Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Hi ladies! Well, we had our ultrasound appt today. First of all let me tell you that this baby is something else! Barely stayed still long enough to get any pictures taken or to check all of the organs! Everything checked out though, except that I have to go back in two weeks because while they could see the heart & it beating, they weren't able to get a good look at all the ventricles, so they want me to come back so they can try and get a better view. This child was flipping, turning, waving, and ducking from the time the wand was put on my stomach! And finally sat still for about 10 seconds long enough for us to see that WE'RE HAVING A GIRL! You know, I was so hooked on the idea of having a boy (I wanted to be the only lady in the house! ) before, but as soon as the technician told me, I was ecstatic! That poor lady earned her paycheck today! She said she had seen 3 other babies that day and ours was the busiest! I'm just thankful that things are going well...my husband was in shock (he honestly thought he would never have a girl) and my mother was laughing!

[Always Blessed 1]

Hi ladies! Well, we had our ultrasound appt today. First of all let me tell you that this baby is something else! Barely stayed still long enough to get any pictures taken or to check all of the organs! Everything checked out though, except that I have to go back in two weeks because while they could see the heart & it beating, they weren't able to get a good look at all the ventricles, so they want me to come back so they can try and get a better view. This child was flipping, turning, waving, and ducking from the time the wand was put on my stomach! And finally sat still for about 10 seconds long enough for us to see that WE'RE HAVING A GIRL! You know, I was so hooked on the idea of having a boy (I wanted to be the only lady in the house! ) before, but as soon as the technician told me, I was ecstatic! That poor lady earned her paycheck today! She said she had seen 3 other babies that day and ours was the busiest! I'm just thankful that things are going well...my husband was in shock (he honestly thought he would never have a girl) and my mother was laughing!

Congrats !

[Thompson2 1]

Wow!! Congrats with all the baby gender news!!! It's funny KJ wanted a girl, but is having a boy and Mrs. Palmer wanted/thought it was a boy, but it's a girl. You know the both of you as soon as that baby is born you aren't ever going to imagine if it was the opposite gender. They both are going to be so perfect for you. So happy for you both!!

KJ- Aidan is going to have QUITE his pick of VJ babies with all these girls going around. He isn't even born and he's set to be a ladies man! Yup, he's G's son. lol

Tee- Congrats on the green card! Love that you have a sexy party to celebrate it's arrival!

Always- Hope you are finding some comfort. Baby girl heard it's the "in" thing to be fashionably late. Well, she is half Jamaican and you they NEVER are on time.. Seriousl, I hope you are able to get some rest and some moments of relaxation. We all are waiting to hear a message from you like the one OneLove just gave.

Congrat! 1Love! How early was Miss Roshayla? I thought she wasn't due until January. She was a good weight though and glad she and you are doing well.

Congrats to Lilla for literally taking a big step and walking despite being destracting by the beads. So cute JaP.

As for the Thompsons..we are packing now for JA for Christmas because we need to figure out how to get all our bags to weigh 49.9 lbs .

Lovin' all the baby news!

[MissusM09 1]

First, I love the name Aidan!!!

Second, FINALLY WE GOT THE GREEN CARD!!!! Sexy party time!!!!

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaay thats great hun. silly me i thought you already had it. But i know thats a huge relief.

Just stopping by to say hi to everyone, congrats on all the babies. None here yet

I'll be walking again without my walking brace boot by the end of the week, and i'm finally able to drive again, so i got my independence back a little. Hubby got another job! which is great and its better than the last place he was in, just in time as i got my independence back. what else.......oh my hospital bill got reduced by 100%. which is great it was over 11 grand. God is good ...

hope you all have a blessed holiday.....

xx

[MissusM09 1]

Good afternoon/evening everyone!! First let me start by saying congrats to all the mama's!! I have some serious baby fever but we will not be entertaining that idea at this point!

We got NOA1 dated 12/1/2010!!

