Sad Update

[junari888 0]

I AM SO SORRY to hear that. I cannot say that i know what you are going trough, but your story really touched my heart , also the story from the lady with the nigerian, you girls are so brave to share your experiences ,that shows me that you are amazing women (in the whole meaning of the word), Full of love an pasion , don't ever let anyone change that on you. Keep loving, keep dreaming but mostly believing.

GOD BLESS YOU BOTH.

[LostInIllinois 1]

I am sorry to hear that there are such men in the world. My thoughts and prayers go to you...

[yogib37 3]

I just want you to know that you are not alone when it comes to being abused by the person that you trust your heart too, you see I too have gone thru some bad changes as a result of trusting the man that I loved and thought he loved me too. Our outcome is similiar, except I had a child and I'm the USC.

I had a baby for my husband and before the child was one month old this man abandoned us, I maxed- out my credit cards getting him the latest medical books, lectures and questions for him to take his step one USMLE test. I went to work pregnant while he stayed at home and studied for his medical test( At his request ) until I started missing too many days and bills were piling up, so I asked him to look for work, which he didn't want to do.

I can go on, but I won't. The long and short of my story is that this man is a doctor in his hometown Nigeria, and he knew that if he could only get to America he could make it on his own, he just needed someone, anyone to help him get by Immigration in his homeland Nigeria ( I also payed for his plane tickett here to the states, as many of us USC do ) and to past his Step 1 for his medical license, and the rest he could get help from Nigerians already here. ( That's what I now think )

Orginally before he came here, he was telling me that he loved me and that we'd work on our problems should any occur and breaking a marriage wasen't in his plans, he told me that in his tribe when men marry they marry for life, however once he got here and we married, things changed and he had a new attitude, he would start arguments and do things to purposely get a negative response from me then he starting moving in and out of the apartment, and eventually left for good, when our son was less then one month old, now during our divorce he's telling the judge lies with nothing to back them up, so now I know this man never wanted me and has nothing to do with his son, but goes to court and say that I won't let him see him.

So you see, I'm also in a messy situation, this man went from a loving caring men to a cut throat type scammer. Fiona, I can identify with your feeling, but now you know that your not alone, and I bet that there are others out there that have been thru this process and landed worse off then the both of us.

I like to think that God put me in this situation because he knows that I can and will handle it well and he will get the glory out of it, no matter what , to God be all the Glory. And to my dear husband, may he gets all that he deserve's, like someone has mentioned, what comes around goes around, so try hard to focus on rebuilding your life and your son, I know it's easier said then done but try, then rejoice in the fact that one day you and your son will remember this experience as a lesson learned.

Karen

SOrry to hear that you had problems..

The nigerian people are very good at scaming people.

I was a friend to a Nigierian person and it was at work he was good person and all, then one day we both involved into a incendent and he stop talking to me all together and he was the person at fault.

[Ana Paula 2]

Fiona...

first of All, i think God always do what is the best for us, so... I think we have to have a thing to believe and i hope you and your son have all the best things, and happiness forever.

And i really wish you all the best with all my heart!

Big kiss, from São Paulo - Brasil

[smc 0]

We are all thinking of you during this time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

What a joke...why dont you have a timeline....you havent even filed for a visa or anything.....from what i have heard from others you will never be married to this long haired guy so why bother with this site....or are you just dreaming and away with the fairies?

[Welshcookie 17]

We are all thinking of you during this time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

What a joke...why dont you have a timeline....you havent even filed for a visa or anything.....from what i have heard from others you will never be married to this long haired guy so why bother with this site....or are you just dreaming and away with the fairies?

You need to take your ### out of head you piece of ######.....go and crawl back under your stone....

opppsss.....did I say that out loud??..........never mind

Edited February 18, 2006 by welshcookie

[aussiewench 9]

We are all thinking of you during this time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

What a joke...why dont you have a timeline....you havent even filed for a visa or anything.....from what i have heard from others you will never be married to this long haired guy so why bother with this site....or are you just dreaming and away with the fairies?

You need to take your ### out of head you piece of ######.....go and crawl back under your stone....

opppsss.....did I say that out loud??..........never mind

and I second it

[smc 0]

welshcookie is a desperate #######.......probably spends its whole time on net the loser of a human being....and im sure met so called partner online.....i bet this thing is a fat pog....

[Welshcookie 17]

welshcookie is a desperate #######.......probably spends its whole time on net the loser of a human being....and im sure met so called partner online.....i bet this thing is a fat pog....

[smc 0]

GOD YOU ARE AN UGLY MOLE....go bury your head somewhere...no one cares what you say anyway you english slapper.....you dont know what love is....hahahahahaha......have you shaved lately...lollolololololol.....

[Welshcookie 17]

[aussiewench 9]

A shame that smc has turned this thread into his own circus.

[smc 0]

very funny aussiewench.....this topic may have been made up anyway...besides im not talking about the topic..that welsh slapper or ** started the whole 'circus' as you put it.They are in the dateless and desperate class.....and you are over opinionated for my liking....

[Captain Ewok 1,871]

I apologize for SMC everyone. I will deal with them at this point. If you notice any other problems please feel free to let me know.

[chocolaterie 0]

Thank you for sharing your experience, I know it must have been hard to do. I wish you the absolute best and I hope this man gets everything that he deserves. It angers me that people can be so misleading and inconsiderate.

and...

GO CAPTAIN EWOK!!!!!

Edited February 18, 2006 by chocolaterie