VJ with Foreigner Hubby / Fiancee/Boyfriend

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I am not here to ask for a dating advice, i am here to ask for a relationship advice wherein some members have experience the same situation or similar or maybe happen to her/him before. my general concern here is to share your experience about your foreign bf.fiancee husband your stories as what my original post is supposed to be, i only made a mistake on my 2nd post that mislead to the original topic my apology...

Best of luck. I hope it works out for you.

[DARUMA07 25]

Best of luck. I hope it works out for you.

Same for me Pinkish..... I wish you both the best!!!!

[Tahoma 2,292]

Best of luck. I hope it works out for you.

Same for me Pinkish..... I wish you both the best!!!!

Me too Pinkish... ...Our best wishes to you and your boyfriend!

Maybe we will see you two here on VJ when you get serious about each other!

[pinkish 0]

Me too Pinkish... ...Our best wishes to you and your boyfriend!

Maybe we will see you two here on VJ when you get serious about each other!

Thanks! but he can't come here online, as he was a very busy guy, he just come online to talk and chat with me and no time to roam around the net, that's why he ask me to search over the net to check for possible answer to his concern about his future plans for us.

and as what you have said, that you can see us being serious with each other when the two of us will be here, i strongly disagree, it's not a basis to any relationship how serious you are if you can't come online here on vj, it's really lame or shallow reason, and i can't come online as often here since i am busy too, their is a lot of things to be busy about it's just that i came across here and see what are the things that we can get ideas and info's that's it. but to make it clear this is not the basis on how a relationship built. our life is not revolve here it is between the two of us, not on any forums.

[Tahoma 2,292]

Thanks! but he can't come here online, as he was a very busy guy, he just come online to talk and chat with me and no time to roam around the net, that's why he ask me to search over the net to check for possible answer to his concern about his future plans for us.

and as what you have said, that you can see us being serious with each other when the two of us will be here, i strongly disagree, it's not a basis to any relationship how serious you are if you can't come online here on vj, it's really lame or shallow reason, and i can't come online as often here since i am busy too, their is a lot of things to be busy about it's just that i came across here and see what are the things that we can get ideas and info's that's it. but to make it clear this is not the basis on how a relationship built. our life is not revolve here it is between the two of us, not on any forums.

Hi again Pinkish...I'm sorry if you misunderstood me. All I am trying to say is...if you ever decide to take your own visa journey, I hope to see you back here on VJ to share it with the good people here. This forum can be a good place for beginners to get information on the visa process, and also a good place for those who have been through the process to share their knowledge with others who are just starting their journey. Peace out...

[pinkish 0]

Hi again Pinkish...I'm sorry if you misunderstood me. All I am trying to say is...if you ever decide to take your own visa journey, I hope to see you back here on VJ to share it with the good people here. This forum can be a good place for beginners to get information on the visa process, and also a good place for those who have been through the process to share their knowledge with others who are just starting their journey. Peace out...

yeah but as what your previous post you said " Maybe we will see you two here on VJ when you get serious about each other!" so better make your post directly not indirect because somehow your post be misinterpreted.

my time is precious, but surely i will definitely comeback here to share my experiences and knowledge about my journey. Goodluck and Godbless Everyone.

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Thanks! but he can't come here online, as he was a very busy guy, he just come online to talk and chat with me and no time to roam around the net, that's why he ask me to search over the net to check for possible answer to his concern about his future plans for us.

and as what you have said, that you can see us being serious with each other when the two of us will be here, i strongly disagree, it's not a basis to any relationship how serious you are if you can't come online here on vj, it's really lame or shallow reason, and i can't come online as often here since i am busy too, their is a lot of things to be busy about it's just that i came across here and see what are the things that we can get ideas and info's that's it. but to make it clear this is not the basis on how a relationship built. our life is not revolve here it is between the two of us, not on any forums.

Pinkish, you really do need to chill out. You're right that the seriousness of a relationship is more complex than coming on to some online forum but...

When the time comes for you to begin your own personal Visa Journey you will start down 1 of 2 paths:

1) Hire a lawyer and depend on them to ensure your paperwork is all correct.

2) Both of you spend time on VJ to prepare for the process without a lawyer.

It doesn't matter how busy he is, if he doesn't want to spend a few thousand dollars on a lawyer then he will find the time to spend here as it will be important for him to understand the process.

Let me tell you something about "being busy":

I've been raising my 2 daughters from my first marriage by myself since 1999 (they're 15 & 18 now).

I've been the most senior software developer at a US based call center since 1996. This means on call after hours and there isn't a project in the company that I'm not aware of.

I've been involved in several hobbies some of them include time commitments for fund raising (for charities).

I've made national media appearances for panel discussions on mental health issues.

My life is always busy and yet I do still find time to hang around VJ and help those whose journey is still in process even though my wife has been with me for over 6 months now.

When someone/something is important to you finding time for them/it won't be a problem.

[Tahoma 2,292]

yeah but as what your previous post you said " Maybe we will see you two here on VJ when you get serious about each other!" so better make your post directly not indirect because somehow your post be misinterpreted.

my time is precious, but surely i will definitely comeback here to share my experiences and knowledge about my journey. Goodluck and Godbless Everyone.

Sorry about using slang. "Getting serious" with someone means that a couple is planning on getting engaged to be married, or that they are actually engaged. That is what I was referring to. If that happens, the couple might want to learn more about the visa process by joining the VJ family. I simply want to wish you the best in your life, your relationship, and any potential visa journey you may find yourself on. Good luck with everything and peace out...

~ Tahoma

[Tahoma 2,292]

Sorry about the triple posting!

[DARUMA07 25]

Sorry about the triple posting!

You are forgiven!!

[Tahoma 2,292]

Sorry about the triple posting!

You are forgiven!!

Thanks for the chuckle, Danny. I needed it!

[DARUMA07 25]

Thanks for the chuckle, Danny. I needed it!

My pleasure... We need a few good laughs in the P.I. Forum. It's been quite dead lately. Not much going on here, but we know that can change in a heartbeat.....

[Pinay Wife 47]

Sorry about the triple posting!

Double and triple postings removed. I cleaned it up for ya, Tahoma!

Pinay Wife

VJ Mod Team

[Tahoma 2,292]

Double and triple postings removed. I cleaned it up for ya, Tahoma!

Pinay Wife

VJ Mod Team

Thanks PW!

[JoBri 547]

I was the "sweet one". Never could get enough of her, and she is the one who seemed more distant, hard to reach. That is just how she is though.

We will have our first child somewhere around the 20th of July... by C-section. A boy.......

Brian in Tennessee