But looking ahead at the income and sponsor part.....my very close friend said she was willing to do it but asked what she would be getting herself in for....... I actually found myself struggling to explain it!! I tried and stumbled looking for the right way to tell her....I know that being a co-sponsor means financial responsibility we get that part, but her question was (playing devil's advocate) "what if he came here and became a loser?" like if me and him don't work out and left and incurred debt??? Hmmmmmmm any idea's on how to properly respond to that? I mean, with the sponsor's responsibility to the debt? Or do you know where to find info for that? (I am sort of lame at finding these kinds of answers on the net)

search under i-864 sponsor responsibilty.uscis website has information with regards to this, but this forum is the best place to look with regards to sponsors responsibility. I had to do this with two separate people, as I was the one receiving the benefit, it might help if the one getting the benefit reassure her that that would not happen. search the forum for similar issues and I'm positive you will get the answer you need, this is one of the most extensive and informative sites for that. she is however your friend, i think truth is the best policy. I said that I would never get welfare or medicare that my sponsor would have to pay back, I promised that would not happen, i would go home first.

all the best

Edited December 7, 2010 by MissusM09

[Always Blessed 1]

Wow!! Congrats with all the baby gender news!!! It's funny KJ wanted a girl, but is having a boy and Mrs. Palmer wanted/thought it was a boy, but it's a girl. You know the both of you as soon as that baby is born you aren't ever going to imagine if it was the opposite gender. They both are going to be so perfect for you. So happy for you both!!

KJ- Aidan is going to have QUITE his pick of VJ babies with all these girls going around. He isn't even born and he's set to be a ladies man! Yup, he's G's son. lol

Tee- Congrats on the green card! Love that you have a sexy party to celebrate it's arrival!

Always- Hope you are finding some comfort. Baby girl heard it's the "in" thing to be fashionably late. Well, she is half Jamaican and you they NEVER are on time.. Seriousl, I hope you are able to get some rest and some moments of relaxation. We all are waiting to hear a message from you like the one OneLove just gave.

Congrat! 1Love! How early was Miss Roshayla? I thought she wasn't due until January. She was a good weight though and glad she and you are doing well.

Congrats to Lilla for literally taking a big step and walking despite being destracting by the beads. So cute JaP.

As for the Thompsons..we are packing now for JA for Christmas because we need to figure out how to get all our bags to weigh 49.9 lbs .

Lovin' all the baby news!

I hope you have a wonderful Xmas in Jamaica:)You are right those Jamaicans are always late LOL! YEP! that must be what it is Although my dad is late for everything as well so thats a double wammy since it is already in my blood too. Take care and get those bags packed.

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaay thats great hun. silly me i thought you already had it. But i know thats a huge relief.

Just stopping by to say hi to everyone, congrats on all the babies. None here yet

I'll be walking again without my walking brace boot by the end of the week, and i'm finally able to drive again, so i got my independence back a little. Hubby got another job! which is great and its better than the last place he was in, just in time as i got my independence back. what else.......oh my hospital bill got reduced by 100%. which is great it was over 11 grand. God is good ...

hope you all have a blessed holiday.....

xx

Miss- Great news on that hospital bill. I am glad to her youa re getting that independence back must make you feel really great being able to drive recovery should go alot smoother for you now. The baby dust will soon hit ya its all over this board. Take care

[Always Blessed 1]

Good Morning everyone,

Hope all of you have a blessed day! Tomorrow I go back to the OB and hopefully he will tell me she on her way. I had the worse back pain for a few days now, It comes and goes but the heating pad or the hot shower water seems to ease the pain just a little. Gosh the joys of pregnancy! All thought the outcome will be all in all worth it.

Take care

[kjenkins86 5]

Bwoy mi tell ya, mi cyan neva show mi brodda love LOL

Nope

First, I love the name Aidan!!!

Second, FINALLY WE GOT THE GREEN CARD!!!! Sexy party time!!!!

Thank you.

It's about time Hopefully LOC will be a breeze for you!

Good afternoon/evening everyone!! First let me start by saying congrats to all the mama's!! I have some serious baby fever but we will not be entertaining that idea at this point!

We got NOA1 dated 12/1/2010!!

But looking ahead at the income and sponsor part.....my very close friend said she was willing to do it but asked what she would be getting herself in for....... I actually found myself struggling to explain it!! I tried and stumbled looking for the right way to tell her....I know that being a co-sponsor means financial responsibility we get that part, but her question was (playing devil's advocate) "what if he came here and became a loser?" like if me and him don't work out and left and incurred debt??? Hmmmmmmm any idea's on how to properly respond to that? I mean, with the sponsor's responsibility to the debt? Or do you know where to find info for that? (I am sort of lame at finding these kinds of answers on the net)

I don't know the answer to that but if I'm not mistaken, it has nothing to do with that, being a cosponsor/sponsor means that you are responsible for the person for a certain amount of time so that they don't end up on government assistance such as welfare, wic, medicare/caid etc

If it has to do with paying a credit card bill that they racked up, I'd be surprised. As a matter of fact, I forgot who it was that pointed out to me that when a person applies for credit cards, government assistant etc, the companies don't have access to who this person's sponsor is, the main thing that they really do care about is if you're legal. Hope that helped a bit.

Hi ladies! Well, we had our ultrasound appt today. First of all let me tell you that this baby is something else! Barely stayed still long enough to get any pictures taken or to check all of the organs! Everything checked out though, except that I have to go back in two weeks because while they could see the heart & it beating, they weren't able to get a good look at all the ventricles, so they want me to come back so they can try and get a better view. This child was flipping, turning, waving, and ducking from the time the wand was put on my stomach! And finally sat still for about 10 seconds long enough for us to see that WE'RE HAVING A GIRL! You know, I was so hooked on the idea of having a boy (I wanted to be the only lady in the house! ) before, but as soon as the technician told me, I was ecstatic! That poor lady earned her paycheck today! She said she had seen 3 other babies that day and ours was the busiest! I'm just thankful that things are going well...my husband was in shock (he honestly thought he would never have a girl) and my mother was laughing!

So you have an olympian inside of you

Why would your husband think he would never have a girl??

Glad to hear that all is well with the little one and oh, congratulations on the girl!

[kjenkins86 5]

Wow!! Congrats with all the baby gender news!!! It's funny KJ wanted a girl, but is having a boy and Mrs. Palmer wanted/thought it was a boy, but it's a girl. You know the both of you as soon as that baby is born you aren't ever going to imagine if it was the opposite gender. They both are going to be so perfect for you. So happy for you both!!

KJ- Aidan is going to have QUITE his pick of VJ babies with all these girls going around. He isn't even born and he's set to be a ladies man! Yup, he's G's son. lol

Always- Hope you are finding some comfort. Baby girl heard it's the "in" thing to be fashionably late. Well, she is half Jamaican and you they NEVER are on time.. Seriousl, I hope you are able to get some rest and some moments of relaxation. We all are waiting to hear a message from you like the one OneLove just gave.

Congrats to Lilla for literally taking a big step and walking despite being destracting by the beads. So cute JaP.

As for the Thompsons..we are packing now for JA for Christmas because we need to figure out how to get all our bags to weigh 49.9 lbs .

Lovin' all the baby news!

I'm smiling at what you said about me and Palmer wanting a boy/girl...

And oh yes my boy sure has quite some options with all theses vj baby girls on the way. Hubby insists that it shouldn't be spelled Aidan but Aiden

So I said ok honey, but he doesn't pay attention to deails anyway so when it's time to name him, I won't even be worried

Lilla did awesome!

I was thinking the same thing about Always' baby, showing off her Jamaican colors already by being late.

Oh boy, 49.9?

Well I hope VK makes some more of that okra juice in Jamaica and you come back knocked up!

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaay thats great hun. silly me i thought you already had it. But i know thats a huge relief.

Just stopping by to say hi to everyone, congrats on all the babies. None here yet

I'll be walking again without my walking brace boot by the end of the week, and i'm finally able to drive again, so i got my independence back a little. Hubby got another job! which is great and its better than the last place he was in, just in time as i got my independence back. what else.......oh my hospital bill got reduced by 100%. which is great it was over 11 grand. God is good ...

hope you all have a blessed holiday.....

xx

Wasn't aware that you were injured but I hope you are healing fine!

That's great that your hospital bill was reduced, scratch that, eliminated!

Good Morning everyone,

Hope all of you have a blessed day! Tomorrow I go back to the OB and hopefully he will tell me she on her way. I had the worse back pain for a few days now, It comes and goes but the heating pad or the hot shower water seems to ease the pain just a little. Gosh the joys of pregnancy! All thought the outcome will be all in all worth it.

Take care

Goodmorning Always, are you at work today? I hope for the sake of your comfort that by tomorrow you'll be ready to go into labor!

[bajankutie 4]

Good afternoon/evening everyone!! First let me start by saying congrats to all the mama's!! I have some serious baby fever but we will not be entertaining that idea at this point!

We got NOA1 dated 12/1/2010!!

But looking ahead at the income and sponsor part.....my very close friend said she was willing to do it but asked what she would be getting herself in for....... I actually found myself struggling to explain it!! I tried and stumbled looking for the right way to tell her....I know that being a co-sponsor means financial responsibility we get that part, but her question was (playing devil's advocate) "what if he came here and became a loser?" like if me and him don't work out and left and incurred debt??? Hmmmmmmm any idea's on how to properly respond to that? I mean, with the sponsor's responsibility to the debt? Or do you know where to find info for that? (I am sort of lame at finding these kinds of answers on the net)

Hi I needed a co sponsor for my hubby also and if I'm not mistaken I think it is if they decided to get any government assistance is where that responsibilty comes into play. I hope that this helps.

[MoLuvsAcory 0]

Hi all! I'm not feeling all to well today. Just feel out right exhausted. Here @ work I took my blood sugar, blood pressure & pulse. Sugar was 130 which I think is a little high for me. I don't know. Plus I've been up & down in the way I feel & at times it is as if hubby is insensitive. According to him I'm showing him no affection. How the hell am I to do that if I feel I'll.

My doctor isn't in his office yet so I consulted w/a friends mother. She's Jamaican & a nurse practioner so when I can't locate my doctors, she always assist. Plus of the 2 jobs she has, one is delivering babies. I spoke w/her & explained how I feel plus this symptom I've been experiencing. She stated spotting is normal to an extent & based upon it's appearance. & she also asked if I was having cramps. No cramps but I'm spotting here & there. I don't know.

I'm heading to JA on the 19th & this is first trip where I'm not excited @ all. I haven't even started to pack my things. Overall I just don't know!!!!

[MRStee 19]

That's great!

thank you.. this journey has been one hot mess but thank God we are getting through it...

[MRStee 19]

Hi ladies! Well, we had our ultrasound appt today. First of all let me tell you that this baby is something else! Barely stayed still long enough to get any pictures taken or to check all of the organs! Everything checked out though, except that I have to go back in two weeks because while they could see the heart & it beating, they weren't able to get a good look at all the ventricles, so they want me to come back so they can try and get a better view. This child was flipping, turning, waving, and ducking from the time the wand was put on my stomach! And finally sat still for about 10 seconds long enough for us to see that WE'RE HAVING A GIRL! You know, I was so hooked on the idea of having a boy (I wanted to be the only lady in the house! ) before, but as soon as the technician told me, I was ecstatic! That poor lady earned her paycheck today! She said she had seen 3 other babies that day and ours was the busiest! I'm just thankful that things are going well...my husband was in shock (he honestly thought he would never have a girl) and my mother was laughing!

Cause momma knows what you put her through, now you are going to get it back ten-fold even if you did "think" you were an angel

[MRStee 19]

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaay thats great hun. silly me i thought you already had it. But i know thats a huge relief.

Just stopping by to say hi to everyone, congrats on all the babies. None here yet

I'll be walking again without my walking brace boot by the end of the week, and i'm finally able to drive again, so i got my independence back a little. Hubby got another job! which is great and its better than the last place he was in, just in time as i got my independence back. what else.......oh my hospital bill got reduced by 100%. which is great it was over 11 grand. God is good ...

hope you all have a blessed holiday.....

xx

MIss!!! It is SO good to hear from you and Im glad things turned around for you! Baby soon come.. Make sure hubby drinks that stuff the men drink and who knows, ya might just end up with twins!!!!

[Always Blessed 1]

I'm smiling at what you said about me and Palmer wanting a boy/girl...

And oh yes my boy sure has quite some options with all theses vj baby girls on the way. Hubby insists that it shouldn't be spelled Aidan but Aiden

So I said ok honey, but he doesn't pay attention to deails anyway so when it's time to name him, I won't even be worried

Lilla did awesome!

I was thinking the same thing about Always' baby, showing off her Jamaican colors already by being late.

Oh boy, 49.9?

Well I hope VK makes some more of that okra juice in Jamaica and you come back knocked up!

Wasn't aware that you were injured but I hope you are healing fine!

That's great that your hospital bill was reduced, scratch that, eliminated!

Goodmorning Always, are you at work today? I hope for the sake of your comfort that by tomorrow you'll be ready to go into labor!

Good Morning Dear! Yep still here at work, I will work right up to the last minute, otherwise I will have a huge mess on my hands when I return, I am already dreading my materinty leave for the fact of the mess and but it falls in line with a vaction break for 2 weeks so shouldnt be too too bad.