March approvals from CSC but nothing is really helping me feel better..... I feel depressed, sorry for myself and ..... utterly lonely.

After sending my application on April 7th, I first waited (with many of you) for the IMBRA situation to resolve.

Is there silver lining here? Yes! Our love grew stronger and stronger. We braced rough time together. We developed a bond that cannot be broken now.

Our time of approval will come SOON....M an April filer too, we got a second RFE again. We need to wait and be patient, we don't have a choice. Praying for a speedy recovery of your only love. Hang in there. God bless...

[kitkat1 5]

I am trying to feel hopeful with the flurry of March approvals from CSC but nothing is really helping me feel better..... I feel depressed, sorry for myself and ..... utterly lonely.

After sending my application on April 7th, I first waited (with many of you) for the IMBRA situation to resolve. Then I had to fly to India in June. My luck:: IMBRA RFE arrived just a day after I left the country. While in India, I thought I would spend some good time with my fiance. As luck would have it, my fiance suffered heart attack two days after I arrived there... we spent 5 weeks in hospitals. ICU, operation theatres, recovery room, OPD...... I was so stressed out that I myself ended up in ICU for one day.

Is there silver lining here? Yes! Our love grew stronger and stronger. We braced rough time together. We developed a bond that cannot be broken now.

The delay in submitting RFE, put me right in the back of the line..... !!

I miss him more now....I cry all the time. Would I get lucky and get approval notice now?

Oh VSSKS that is such a sad turn of events for you. But the silver lining that you already see is that you were THERE for him - everything happens for a reason and it is simply amazing that you were physcially with him and were able to spend those 5 weeks together. Extremely stressful, no doubt, but so much better that you were there.

It appears that, for the most part, CSC is back in order of processing by NOA1 date so you should not have much longer to wait. Have you considered contacting a senator for assistance? I wonder if there is any way to get a medical expedite? Just a thought. Hang in there.

[Nagishkaw 510]

VSSKS,

You are not alone . I have cried so many tears you could fill a bathtub with them all. The stress can either make you or break you. This is a very challenging process . Keep praying , your approval will come soon.

God bless you and kep you in good health.

[Carlawarla 1]

I'm so glad you were with your SO when this tragic event took place. But sorry it did take place! I know you're sad, and lonely. Hope you hear some great news soon.

Carla

[VSSKS 0]

Thanks for the encouragement!! I wish for a speedy approval for all of us.

I am hoping to see action on my case this week...otherwise I will contact my senators.

gugu, your baby does make me smile everytime I see her.

[Teachers 12]

Thanks for the encouragement!! I wish for a speedy approval for all of us.

I am hoping to see action on my case this week...otherwise I will contact my senators.

gugu, your baby does make me smile everytime I see her.

Your time is probably coming soon. So far in September CSC has approved 11 April applications from VJ'ers, leaving 20. With luck, you'll hear within a few weeks. (I don't know how much impact your RFE delay will have.)

I am sorry for the health problems, but so thankful that you could weather them together.

Tom

Edited September 11, 2006 by TomYu

[iceyspots 0]

I am sorry about the heart attack... CSC has been moving and their processing dates are moving forward so you are probably only a month to a month and a half away.

Hope things get sorted out as quickly as possible

[nicefuture 0]

I am trying to feel hopeful with the flurry of March approvals from CSC but nothing is really helping me feel better..... I feel depressed, sorry for myself and ..... utterly lonely.

After sending my application on April 7th, I first waited (with many of you) for the IMBRA situation to resolve. Then I had to fly to India in June. My luck:: IMBRA RFE arrived just a day after I left the country. While in India, I thought I would spend some good time with my fiance. As luck would have it, my fiance suffered heart attack two days after I arrived there... we spent 5 weeks in hospitals. ICU, operation theatres, recovery room, OPD...... I was so stressed out that I myself ended up in ICU for one day.

Is there silver lining here? Yes! Our love grew stronger and stronger. We braced rough time together. We developed a bond that cannot be broken now.

The delay in submitting RFE, put me right in the back of the line..... !!

I miss him more now....I cry all the time. Would I get lucky and get approval notice now?

Please never give up your hope. Best wishes!