Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

[JAPrincess 27]

Well,we had a really nice visit with Vaughn's great grandma. Eventhough she is sick her spirit and faith are high. She recently celebrated 53 years of marriage and said the two key factors to a happy, long lasting marriage are love and determination. It kind of made me chukkle because I think those are the two key requirements to enduring this visa journey. What I also found great about her is that she recognized that times are different and although she has lived her life one way she knows that isn't always possible these days. Bless her!

Hope everyone has an enjoyable hump day!

Glad to hear her spirits are high, what is she sick with? will she be out of the hospital soon? So nice that you guys have her so close! I love talking to grandparents the wisdom is priceless

[DedicatedWife 4]

please... noh mek mi out to be a hero

we all help each other in the ways that we can...

that was the way I could help, God put it on my heart to do so, and I did...

(((VJ)))

Amen JAP! Wow...abundant blessings to VJ family!!!

Aww... I say ** U.S. immigration - VJ sisterhood to the world!! Seriously though what you have done is amazing! You have brought husband and wife together!!

Hubby says "of course that is enough time"..so nuh worry! lol Remember if you ever need any help along the way on the house his unlce is a very good contractor. I'm glad Astley know's someone and I bet he's happy to be able to take care of all of this for you after all you have been doing trying to get you two together. You're gonna need to have a house warming party and we'll all come! Girl, you may need to build a hotel instead of a house.

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Well,we had a really nice visit with Vaughn's great grandma. Eventhough she is sick her spirit and faith are high. She recently celebrated 53 years of marriage and said the two key factors to a happy, long lasting marriage are love and determination. It kind of made me chukkle because I think those are the two key requirements to enduring this visa journey. What I also found great about her is that she recognized that times are different and although she has lived her life one way she knows that isn't always possible these days. Bless her!

Hope everyone has an enjoyable hump day!

Awww V's Great grandma sounds like a sweetheart! Love and determination...I know that's right.

[bajankutie 4]

Hey ladies just peepin in hi to all and hubby got a job startin today so we are thankful for that.

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Mrs.Palmer. you're making me tell the board what Ii wante to wait another month or so to tell.

When I went to my first prenatal visit and did ALL those blood work, it came back that 1 of my X chromosome has a slightly high level of fragile x syndrome. So I had to see a genetic counselor and schedule what's called a Chorionic Villi Sample procedure, where they're going to take a sample of the cells around the placenta and test if I passed the gene to the baby. It is best if this baby is a girl and not a boy because if it is a boy then it's chances increases drastically of the baby being mentally retarted. All my family had their kids in JA and so I don't have the comfort of looking at my family history for comfort. I am overwhemled, stressed and just want to curl up and cry until I get the results, which will be month from now. Be thankful that you are not in my shoes and just pray that as your pregnancy progresses that the baby will be fine, but I know all too well what it means to worry...

Just pray they told me that when I first started also, they took the test and made me come back and take 2 other test!

Then the took one more ultra sound and ruled it out!

So its not set in stone, be positive and know that its your love creation, and you have to love it no matter what. And Im sure you will!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love you girl

[sus 70]

[JAPrincess 27]

Hey ladies just peepin in hi to all and hubby got a job startin today so we are thankful for that.

YAHOOOOO!!!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

This made me laugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :rofl: :rofl:

[kjenkins86 5]

Sorry to hear what you mentioned KJ. Hope for the best. I have a "rebel Jamaican friend" with 2yr old fraternal twins. Her daughter is Down Syndrome. But trust me she is so adorable. You as a parent will learn to overlook what society may classify your child as.

Also i work with individuals who have mental disorders. I must say that one who i really enjoy has the diagnosis of Fragile X. Ironically we both are December babies. When i used to work in his day program, everyday he peeped in room to give me a picture he drew and to say "Monique i love you and Monique i want to marry you." He always made my day.

With that said just be optimistic and do your reading and ask questions to get a better understanding of what may be.

Keep your head up girl!!!!!

Aww, your story softens my heart and actually has me thinking that a disability isn't that bad afterall. I am just devasted at the simple thought of hearing the bad news and having have to decide what I'm going to do, whether to keep this child or not...

Thanks for the encouragement!

God never give us more then we can handle we just have to bew determined to handle it.

I know but as I was telling one of my friends, it's funny how I wanted this baby so bad, tried for so long and now this, heart breaking.

Hey ladies just peepin in hi to all and hubby got a job startin today so we are thankful for that.

Congratulations!!

[kjenkins86 5]

Just pray they told me that when I first started also, they took the test and made me come back and take 2 other test!

Then the took one more ultra sound and ruled it out!

So its not set in stone, be positive and know that its your love creation, and you have to love it no matter what. And Im sure you will!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love you girl

Yea JQ, that's about the only thing that I can do, pray and be patient...

That is fcuking funnyyyyy!

[sus 70]

That pic had me dying laughing cause it's my friend to a T - Me on the other hand, I get to the airport looking like the second pic with the items in my bag - coming off the plane I look like the first pic, lol!

[kjenkins86 5]

That pic had me dying laughing cause it's my friend to a T - Me on the other hand, I get to the airport looking like the second pic with the items in my bag - coming off the plane I look like the first pic, lol!

lol, and I never even thought of that!

[JAPrincess 27]

KJ

I can't imagine what it must feel like, the anxiety just TAKING those tests is bad enough...

Prayers, and more prayers for you!

[kjenkins86 5]

KJ

I can't imagine what it must feel like, the anxiety just TAKING those tests is bad enough...

Prayers, and more prayers for you!

Ugh, I'm worried sick outta my mind

Tanks for the prayers though

[MRStee 19]

LOL!

thanks for knocking me back down a peg or two :rofl:

Hahahaha com'ere girl give me a (((((((((((hug)))))))))))

[JAPrincess 27]