Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 21)

[jamerican 2]

JQ mi nuh think yuh wan ramp wid Chiney!

Like you stated this is an open forum for all a wi to voice our opinions and that was how she felt so mi nuh think its fair fi yuh to come at her like dat she was expressing how she felt. Dats all I have to say pon dis subject!

Dat's the same thing I was thinking like aww damn ..LOL

Ok so its gang up on me huh!

Ok yall old timers on here and..........

Let me clarify,

I got PM's saying other things so lets not go there with other things that you know nothing about.......

I wasnt trying to go there Philly with you are no one else but just cause she been on here 15 years dont mean she can just say whatever she want in a PM and then say .....you know what it aint worth it, if you got anything else to say to me say it in a PM so I can address you because here we go with the negativity again

and thats not what the forum is for.

I said my opinion and you said yours such and such said theres and thats it

LET IT GO

NEXT

JQ ....I totally understand what you are saying and TOTALLY AGREE with you.... It's almost like if anyone says ANYTHING about Kimmy post (chiney) they become attacked but Kimmy can attack anyone else's and people are afraid to say anything about it!! The attitude that kimmy gave was of a child with a toy who didn't get their way so they say "I am gonna take my toy and nobody can play with it!!!" FINE....we appreciate everyone's input...newbie or veteran but DAMN.....REALLY??.....why have a temper tantrum because you don't like people's reply's??? NO ONE PERSON HAS THE ANSWER TO EVERY SITUATION....post your views or opinions and then step back! Philly...what kimmy did was post her opinion then throw dirt on us as she said she wasn't coming back....the comment about us all needing to sing cumbiya(sp) was unnecessary because it was in essence saying anyone who gave positive advise were wrong. I have no issues or problems with Kimmy (chiney/hotlegs) and I appreciate her perspective but refuse to sit here and watch when I think a comment was out of line....and then when JQ points it out she gets warned and jumped on. SO>>>>>> next.....

[phillyfashionista 8]

I think they would appreciate me more if they just let me leave at noon next Wednesday. Mass, maybe. And, then just let us go. Seriously, no one cares.

LOL I know thats right!

Just wondering when these people going to give me my damn decision(NOA2)

Girl don't stress bout it cause it won't change a thing trust me, my wig was titled back many a day over this process and it nuh help! I know you miss him and it's killing you thats why we are here to help you pass the time! Yuh soon get your NOA2 I put it out there in the universe for for you~

philly~ gawd i love you

I love you too Star, I love your pics they were amazing!

JQ mi nuh think yuh wan ramp wid Chiney!

Like you stated this is an open forum for all a wi to voice our opinions and that was how she felt so mi nuh think its fair fi yuh to come at her like dat she was expressing how she felt. Dats all I have to say pon dis subject!

Dat's the same thing I was thinking like aww damn ..LOL

Child Hush mi can manage!

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

JQ mi nuh think yuh wan ramp wid Chiney!

Like you stated this is an open forum for all a wi to voice our opinions and that was how she felt so mi nuh think its fair fi yuh to come at her like dat she was expressing how she felt. Dats all I have to say pon dis subject!

Dat's the same thing I was thinking like aww damn ..LOL

Ok so its gang up on me huh!

Ok yall old timers on here and..........

Let me clarify,

I got PM's saying other things so lets not go there with other things that you know nothing about.......

I wasnt trying to go there Philly with you are no one else but just cause she been on here 15 years dont mean she can just say whatever she want in a PM and then say .....you know what it aint worth it, if you got anything else to say to me say it in a PM so I can address you because here we go with the negativity again

and thats not what the forum is for.

I said my opinion and you said yours such and such said theres and thats it

LET IT GO

NEXT

JQ ....I totally understand what you are saying and TOTALLY AGREE with you.... It's almost like if anyone says ANYTHING about Kimmy post (chiney) they become attacked but Kimmy can attack anyone else's and people are afraid to say anything about it!! The attitude that kimmy gave was of a child with a toy who didn't get their way so they say "I am gonna take my toy and nobody can play with it!!!" FINE....we appreciate everyone's input...newbie or veteran but DAMN.....REALLY??.....why have a temper tantrum because you don't like people's reply's??? NO ONE PERSON HAS THE ANSWER TO EVERY SITUATION....post your views or opinions and then step back! Philly...what kimmy did was post her opinion then throw dirt on us as she said she wasn't coming back....the comment about us all needing to sing cumbiya(sp) was unnecessary because it was in essence saying anyone who gave positive advise were wrong. I have no issues or problems with Kimmy (chiney/hotlegs) and I appreciate her perspective but refuse to sit here and watch when I think a comment was out of line....and then when JQ points it out she gets warned and jumped on. SO>>>>>> next.....

who gives a phock !!! mi neva ask nobody fi agree wid mi!!

[justucia 0]

for the record~

i was replying to phillys picture of the eyelashes

(i even tried reposting the pic, but doesnt look as if it worked)

i dont get involved in heated discussions 'round here

and i have no earthly idea what this is all about

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

man i hate this damn board!! peace..mi wish everybody the best !! finesse i pray for a save delivery and health baby girls!!!

Q..i forgot it was u...congrats to u guys!!!

u"ll should just bundle up and sing cumbayah..if u'll can't be honest about things whats the point again? just to hear congrats and he/she is such a good guy? come on now..and NO mi no give a rass wah anybody feel..

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We cant even put no fire behind this because its not worth it.

Im tired of people coming on here and getting mad and trying to make the whole board mad or upset.

An opinion is that and only that.

If I post a comment its not for you to get mad. its not your life

Tell your opinion and go on with your life.

I can either accept it or ignore it but thats what goes on with an open forum on the internet.

People get mad and say Im done with the board and then come on here as spy's

Come on are you serious.

JQ mi nuh think yuh wan ramp wid Chiney!

Like you stated this is an open forum for all a wi to voice our opinions and that was how she felt so mi nuh think its fair fi yuh to come at her like dat she was expressing how she felt. Dats all I have to say pon dis subject!

Anyhooo did you check out the feva I sent ya!

Girl, I fear no one but God

Lets get that straight.

I dont come on VJ for

negativity

An opinion is that but to put someone down is another thing

Its uncalled for!!!Dats all I have to say pon dis subject!

But you know I love ya much still Philly.

I have been reading your post to see if you sent me that Snoop or that Gucci. Whats up chica.???????????????????? Hook a sista up yo!!!

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mi glad and again mi neva ask nobody...dats why mi husband nah call him kids modda and run up mi phone bill and mi still dey wid him..mi no care!! mi sey wah mi waan fi sey!!

mi no ave time fi oonuh...all a oonuh can kiss mi phocking flat apple shape bahind like mi sey many times!! oonuh tink mi fraid fi sey wah mi waah fi sey!! no!!

who gives a phock...mi hope oonuh nah get used fi a phock or a visa or even child support!!

SO GET THIS..PHOCK OFF AND KISS MI ####..AND GO MIND OONUH MAN..HIM OOMAN AND HAR PICKNEY DEM!!!

[DaDa 1]

Child Hush mi can manage!

O.k. wait a darn minute!!!! I was not taking up for Kimmy nor was I taking up for Philly hell I wasn’t taking up for anyone I was just saying when I saw JQ’s response I was like Uh Oh here we go… Dat is all……

I know what its like to go to war with a veteran. Hell I have went to war with quite a few of them and its like me being the newbie as soon as I spoke up all the veteran’s jumped on me because they s tuck together so I been there done that. All I was saying was uh oh here we go dat is all….

By the way Jamerican you crack me up referencing all the names…

[phillyfashionista 8]

JQ mi nuh think yuh wan ramp wid Chiney!

Like you stated this is an open forum for all a wi to voice our opinions and that was how she felt so mi nuh think its fair fi yuh to come at her like dat she was expressing how she felt. Dats all I have to say pon dis subject!

Dat's the same thing I was thinking like aww damn ..LOL

Ok so its gang up on me huh!

Ok yall old timers on here and..........

Let me clarify,

I got PM's saying other things so lets not go there with other things that you know nothing about.......

I wasnt trying to go there Philly with you are no one else but just cause she been on here 15 years dont mean she can just say whatever she want in a PM and then say .....you know what it aint worth it, if you got anything else to say to me say it in a PM so I can address you because here we go with the negativity again

and thats not what the forum is for.

I said my opinion and you said yours such and such said theres and thats it

LET IT GO

NEXT

Mek mi guh get North Philly up in here today CHO! MI see how people tan and likes the last word, LEAVE MY NAME OUT YA MOUTH. Like you said this an open forum no one was jumping on you I was expressing how I feel but you took it personal. All that been on here for 15 years foolnish is outta orda but you chat bout let it go. We all can say how we feel as long as its respectful but when people wan tek it dere mi cya tek it. Now mi dun!

LOL @ JG this is Xmas time!

[DaDa 1]

See dat is what my uh oh meant because I knew she was gwaan surface!!!!

[DaDa 1]

My friend just texted me and said they played till 1:15 a.m. Geez!

Our Christmas party is here in the dining room. Mass....we have to then socialize with each other....and then lunch, which I have to cater. I don't know why they bother. Everyone just wants to get out of here early and start out holidays.

We are not even getting a Xmas party this year, but they are calling it an Employee Appreciation party at the end of January.

