Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[MRStee 19]

chicken

bawk bawk

No chicken here.. I KNOW what my mouth is capable of spittin out.. I might violate TOS if I speak out lol

[LadyC 1]

damn, he sounds like a little devil....wonder what he is capable of when he dont get his way

better to err on the side of caution than to underestimate him

Finesse yesterday he woke up early so his dad told him to go back to his room and watch the TV because everyone was still in bed. When I got up I saw him in the living room trying to wake my daughter up so I told him to go back to his room and watch the TV. My daughter had left the TV in the living room on so I turned it off and went back to my room. As soon as I closed my bed room door he started screaming at the top of his lungs I WANT TO WATCH THE TV. He did this for over 20 minutes. G got up to go to his room and I told him to stay in bed and not to answer him. Finally I got up to use the bathroom and this little boy was standing in the bathroom peeing no tear at all screaming I WANT TO WATCH THE TV. So since the TV in his room was on and he still screamed down the place I unplug the TV and told him no TV for the day. Now tell me if his behind don’t know what he is doing.

[finesse 3]

No chicken here.. I KNOW what my mouth is capable of spittin out.. I might violate TOS if I speak out lol

thought you were going back to work

just messing with you mrstee

[finesse 3]

Finesse yesterday he woke up early so his dad told him to go back to his room and watch the TV because everyone was still in bed. When I got up I saw him in the living room trying to wake my daughter up so I told him to go back to his room and watch the TV. My daughter had left the TV in the living room on so I turned it off and went back to my room. As soon as I closed my bed room door he started screaming at the top of his lungs I WANT TO WATCH THE TV. He did this for over 20 minutes. G got up to go to his room and I told him to stay in bed and not to answer him. Finally I got up to use the bathroom and this little boy was standing in the bathroom peeing no tear at all screaming I WANT TO WATCH THE TV. So since the TV in his room was on and he still screamed down the place I unplug the TV and told him no TV for the day. Now tell me if his behind don’t know what he is doing.

yeah, he is definitely testing you. that behavior is of a 3 year old having a tantrum...not a seven year old. prolly worked on him momma so he's gonna try it on you.

does he want to be living with you?

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

JQ Smiley BOOM vs. MrsTee

DING DING DING

mek mi go find mi boxing smiley...

Still being messy say something positive finesse

Did you start work yet? You always like drama thats why you were starting fights with hubby

Start a fight in the mirror :rofl: ,

Nope not me Finesse... JQ knows I speak to her outta of love and she said it herself she can be stubborn, so there you have it. She is pregnant know which tells me alot about her posts on di board. Im not debating with her.

Thanks Tee and I dont wanna ramp with you either, those locs are deadly with that tongue

She just MESSY

[finesse 3]

Still being messy say something positive finesse

Did you start work yet? You always like drama thats why you were starting fights with hubby

Start a fight in the mirror :rofl: ,

Thanks Tee and I dont wanna ramp with you either, those locs are deadly with that tongue

She just MESSY

you two are no fun...

work? what's that?

[LadyC 1]

yeah, he is definitely testing you. that behavior is of a 3 year old having a tantrum...not a seven year old. prolly worked on him momma so he's gonna try it on you.

does he want to be living with you?

I would say no because he cant get over on me

[Dan-Dan 1]

Finesse yesterday he woke up early so his dad told him to go back to his room and watch the TV because everyone was still in bed. When I got up I saw him in the living room trying to wake my daughter up so I told him to go back to his room and watch the TV. My daughter had left the TV in the living room on so I turned it off and went back to my room. As soon as I closed my bed room door he started screaming at the top of his lungs I WANT TO WATCH THE TV. He did this for over 20 minutes. G got up to go to his room and I told him to stay in bed and not to answer him. Finally I got up to use the bathroom and this little boy was standing in the bathroom peeing no tear at all screaming I WANT TO WATCH THE TV. So since the TV in his room was on and he still screamed down the place I unplug the TV and told him no TV for the day. Now tell me if his behind don’t know what he is doing.

LOL, This sounds like my experience with my stepson, when I visited last month he stayed with his father and I for a few days. This little boy was SOOO unruly and rude that I was glad to come back to the USA! We where cooking dinner and he wanted to eat snacks so I said that he should wait a few mins until I could prepare him a plate. He was not having it. He went to the freezer and got out the ice cream bar and his father told him to but it back. So my hubby went to the store and the little terror let me have it.. He began to scream and shout for all of 20 mins. then I packed him up the stairs to the bedroom and did the stone cold fool he started to spit in the bed and took ALL of the linens off the bed when he saw that I wasn't having it he started in on me, he tried to hit me, kick me, bite me and the all time worst spit on me. #######??? His father arrived back but the boy could not see him so I told my hubby to walk up and look at what he was doing this 4yr old was throwing my clothes out of my bag. That was It!!! I was time for one of us to get a break, So after dinner we took him back to his mother. On the car ride home he ask "Do mi have to go down by mi mothers yard? I replied, YES SIR You do!!! My hubby said that when he goes to visit him on Friday the boy always ask is he coming back to Runaway Bay by my yard... He doesn't know that his father leased the place together but I am in the States THANK GOD...

