Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

[dillon 6]

I'm so hungry and I don't like what I brought for lunch!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Morning yall,

Missus sorry things are going downhill, I pray that God turns it around and even though you have to go out of town to get the medical attention, hopefully in that time hubby gets a new job (in Jesus name) your pressure calms down (in Jesus name) and you guys can work out the stressors.

Ms Tee- Go Steve Go Steve Congrats on your birthday!! He went all out I love when a man wants to spoil you, its well deserve, glad everything worked for you. Did you like my Facebook gift :rofl:

nat- Go girl, yall have a great trip planned for the Anni date, have fun, take care, and relax, because you deserveit!!!!!

You been doing the dayum thing with those coupons

So we had Moy's b-day party, she was so cute, it was at the mini grand prix my whole dayum family came, and my hubby's friends it was great. Cost an arm and a leg but it was worth it.

Went to the doc on Friday, they said my cervix is shortening and will continue to shorten if I dont relax more. She said that since I have been coming every two weeks, it keeps showing of being unstable, if it shows this Friday that it is incompetent, they will put me on bed rest!!!!!!!!!!!

So im on take it easy mode

Everyone have a blessed day

[MRStee 19]

Of course I did.. It was my favorite gift.... but sssssssssssh don't tell Steve LOL You betta take it easy missy.. we need a healthy JQ Boom and lil boom boom too!

Dills what did you bring? I made seafood salad.. it was pretty dayum good if I might say so.. Want some? LOL

Edited September 20, 2010 by MRStee

[dillon 6]

just a turkey sandwich and cheese its...and it isn't doing anything for me.

JQ looks like a great place to have a party!

[LadyC 1]

Hi Ladies how is everyone doing?

On 9/25/10 me and some friends and family will be walking for Lupus in Baltimore. My sister was recently diagnosed wil SLE and to support her we will walk. She and my other and about 30 friends and family walked on 9/18/10 in Nashville and they raised just over $1300. Please help me reach my goal of $500 by visiting my page at http://lupusgw.kintera.org/baltimore/islandersagainstlupus346. Thank You guys in advance.

[MissusM09 1]

Thanks

for all your comments. I was really venting on Saturday, I was angry too. sooo glad I cant stay mad forever. I rang the orthopedic surgeon again today, just to let them know that number they gave me wasnt working, I told her my situation, she seemed very worried that I hadnt been seen. she has set up an appointment for tomorrow morning (early!) and she has given me another number. she must have gotten onto that woman that wouldnt answer her phone put fire under her behind as She rang me this afternoon. I'm still angry at my husband though, I know he needs me, but he has made this weekend stressful. thats what made me want to go home because the stress was getting to me. I'm not sure how i'm going to proceed now.feeling a bit lost.

[MissusM09 1]

just a turkey sandwich and cheese its...and it isn't doing anything for me.

JQ looks like a great place to have a party!

dillon you want me to send you some fried fish and coco bread?? a patty? some sorrel, or fruit punch? lemme know I can get it to you in five minutes.

[dillon 6]

dillon you want me to send you some fried fish and coco bread?? a patty? some sorrel, or fruit punch? lemme know I can get it to you in five minutes.

yes send it all my way!!!!!!

don't stress everyone gets frustrated with their spouse...I know it is true for me...outside factors such as your foot and him loosing his job can really put stress on a relationship. Just take each day as it comes.

[MissusM09 1]

I know, I am trying deep breathing exercises. ok will send you the food soon. when you see a Blair Underwood lookalike come to you, thats the delivery man. Bon appettit !

[finesse 3]

has anyone bought blue mountain coffee (ground or whole bean) in jamaica recently? at a place locals shop, not a tourist place....how much is it?

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Thanks

for all your comments. I was really venting on Saturday, I was angry too. sooo glad I cant stay mad forever. I rang the orthopedic surgeon again today, just to let them know that number they gave me wasnt working, I told her my situation, she seemed very worried that I hadnt been seen. she has set up an appointment for tomorrow morning (early!) and she has given me another number. she must have gotten onto that woman that wouldnt answer her phone put fire under her behind as She rang me this afternoon. I'm still angry at my husband though, I know he needs me, but he has made this weekend stressful. thats what made me want to go home because the stress was getting to me. I'm not sure how i'm going to proceed now.feeling a bit lost.

Hun, I know it's stressful for you, but he's stressed too. He's feeling like he's the MAN of the house and the BREADWINNER and now he doesn't have a job and can't pay for your treatment. He is angry at himself and taking it out on you which I know he shouldn't, but try get past his attitude and remember the man he really IS....Going back to England wouldnt solve a thing, you'd be MORE unhappy there knowing he is here...

[MissusM09 1]

they've gone upmarket......try this: http://www.bluemountaincoffee.com/index.cfm?method=Products

the coffee looks good.

[NatPatBen 3]

Finesse, how are the babies.

MrsTee, I like those shoes you got for your bday. I need some cuter shoes.

I want some fish & coco bread too!

[MissusM09 1]

Hun, I know it's stressful for you, but he's stressed too. He's feeling like he's the MAN of the house and the BREADWINNER and now he doesn't have a job and can't pay for your treatment. He is angry at himself and taking it out on you which I know he shouldn't, but try get past his attitude and remember the man he really IS....Going back to England wouldnt solve a thing, you'd be MORE unhappy there knowing he is here...

you are right. He is like that. I agree about going to england, but it was mostly about getting healthcare and a place to rest away from the stress, which i probably still need. I just need to get myself together. i'm on crutches and cant do anything for myself, not even toiletting, so i take it out on him too. You know how women are about stuff around the house, men just dont feel the same way about it. I am no Martha stewart by any means, but to me Saturday is tidy the house, wash the clothes buy the food day, sunday is iron the clothes get kid and yourself ready for Monday dayho. I may cook late sometimes, but I try my best to make sure the kid is in bed at the right time. its all really alot of little and major stuff all piled into one, and I'm not sure how to cope with it all. time i suppose, give it time.

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

you are right. He is like that. I agree about going to england, but it was mostly about getting healthcare and a place to rest away from the stress, which i probably still need. I just need to get myself together. i'm on crutches and cant do anything for myself, not even toiletting, so i take it out on him too. You know how women are about stuff around the house, men just dont feel the same way about it. I am no Martha stewart by any means, but to me Saturday is tidy the house, wash the clothes buy the food day, sunday is iron the clothes get kid and yourself ready for Monday dayho. I may cook late sometimes, but I try my best to make sure the kid is in bed at the right time. its all really alot of little and major stuff all piled into one, and I'm not sure how to cope with it all. time i suppose, give it time.

Wow, sounds familiar

Talk to him about it and see if this can all be incorporated together with him and the kids. You have to take it easy.

As women we seem to take on everything and thats not always possible and when it dont go smoothly, how it went last week we tend to blow up.

If you need help ask for it, dont stress yourself off or just go on strike like I know someone did :whistle: :whistle: