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KBcrand1   1

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If your concerned about the 10 year age gap, I would not be concerned! There are many here that have much bigger age gaps. I know of some very successful relationships that have big age gaps and went the K1 route. I would think one of the most important questions in the consulates mind will be to the young wife, "are you prepared for 5 kids"? Financial support as well maybe a question, but if you above the poverty guidelines, you should be all set there.

Engaged : 11/25/2009

Married : 02/12/2010

I-130 NOA 1: 03/21/2010

RFE : NONE

I-130 NOA 2 : 7/19/2010 (no touch's, no emails, no text notifications) Received Hard copy in mail 7/26 2010.

NVC Received : 8/02/2010

AOS Bill : 8/03/2010 ( Received Via Email after calling on 8/2/2010 )

Paid AOS Bill : 8/04/2010 ( Paid Invoice electronically )

AOS shown as paid : 8/05/2010

Mailed DS-3032 : 8/05/2010

Mailed I-864 pkg : 8/06/2010

NVC Receive i-864 : 8/09/2010

NVC Receive DS-3032 : 8/09/2010

IV Bill (available for pay): 8/20/2010

IV Bill Paid : 8/20/2010

IV Bill Shows Paid! : 8/23/2010 (just waitin for the docs from my wife now) should be here next week!

IV Package Sent Finally: 9/04/2010 (due to arrive 9/7)

Received checklist : 9/06/2010 (they are looking for the IV package) hmmm, ummm, I KNOW! So was I!

IV Package on AVR : 9/10/2010

Received Checklist 9/28/2010 (said PCC not in correct format)

Case Complete 10/13/2010 ( have not received replacement PCC from wife yet to send into NVC, How can this be?) I'm not complaining!

Interview 11/08/2010

PS As of 9/11/2010, USCIS website still not updated, shows NOA-1 date and... blah blah blah. don't count on them folks.

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Ali007   2

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If your concerned about the 10 year age gap, I would not be concerned! There are many here that have much bigger age gaps. I know of some very successful relationships that have big age gaps and went the K1 route. I would think one of the most important questions in the consulates mind will be to the young wife, "are you prepared for 5 kids"? Financial support as well maybe a question, but if you above the poverty guidelines, you should be all set there.

Thank you for your quick response. Well, i won't marry her for taking care of my 5 kids. My concern is, will they think that she just wanna be in US for working as a nanny because she worked as maid before?. We know love is blind but you know, it is not like that for US immigration.

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Dakine   26

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Thank you for your quick response. Well, i won't marry her for taking care of my 5 kids. My concern is, will they think that she just wanna be in US for working as a nanny because she worked as maid before?. We know love is blind but you know, it is not like that for US immigration.

How old are the kids?

Have you considered most pinay want to have a baby?

Are you prepared for that?

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K1 denied, K3/K4, CR-1/CR-2, AOS, ROC, Adoption, US citizenship and dual citizenship

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*m&m*   1

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Thank you for your quick response. Well, i won't marry her for taking care of my 5 kids. My concern is, will they think that she just wanna be in US for working as a nanny because she worked as maid before?. We know love is blind but you know, it is not like that for US immigration.

i think that if you have a lot of documents proving your relationship is genuine then you wouldnt have a problem.. she can even work if she wants to there even before you get married (after filing necessary documents that is..)

AOS

09-30-10: POE - Seattle, WA

10-21-10: WEDDING!!!!

11-18-10: file AOS with EAD

11-20-10: package delivered to Chicago lockbox (day 2)

12-01-10: check cashed out (day 13)

12-02-10: received notice via email and text confirming the application (day 14)

12-05-10: recieved notice of action by mail for both AOS and EAD (day 17)

12-14-10: received biometrics appointment for dec 29 (day 26)

12-15-10: attempted to have biometrics done (walk-in) - failed reschedule after vacation (day 27)

01-03-11: arrive from vacation with new appointment date for biometrics on the mail (day 46)

01-19-11: biometrics done (day 58)

02-03-11: appointment for interview received - march 9 (day 77)

02-07-11: EAD on production - case number inquiry (day 81)

02-11-11: EAD on production (for the 2nd time) - case number inquiry (day 85)

02-14-11: EAD case number inquiry and email notification that it is approved and mailed (day 88)

02-16-11: EAD card received on mail.. yeppeee!!!! (day 90)

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thongd4me Experienced

thongd4me   69

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I don't think the fact that the OP has 5 kids will be a red flag for visa fraud in any way.

What they will want to know is can he SUPPORT 5-6 kids plus a wife who doesn't work?

Not a relationship test, just an income test.

02/2003 - Met

08/24/09 I-129F; 09/02 NOA1; 10/14 NOA2; 11/24 interview; 11/30 K-1 VISA (92 d); 12/29 POE 12/31/09 Marriage

03/29/-04/06/10 - AOS sent/rcd; 04/13 NOA1; AOS 2 NBC

04/14 $1010 cashed; 04/19 NOA1

04/28 Biom.

06/16 EAD/AP

06/24 Infops; AP mail

06/28 EAD mail; travel 2 BKK; return 07/17

07/20/10 interview, 4d. b4 I-129F anniv. APPROVAL!*

08/02/10 GC

08/09/10 SSN

2012-05-16 Lifting Cond. - I-751 sent

2012-06-27 Biom,

2013-01-10 7 Mo, 2 Wks. & 5 days - 10 Yr. PR Card (no interview)

*2013-04-22 Apply for citizenship (if she desires at that time) 90 days prior to 3yr anniversary of P. Residence

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Anh map Grand Master

Anh map   2,098

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Vietnam
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The family size is not an issue as long as he has sufficient income to sponsor the fiancee. It all comes down to demonstrating a bona fide relationship.

What country is the fiancee from?

I-864 Affidavit of Support FAQ -->> https://travel.state.gov/content/visas/en/immigrate/immigrant-process/documents/support/i-864-frequently-asked-questions.html

FOREIGN INCOME REPORTING & TAX FILING -->> https://www.irs.gov/publications/p54/ch01.html#en_US_2015_publink100047318

CALL THIS NUMBER TO ORDER IRS TAX TRANSCRIPTS >> 800-908-9946

PLEASE READ THE GUIDES -->> Link to Visa Journey Guides

MULTI ENTRY SPOUSE VISA TO VN -->>Link to Visa Exemption for Vietnamese Residents Overseas & Their Spouses

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Anh map Grand Master

Anh map   2,098

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@ Anh map.

She's from Malaysia. Will it make different where she come from?

Some embassies/consulates are tougher than others. Knowing where the interview will take place can help VJ members when giving feedback.

I-864 Affidavit of Support FAQ -->> https://travel.state.gov/content/visas/en/immigrate/immigrant-process/documents/support/i-864-frequently-asked-questions.html

FOREIGN INCOME REPORTING & TAX FILING -->> https://www.irs.gov/publications/p54/ch01.html#en_US_2015_publink100047318

CALL THIS NUMBER TO ORDER IRS TAX TRANSCRIPTS >> 800-908-9946

PLEASE READ THE GUIDES -->> Link to Visa Journey Guides

MULTI ENTRY SPOUSE VISA TO VN -->>Link to Visa Exemption for Vietnamese Residents Overseas & Their Spouses

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jrmejia Proficient

jrmejia   31

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My fiancee is 22 years younger than me. I never married nor have kids. She has a 5yr old kid soon to be my son :)

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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