The hoping not to be denied at Casablanca thread

[KittyPollitt 284]

But if it's the consulate you're referring to, they can tell who we all are by our timelines anyway - just looking at a few key dates is enough for them to know who is who...

That's so true.. it doesn't really matter anyway.. as long as no threats are made.. this consulate knows what they're doing..

Edited June 17, 2010 by squeaky580

[Always+Forever 7]

But if it's the consulate you're referring to, they can tell who we all are by our timelines anyway - just looking at a few key dates is enough for them to know who is who...

Ok...just burst our bubbles...lol...j/k They know ppl need to vent & they know this site is for helping eachother out, so I think if we all start worrying about every little thing that they might read that we right we will stress ourselves out. They want to know the truth...they will read the truth when we pour it out in our posts. I want them to know how I feel about the whole situation...that's why I wrote a page long rebuttle letter. If we weren't on here fighting and defending our relationships, and upset about what's going on...then how important were they to us in the first place?? So we care...if they will deny us for that, then nobody has a chance...seriously!! I hope they come read everything that I've said...maybe then they will see how serious we really are. They NEED to research more in to the actual relationships instead of just little stuff they happen to get from us. Go & see our facebook pages & see how are family & friends are involved on both sides and how they are affected by the handling of our cases. They need to see the whole picture instead of the little window of evidence that we are able to get in front of them. Just my little two cents...sorry for the rampage...lol Done now

Monica

[treehugger 23]

Ok...just burst our bubbles...lol...j/k They know ppl need to vent & they know this site is for helping eachother out, so I think if we all start worrying about every little thing that they might read that we right we will stress ourselves out. They want to know the truth...they will read the truth when we pour it out in our posts. I want them to know how I feel about the whole situation...that's why I wrote a page long rebuttle letter. If we weren't on here fighting and defending our relationships, and upset about what's going on...then how important were they to us in the first place?? So we care...if they will deny us for that, then nobody has a chance...seriously!! I hope they come read everything that I've said...maybe then they will see how serious we really are. They NEED to research more in to the actual relationships instead of just little stuff they happen to get from us. Go & see our facebook pages & see how are family & friends are involved on both sides and how they are affected by the handling of our cases. They need to see the whole picture instead of the little window of evidence that we are able to get in front of them. Just my little two cents...sorry for the rampage...lol Done now

Monica

Hey, by all means vent and rant as much as you want and need...I certainly do! Just be aware that this site is sometimes read by those who make decisions about our lives, and what may seem like an obvious joke to a few posters who have a camaraderie might not be that obvious to them, and worse case scenario if something is misinterpreted who knows how it can affect a poster's case.

[moroccogirlny 100]

The government can access email from an ISP or webmail provider without probable cause warrant. They can also track any IP address. Big brother is always watching.

[KittyPollitt 284]

The government can access email from an ISP or webmail provider without probable cause warrant. They can also track any IP address. Big brother is always watching.

that's great! Does that mean I don't have to print out 400 emails to give them? oh wait.. they only look at that stuff when we don't want them to....

[moroccogirlny 100]

that's great! Does that mean I don't have to print out 400 emails to give them? oh wait.. they only look at that stuff when we don't want them to....

yeah that's why they never look at the proof lol

[Always+Forever 7]

yeah that's why they never look at the proof lol

They took our 300 pgs of conversations at the first interview....then gave all the evidence back at the refusal appointment (don't consider it an interview since no questions were asked) including the original stuff i sent with the 129F...should make for an interesting review when it gets back to the US.

Monica

[Staashi 371]

But if it's the consulate you're referring to, they can tell who we all are by our timelines anyway - just looking at a few key dates is enough for them to know who is who...

Just an FYI - It has been shown that Consular Officers and Immigration Officers do read VJ.

[msheesha 548]

Just an FYI - It has been shown that Consular Officers and Immigration Officers do read VJ.

So, I'm not totally paranoid? Where, when, and how was it shown? THanks.

[treehugger 23]

Just an FYI - It has been shown that Consular Officers and Immigration Officers do read VJ.

I know, that's why I posted that!

[Staashi 371]

So, I'm not totally paranoid? Where, when, and how was it shown? THanks.

I'm fuzzy on the details but ask Charles. As I recall, he knows this info.

[Always+Forever 7]

seriously....i don't care if they read what i post...i post how i feel, because my relationship is important to me & i wanna do whatever i can to get us together...so hopefully they will learn something about us by reading our posts.

Monica

[msheesha 548]

I definitely don't want to burst anyone's bubbles or come across as harsh, but it seems to me in most cases the consulate doesn't necessarily care how we feel about the beneficiaries, especially in a consulate like Morocco. In a place like Morocco, I'm assuming, that the CO's are less interested in the USC's feelings and intentions and more interested in the beneficiaries' intentions and feelings. So, I don't think that reading how much we care about our SO would be as helpful as making negative comments about the CO's could be hurtful.

Just my 2 cents. I could be way off!

[treehugger 23]

seriously....i don't care if they read what i post...i post how i feel, because my relationship is important to me & i wanna do whatever i can to get us together...so hopefully they will learn something about us by reading our posts.

Monica

Sorry, squeaky, don't mean to go off-topic, but imho this is important...

Monica - we know you want to vent, we know that you want advice, we know that you want to express how you feel - we know because we all do the same lol...what I am trying to tell you is please bear in mind that some information can be misinterpreted and might be used against you. If you can't understand that, then so be it.

Don't worry, squeaky, I'll be off now. Good luck to you and everyone else with your applications

In a place like Morocco, I'm assuming, that the CO's are less interested in the USC's feelings and intentions and more interested in the beneficiaries' intentions and feelings. So, I don't think that reading how much we care about our SO would be as helpful as making negative comments about the CO's could be hurtful.

Just my 2 cents. I could be way off!

This.

I really am going now, bye!

[Always+Forever 7]

Sorry, squeaky, don't mean to go off-topic, but imho this is important...

Monica - we know you want to vent, we know that you want advice, we know that you want to express how you feel - we know because we all do the same lol...what I am trying to tell you is please bear in mind that some information can be misinterpreted and might be used against you. If you can't understand that, then so be it.

Don't worry, squeaky, I'll be off now. Good luck to you and everyone else with your applications

This.

I really am going now, bye!

Yes, I understand that any information can be misinterpreted....either here or the information that we give them, that's why I was saying that its good for us to try to explain to them what we mean, that way we don't get misinterpreted. Anything can be read in to just about any statement....I think it's our & especially our SOs jobs to make sure that the CO understands correctly the information provided to them. And if I remember right (i may be wrong) most of what I have posted is related to what the CO has said to us & trying to get more information to be able to handle the situation correctly. And I greatly appreciate those that have been helpful & supportive. I'm sharing so that others can learn from our experience & hopefully not make some of the same mistakes that we did.

Monica