[*JG* 2]

Its not always that simple nor that easy... I know, my own was the spawn of satan the child version, now he is the spawn of satan the adult version, so I understand where she is coming from completely and guess what? The schools are only gonna tolerate but so much. They take on the role that they don't have to tolerate the behavior especially if he screams and cries all day long...Not to mention the "labelling" he will receive...I pray for her family, also her daughters are being subjected to things that they may not be use to. Its an adjustment for ALL of them. They are going to have to learn what to do about the behavior he exhibits.

Just my opinion.

He's way behind. He's going to need some special education.

And, you are talking about your US kids. He's been here....what? a week? He needs a whole lot of adjustment time. He's scared. He's away from everything he knows in his daily routine.

[*JG* 2]

No JG he was the same in JA too. Even his mother said this is how he acts with her but she usually gives in and let him do waht he wants. This boy is grown and he knows what he is doing but I dont give in and Im not scared of him like his mother is. When you give in to him he smiles at you like "Yea I knew you would". That wont fly with me.

Then you can't possibly think just cause it was your household, he was going to change his behavior overnight then. This is going to take lots of time, C.

I wish you luck.

[LadyC 1]

LOL, This sounds like my experience with my stepson, when I visited last month he stayed with his father and I for a few days. This little boy was SOOO unruly and rude that I was glad to come back to the USA! We where cooking dinner and he wanted to eat snacks so I said that he should wait a few mins until I could prepare him a plate. He was not having it. He went to the freezer and got out the ice cream bar and his father told him to but it back. So my hubby went to the store and the little terror let me have it.. He began to scream and shout for all of 20 mins. then I packed him up the stairs to the bedroom and did the stone cold fool he started to spit in the bed and took ALL of the linens off the bed when he saw that I wasn't having it he started in on me, he tried to hit me, kick me, bite me and the all time worst spit on me. #######??? His father arrived back but the boy could not see him so I told my hubby to walk up and look at what he was doing this 4yr old was throwing my clothes out of my bag. That was It!!! I was time for one of us to get a break, So after dinner we took him back to his mother. On the car ride home he ask "Do mi have to go down by mi mothers yard? I replied, YES SIR You do!!! My hubby said that when he goes to visit him on Friday the boy always ask is he coming back to Runaway Bay by my yard... He doesn't know that his father leased the place together but I am in the States THANK GOD...

OMG Dan-Dan ah di same rasscloth thing mi ah deal with. I remember back in the days West Indian parents used to be so strict but not any more. These kids dont have no mammers and respect. Girl Im praying for us.

[LadyC 1]

Then you can't possibly think just cause it was your household, he was going to change his behavior overnight then. This is going to take lots of time, C.

I wish you luck.

JG its not just adjustment. I know adjustment takes time this kid has no form of behavior. He was allowed to get away with his mess so now that he see he wont be able to he is acting up more. He is used to people saying ok go do what you want, go to bed when you want, dont do your school work etc. He was spoiled rotten and now he see he wont be continued to be spoiled.

[Dan-Dan 1]

OMG Dan-Dan ah di same rasscloth thing mi ah deal with. I remember back in the days West Indian parents used to be so strict but not any more. These kids dont have no mammers and respect. Girl Im praying for us.

Lady C I know we will need the prayers so I am on bended knee for us too... I wondered if the mother put the child up to this? She was a bit upset that the child likes me (are so I thought ). I know what you mean about the schools, I was telling my family that I am not sure how my stepson will do in the American School System. The schools are not having this AT ALL they will label you with the quickness. So did it take a long time to get him over to the states and what are the stipulations on his coming?

[*JG* 2]

JG its not just adjustment. I know adjustment takes time this kid has no form of behavior. He was allowed to get away with his mess so now that he see he wont be able to he is acting up more. He is used to people saying ok go do what you want, go to bed when you want, dont do your school work etc. He was spoiled rotten and now he see he wont be continued to be spoiled.

C, I'm not saying those aren't serious issues. They most certainly are. And, yes, I see that his upbringing is going to cause you a lot of hardship in the near future till it gets under some sort of control.

I'm just saying, it's not going to be an instant change. It's going to take lots of time. I do hope he has not overheard you say you would send him back if he didn't behave.

[LadyC 1]

C, I'm not saying those aren't serious issues. They most certainly are. And, yes, I see that his upbringing is going to cause you a lot of hardship in the near future till it gets under some sort of control.

I'm just saying, it's not going to be an instant change. It's going to take lots of time. I do hope he has not overheard you say you would send him back if he didn't behave.

JG I dont expect instant change but I do expect some change. Every day gets worse and worse. No I did not tell him about sending him back but I did talk to his dad about it.Thank you for your input it helps

Edited May 10, 2010 by LadyC