We had a Xmas party but I didn’t go. I just wasn’t in a celebrating mood on Friday. Well why did I hear that one of the executives ran a tab and you were aloud to get whatever you wanted for an hour but the bar forgot to shut down the tab so it went all night. Ugh!!! I’m so mad at myself!!!!

[*JG* 2]

Kimmy, the thing is, didn't you do the same thing? You didn't really come out and say what you are wanting to say. Didn't you dance around the subject?

You know what I did. Even though I didn't tell you what I said, I told you that I did say something privately. Cause I think that's the way to handle what I was feeling. It's done and over. I don't see the point in being negative in public sometimes.

And, as far as someone said on here about Ell's being part of the issues at hand. I've been there. I've been exactly where she is. She is frustrated and she's angry. It's not that she doesn't like the man. Hell, she barely knows the man. It's so new still. Hubby and then all of a sudden father appears. She's angry that he didn't take an interest in his son before. She's hearing second hand information sometimes. And the time and energy put into the LDR....you get him here and you want him all to yourself for a while. It takes time to adjust. Lots and lots of time. This wrinkle in the plan is a hassle and it's being sorted through. Just cause she vents......and vents in what I am calling typical Ell's style.....doesn't mean she's acting that venting out. Nor, is it the end all my way or no way. It's VENTING. If you haven't been there yet, you will be. There will be someone that will annoy you in this visa journey. Some family member. Some friend. I've heard it over and over and over again. You work it out. It just takes time. For God's sake, let her vent. People on this very thread may be the only people that will ever understand what she's going through.

Ells, honey.....I understand. Really I have been there and I understand. Deep breaths, girlie. It will all calm down eventually. Look for amicable solutions. Give a little....sometimes a lot. And, stand your ground when you need to. Most importantly, communicate with your hubby. Talk it all out, my friend.

[DaDa 1]

philly~ gawd i love you

Me toooo. Even though she takes six months to respond to a PM mi still luv her anyway....

[*JG* 2]

My friend just texted me and said they played till 1:15 a.m. Geez!

Our Christmas party is here in the dining room. Mass....we have to then socialize with each other....and then lunch, which I have to cater. I don't know why they bother. Everyone just wants to get out of here early and start out holidays.

We are not even getting a Xmas party this year, but they are calling it an Employee Appreciation party at the end of January.

We had a Xmas party but I didn't go. I just wasn't in a celebrating mood on Friday. Well why did I hear that one of the executives ran a tab and you were aloud to get whatever you wanted for an hour but the bar forgot to shut down the tab so it went all night. Ugh!!! I'm so mad at myself!!!!

Wait.............one hour turned into all night? OMG, that's crazy.

[jamerican 2]

Child Hush mi can manage!

O.k. wait a darn minute!!!! I was not taking up for Kimmy nor was I taking up for Philly hell I wasn’t taking up for anyone I was just saying when I saw JQ’s response I was like Uh Oh here we go… Dat is all……

I know what its like to go to war with a veteran. Hell I have went to war with quite a few of them and its like me being the newbie as soon as I spoke up all the veteran’s jumped on me because they s tuck together so I been there done that. All I was saying was uh oh here we go dat is all….

By the way Jamerican you crack me up referencing all the names…

Dara you are funny.... "hell I wasn't taking up for anyone.....I was just saying...." like don't get me in this mess!!! I battled with myself weather or not to even comment on many occasions because of the backlash but WHAT THE HELL!!! Lord knows I am supposed to be studying for finals tonight and the rest of the week....

Edited December 14, 2009 by jamerican

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

AND ###### Jamerican Queen ar whatever u want..MI NEVA SCARED SO ME A ONE SMADDY YUH WILL NEVA FIND SNEAKING..MI LOGGED IN MI LOGGED IT..AFTA MI NO FRAID A YUH NOR NOBODY ELSE...ALL OONUH BETTA SLEEP PON SI SAME SIDE OONUH SLEEP PON LAST NIGHT ..MEK SURE WHEN AOS COME YUH MAN STILL DEY ROUND..AND AFTER 2YRS YUH NO FIND OUT BOUT HIM 5 PICKNEY DEM!!

[DaDa 1]

Mek mi guh get North Philly up in here today CHO! MI see how people tan and likes the last word, LEAVE MY NAME OUT YA MOUTH. Like you said this an open forum no one was jumping on you I was expressing how I feel but you took it personal. All that been on here for 15 years foolnish is outta orda but you chat bout let it go. We all can say how we feel as long as its respectful but when people wan tek it dere mi cya tek it. Now mi dun!!

LOL @ JG this is Xmas time!

Philly me neva seen yuh vexed b4.. It’s turning me on…