Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)

[kjenkins86 5]

Happy Hump Day Yardies! I can't sleep since I'm still in disbelief that Den is actually here.

He did not have on that gold suit (Thank God)...he's flight landed about 45 minutes early so I knew I would definitely make it to see him before he reached baggage claims...I waited on him for about an hour and even asked an employee at the airport about how long it usually takes...was it normal cause I was honestly started to get worried. About 15 minutes later I see my baby coming up from the train and so the airport employee did a big show and dance for him singing welcome to Atlanta and your fiance asked me to sing this song to you... Den was so shame...poe thang! We went to get his luggage and I had his coat waiting for him! We went to get something to eat and came back home to just take everything in...he's knocked out sleep! Awww....I still can't believe he is actually here. I knew this day would come but it has not hit me yet...we survived night 1...now the morning is a new feat! We can do it....

U darn right u can't sleep

What was his reaction to thecold? Jersey got snow this morning, u?

I'm so happy for you girl I wish you all the best girl

Goodmorning yardies!

5 Days Til I See My Boo, 8 Days Til Interview

[Always Blessed 1]

Good Morning All,

Hope eberyone has a blessed day.

[Always Blessed 1]

Just a random questions for all of you with children oe those of you without. Lets say the baby's father is not able to contribute at this time do to not working but has faithfully contributed in the pass, however he calls daily to check on the child. Now lets say he calls you on Saturday as usual and asked how the child is doing and the comment back is he is with his father! and you hang up . Three hours later you call back to appologize.

A) Would you as a parent knowingly being 100% sure that this man is the father of your child say something as hurtful as that?

or

B) Would you say something like that if you weren't to sure if the child is actually his?

My opinion is that a real WOMEN who is a 100% sure who the father of the child is would not say something like that unless truely they are uncertain that the man is truly the father. I also feel it took three hours for a call back because now she would have to come up with some sort of story to try to correct what was said.

Any reply would be greatly appreciated.

[sus 70]

Just a random questions for all of you with children oe those of you without. Lets say the baby's father is not able to contribute at this time do to not working but has faithfully contributed in the pass, however he calls daily to check on the child. Now lets say he calls you on Saturday as usual and asked how the child is doing and the comment back is he is with his father! and you hang up . Three hours later you call back to appologize.

A) Would you as a parent knowingly being 100% sure that this man is the father of your child say something as hurtful as that?

or

B) Would you say something like that if you weren't to sure if the child is actually his?

My opinion is that a real WOMEN who is a 100% sure who the father of the child is would not say something like that unless truely they are uncertain that the man is truly the father. I also feel it took three hours for a call back because now she would have to come up with some sort of story to try to correct what was said.

Any reply would be greatly appreciated.

Sounds to me like she is angry and lashing out at him, and trying any which way she can to hurt him / make him feel like he has been replaced - If there is ANY doubt in his mind that he is the father, I would do a DNA to confirm it - I can't even imagine how hurtful it would be to get to the interview phase at the embassy and be told that you are not the father - which has happened plenty of times.

[NatPatBen 3]

Morning, All!

Back to this early morning meeting...

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Sounds to me like she is angry and lashing out at him, and trying any which way she can to hurt him / make him feel like he has been replaced - If there is ANY doubt in his mind that he is the father, I would do a DNA to confirm it - I can't even imagine how hurtful it would be to get to the interview phase at the embassy and be told that you are not the father - which has happened plenty of times.

i agree

she was probably just lashing out because she is annoyed and angry but at the same time he shouldn't necessarily take it lightly

[Always Blessed 1]

Sounds to me like she is angry and lashing out at him, and trying any which way she can to hurt him / make him feel like he has been replaced - If there is ANY doubt in his mind that he is the father, I would do a DNA to confirm it - I can't even imagine how hurtful it would be to get to the interview phase at the embassy and be told that you are not the father - which has happened plenty of times.

Thank you. She is pregnant again by another man already 5 or 6 month the child in question is only a 1 yr 6 months old and here in the states

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Happy Hump Day Yardies! I can't sleep since I'm still in disbelief that Den is actually here.

He did not have on that gold suit (Thank God)...he's flight landed about 45 minutes early so I knew I would definitely make it to see him before he reached baggage claims...I waited on him for about an hour and even asked an employee at the airport about how long it usually takes...was it normal cause I was honestly started to get worried. About 15 minutes later I see my baby coming up from the train and so the airport employee did a big show and dance for him singing welcome to Atlanta and your fiance asked me to sing this song to you... Den was so shame...poe thang! We went to get his luggage and I had his coat waiting for him! We went to get something to eat and came back home to just take everything in...he's knocked out sleep! Awww....I still can't believe he is actually here. I knew this day would come but it has not hit me yet...we survived night 1...now the morning is a new feat! We can do it....

congrats dens

hubby and i have been trying to see if we can ride this ldr thing out a little longer so we can both take care of some business

but having him here is making me sooo depressed about him leaving, i'm thinking twice about this

[kjenkins86 5]

Just a random questions for all of you with children oe those of you without. Lets say the baby's father is not able to contribute at this time do to not working but has faithfully contributed in the pass, however he calls daily to check on the child. Now lets say he calls you on Saturday as usual and asked how the child is doing and the comment back is he is with his father! and you hang up . Three hours later you call back to appologize.

