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[Starlight95 1]

My fiance had a horrible day and a total of 6 officers interviewed him. We already submitted my divorce decree from civil authorities in India, but now they want another one. They want a religious divorce decree. It does not make sense. In addtion to the loads of evidence we submitted they still want more besides even our engagment pictures. This is insanse.

Star

[sara..... 371]

My fiance had a horrible day and a total of 6 officers interviewed him. We already submitted my divorce decree from civil authorities in India, but now they want another one. They want a religious divorce decree. It does not make sense. In addtion to the loads of evidence we submitted they still want more besides even our engagment pictures. This is insanse.

Star

grrrrr india is such a pain in the butt........by any chance did u get the religious one as well? do you have notarized letters from both of ur families......phone records.........

sara

[Starlight95 1]

My fiance had a horrible day and a total of 6 officers interviewed him. We already submitted my divorce decree from civil authorities in India, but now they want another one. They want a religious divorce decree. It does not make sense. In addtion to the loads of evidence we submitted they still want more besides even our engagment pictures. This is insanse.

Star

grrrrr india is such a pain in the butt........by any chance did u get the religious one as well? do you have notarized letters from both of ur families......phone records.........

sara

Yes I had notarized letters so many phone records, and emails. Even he had letters in the maill from me. I can get the religious one in a few days that is not a problem. But I want to get that document from my fiance stating what they want before I submit that.

[sachinky 465]

I guess submit the religious divorce decree ASAP.

[jessarien 0]

hi,

I am sorry to hear this....but now what is this religious divorce decree...god what is there problem?

[Amit-N-Melody 11]

I have never even heard of a religious divorce decree... what is it... and who needs to get it?

[dezaman 1]

I have never heard told that someone had to get a religious divorce decree normal the civil (court) divorce decree is sufficient, I think they were just looking for a reason to give the Blue Slip... I'm sorry they gave such a hard and why 6 people had to interview him is beyond me, but its the embassy and its pretty much at their discretion how the interview will proceed.. Just give them what they want and we will all pray that you get better news afterwards... Good luck and keep the faith!!

[sara..... 371]

I have never heard told that someone had to get a religious divorce decree normal the civil (court) divorce decree is sufficient, I think they were just looking for a reason to give the Blue Slip... I'm sorry they gave such a hard and why 6 people had to interview him is beyond me, but its the embassy and its pretty much at their discretion how the interview will proceed.. Just give them what they want and we will all pray that you get better news afterwards... Good luck and keep the faith!!

i dont know about india but here in the usa when muslims get divorced u get court divorce and also decree from islamic center mostly just saying that they concur.........i also have never heard of the embassy asking for it so who knows just the embassy playing God again

sara

Edited December 7, 2009 by estadia

[Starlight95 1]

They completely grilled him. Even asked so many personal questions about me that is really none of their business. But, at the end managed to tell him as long as he submit what they require that he should be fine. They put him through a lot at the interview. What should I do next? Shall I contact the embassy to get the extension first, as I can get the documents in a 2 to 3 weeks to my fiance. This is really unfair the questions they asked him, but he managed to survive. The officers asked him same questions in different ways to put him off track, but he managed to survive all the questions. Now we just got to get them what they want.

[sara..... 371]

They completely grilled him. Even asked so many personal questions about me that is really none of their business. But, at the end managed to tell him as long as he submit what they require that he should be fine. They put him through a lot at the interview. What should I do next? Shall I contact the embassy to get the extension first, as I can get the documents in a 2 to 3 weeks to my fiance. This is really unfair the questions they asked him, but he managed to survive. The officers asked him same questions in different ways to put him off track, but he managed to survive all the questions. Now we just got to get them what they want.

if your close to your end date of the petition to be on the safe side i would request extension just to put that at rest.....

if they told him it will be fine if he submits the items do it as fast as you can........and he needs to be congratulated for getting past all that.......im not sure perviz could have held up to that many people interviewing him.......ur a lucky girl ((((hugs)))) prayers duas and lots of warm happy thoughts sending to you

sara

[Starlight95 1]

They completely grilled him. Even asked so many personal questions about me that is really none of their business. But, at the end managed to tell him as long as he submit what they require that he should be fine. They put him through a lot at the interview. What should I do next? Shall I contact the embassy to get the extension first, as I can get the documents in a 2 to 3 weeks to my fiance. This is really unfair the questions they asked him, but he managed to survive. The officers asked him same questions in different ways to put him off track, but he managed to survive all the questions. Now we just got to get them what they want.

if your close to your end date of the petition to be on the safe side i would request extension just to put that at rest.....

if they told him it will be fine if he submits the items do it as fast as you can........and he needs to be congratulated for getting past all that.......im not sure perviz could have held up to that many people interviewing him.......ur a lucky girl ((((hugs)))) prayers duas and lots of warm happy thoughts sending to you

sara

Awww..thanks . He told me if it was somebody else they would have completely given up. It was pretty tough. I am glad that he did nto get denied. ((((Hugs)))) back at you Sara. I am going to go home and check the validity of my petition. I got my approval 10/02/09.

I am confident that you will get out of this, and we both can rejoice together. I am always here for you too ok?

[MRStee 19]

Im sorry to hear you are going through this, just give them what they need and God will take care of the rest!

[Lost Love 0]

My fiance had a horrible day and a total of 6 officers interviewed him. We already submitted my divorce decree from civil authorities in India, but now they want another one. They want a religious divorce decree. It does not make sense. In addtion to the loads of evidence we submitted they still want more besides even our engagment pictures. This is insanse.

Star

I am really sorry Star for all what happened at the interview and glad your fiance did a good job answering questions from 6 officers. Personally i fell it would have been hard for me too to answer six different officers. Hats off for your fiance.

I am not sure why they have asked for a religious divorse decree. As far as i know in Islam you dont get a divorse decree. All a person has to do is verbally accept the divorse infront of the priest but i may be wrong. God knows what that is all about. I can only say stay possitive star and submit everything what they have asked for and if you have some of the things ready on your end which the embassy people have asked for just send them through Fedex international priorty which will cost some $150 and the package will be here in India in three days time. I think your petition will expire on 1st Feb 2009 so dont worry about that as you have two more months but to be on the safer side just try to request extension of your petition. have faith in your love and you will go through. i will pry for you

[just for u 0]

My fiance had a horrible day and a total of 6 officers interviewed him. We already submitted my divorce decree from civil authorities in India, but now they want another one. They want a religious divorce decree. It does not make sense. In addtion to the loads of evidence we submitted they still want more besides even our engagment pictures. This is insanse.

Star

Hi Star,

I'm extremely sorry to hear about the out come of your interview. I hope you can get all the paper work in on time. one of the good ways to look at this would be they didn't deny your visa. I will also suggest like Zahid did.. try to request for extention for your petition since your case is expiring in Feb and since Delhi takes long time to process paperwork. All the best and I will pray for you.

[inzango 0]

Hi Star,

Sorry to hear about this, but I'm sure as soon as they get what's needed, they will give the visa to your fiance. No worries.

You r in my prayers. Wishing u best of luck