Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)

[sus 70]

serious? then why are ppl still going to maury?

Shock factor - and Maury does it free - people cheap, lol

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[*SunRay* 1]

Aww, Bunz, I can imagine how hard that is - leaving sucks, especially when you have had time together - But you have to weigh the odds - How important is it for you to take care of the business before you come? You will be able to be together forever after this parting, so is a month / two months too long? Also, is the business something that you can leave now, and come back to JA and handle?

One more consideration - we had CRAPPY SNOW again this morning - It's cold inna NYC, warm inna Yaad!!

Bunz, I say if you can handle things from NY, then get yourself on the plane and come home with him. Stop torturing yourself.

[kjenkins86 5]

Thank you, I am sorry that your co worker was prying in to your business, some people just don't know when to keep their stupid comments to themselves. I do not think your reply was stupid either because just because you are the one that is making the money does not mean that later on that tables will turn and you at that point may not have to work. Best wishes on your upcoming interview.

Again thank you sus , I agree 100% with this .

Thanks

[TAMH 2]

Mawning Yardies.

Den: congratulations girl, enjoy every waking minute you have together.

Sunray: Morning ((waving))

KJenkins: Don't let that skank get you down, some ppl are are just plain miserable seing others happy.

Everyone have a good day!

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Aww, Bunz, I can imagine how hard that is - leaving sucks, especially when you have had time together - But you have to weigh the odds - How important is it for you to take care of the business before you come? You will be able to be together forever after this parting, so is a month / two months too long? Also, is the business something that you can leave now, and come back to JA and handle?

One more consideration - we had CRAPPY SNOW again this morning - It's cold inna NYC, warm inna Yaad!!

well its really about me saving and putting aside money for my mother, paying off my debt, i want to leave debt free

and i'm gaining new experiences in my field which is important if i'm gonna land a sensible job when i go abroad

i try to balance my heart and mind, i know i won't be happy if we're perpetually broke and i know if i up and leave now, we will start off on the wrong foot

so i'm gonna throw myself into my job when he leaves and learn as mcuh as possible

[kjenkins86 5]

Mawning Yardies.

Den: congratulations girl, enjoy every waking minute you have together.

Sunray: Morning ((waving))

KJenkins: Don't let that skank get you down, some ppl are are just plain miserable seing others happy.

Everyone have a good day!

Hi TAMH, I wasjust taken aback by her comment coz me and her r really close but she's extremely materialistic.. They do say becareful who you think are your friends

[*SunRay* 1]

Mawning Yardies.

Den: congratulations girl, enjoy every waking minute you have together.

Sunray: Morning ((waving))

KJenkins: Don't let that skank get you down, some ppl are are just plain miserable seing others happy.

Everyone have a good day!

Hey TAMH, How are you girl?

I agree with TAMH KJenkins. Ignore stupid people and I'm sure this will not be the last time for comments like that. I had them too, but it was my decision in the end. We knew what we would have to take on bringing them here and don't need anyone else to tell us.

Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.-Albert Einstein

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

For instance, monday @ work my coworker asked me where & how am I having my wedding. Me wanting my wedding on the beach in Jamaica responded "I'll be having the ceremony at a church, take some pictures at the park in my dress and then me and my family and closest friends go out to eat" Her response was "well, that's a cheap wedding and I really don't wamt to see you get married because I envisioned a man for you that you wouldn't have to work , but instead you pick up someone you're going to have to support"!!! My stupid response was "i don'tcarte what you think" but I should've lighted her stank #### on fire and tell her to get the F out my face w' what she thinks Rant over

wow, that is a toxic person! very miserable

what does she care about your wedding, if yuh nah cough what she a vomit fah?!

do not let her ruin your moment, and don't be surprised if she passes even more negative remarks

once someone starts going there i just don't ever bring up the topic again or skirt around it every time they ask

[1luv 1]

Good morning All

DW Congrats on having ur man here!!

[*SunRay* 1]

Hi TAMH, I wasjust taken aback by her comment coz me and her r really close but she's extremely materialistic.. They do say becareful who you think are your friends

Going through this process I learned that people will act like they are happy for you until you tell them that your man is actually scheduled to come to the USA. Once you say he's on the way here, the true colors come out and most of the folks that were happy for will now turn on you. Serious ting dat! May not happen to everyone, but I know it has happened to several people.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.-Albert Einstein

that's true

[kjenkins86 5]

Hey TAMH, How are you girl?

I agree with TAMH KJenkins. Ignore stupid people and I'm sure this will not be the last time for comments like that. I had them too, but it was my decision in the end. We knew what we would have to take on bringing them here and don't need anyone else to tell us.

Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.-Albert Einstein

I feel the same way:I'm well aware of what I'm getting into and don't need nobody to tell me...

[*SunRay* 1]

well its really about me saving and putting aside money for my mother, paying off my debt, i want to leave debt free

and i'm gaining new experiences in my field which is important if i'm gonna land a sensible job when i go abroad

i try to balance my heart and mind, i know i won't be happy if we're perpetually broke and i know if i up and leave now, we will start off on the wrong foot

so i'm gonna throw myself into my job when he leaves and learn as mcuh as possible

So you had the answer all along Bunz..... lol

[kjenkins86 5]

wow, that is a toxic person! very miserable

what does she care about your wedding, if yuh nah cough what she a vomit fah?!

do not let her ruin your moment, and don't be surprised if she passes even more negative remarks

once someone starts going there i just don't ever bring up the topic again or skirt around it every time they ask

Will do Bunz.

I can imagine how you feel that hubby is leaving but just enjoy him while he's there and know that there's no barriers btwn you two now, you can go as you please

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

So you had the answer all along Bunz..... lol

*siiiiiiiiiiiigh

yea i do