A) Would you as a parent knowingly being 100% sure that this man is the father of your child say something as hurtful as that?

or

B) Would you say something like that if you weren't to sure if the child is actually his?

My opinion is that a real WOMEN who is a 100% sure who the father of the child is would not say something like that unless truely they are uncertain that the man is truly the father. I also feel it took three hours for a call back because now she would have to come up with some sort of story to try to correct what was said.

Any reply would be greatly appreciated.

From that reaction/reply, you can assume many possibilities such as that the child is w' someone who she wish was the father; the child IS w' the REAL father; she doesn't want this man asking for the child unless he has something to offer; she's just so upset she had to say something hurrtful.

Now with the 3 hour gap Had to be she's unsure who the father is but wish that it's the one that the child is w'. Just my personal opinion and sometimes when people say things you have to sit and think deep about what was said, how it was said etc

For instance, monday @ work my coworker asked me where & how am I having my wedding. Me wanting my wedding on the beach in Jamaica responded "I'll be having the ceremony at a church, take some pictures at the park in my dress and then me and my family and closest friends go out to eat" Her response was "well, that's a cheap wedding and I really don't wamt to see you get married because I envisioned a man for you that you wouldn't have to work , but instead you pick up someone you're going to have to support"!!! My stupid response was "i don'tcarte what you think" but I should've lighted her stank #### on fire and tell her to get the F out my face w' what she thinks Rant over

[sus 70]

Thank you. She is pregnant again by another man already 5 or 6 month the child in question is only a 1 yr 6 months old and here in the states

Then that makes doing the DNA test easier - They have kits in almost every drugstore now a days, and although it won't hold up in court, for under $100 you can get piece of mind - And if the child is definitely his, I would take it to court and put some type of formal child support / visitation plan in place -

[*SunRay* 1]

Good Morning Yardies!

Congratulations DensWifey.... I remember the feeling oh so well. Enjoy every minute of your time together.

Yankee: I wish you all of the best on your special day this month. Been a long time coming and GOOD TINGS AH GWAAN when you have enough patience to stick it out.

I went to bed at 1:30am thinking I wasn't going to have to come in today. Well, I was wrong. I had to bring my happy tail in to work. Ugh!

[Always Blessed 1]

From that reaction/reply, you can assume many possibilities such as that the child is w' someone who she wish was the father; the child IS w' the REAL father; she doesn't want this man asking for the child unless he has something to offer; she's just so upset she had to say something hurrtful.

Now with the 3 hour gap Had to be she's unsure who the father is but wish that it's the one that the child is w'. Just my personal opinion and sometimes when people say things you have to sit and think deep about what was said, how it was said etc

For instance, monday @ work my coworker asked me where & how am I having my wedding. Me wanting my wedding on the beach in Jamaica responded "I'll be having the ceremony at a church, take some pictures at the park in my dress and then me and my family and closest friends go out to eat" Her response was "well, that's a cheap wedding and I really don't wamt to see you get married because I envisioned a man for you that you wouldn't have to work , but instead you pick up someone you're going to have to support"!!! My stupid response was "i don'tcarte what you think" but I should've lighted her stank #### on fire and tell her to get the F out my face w' what she thinks Rant over

Thank you, I am sorry that your co worker was prying in to your business, some people just don't know when to keep their stupid comments to themselves. I do not think your reply was stupid either because just because you are the one that is making the money does not mean that later on that tables will turn and you at that point may not have to work. Best wishes on your upcoming interview.

Then that makes doing the DNA test easier - They have kits in almost every drugstore now a days, and although it won't hold up in court, for under $100 you can get piece of mind - And if the child is definitely his, I would take it to court and put some type of formal child support / visitation plan in place -

Again thank you sus , I agree 100% with this .

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Then that makes doing the DNA test easier - They have kits in almost every drugstore now a days, and although it won't hold up in court, for under $100 you can get piece of mind - And if the child is definitely his, I would take it to court and put some type of formal child support / visitation plan in place -

serious? then why are ppl still going to maury?

[sus 70]

congrats dens

hubby and i have been trying to see if we can ride this ldr thing out a little longer so we can both take care of some business

but having him here is making me sooo depressed about him leaving, i'm thinking twice about this

Aww, Bunz, I can imagine how hard that is - leaving sucks, especially when you have had time together - But you have to weigh the odds - How important is it for you to take care of the business before you come? You will be able to be together forever after this parting, so is a month / two months too long? Also, is the business something that you can leave now, and come back to JA and handle?

One more consideration - we had CRAPPY SNOW again this morning - It's cold inna NYC, warm inna Yaad!!

[*SunRay* 1]

Then that makes doing the DNA test easier - They have kits in almost every drugstore now a days, and although it won't hold up in court, for under $100 you can get piece of mind - And if the child is definitely his, I would take it to court and put some type of formal child support / visitation plan in place -

They even have kits for STD's now in the drug store. #######? Is this because folks don't have health insurance. They are doing too much...