hi

[tallcoolone 102]

This post just serves as a notice that dating sites like Cherry Blossom and Filipina Heart can be dangerous and risky.

On one side you have Filipinia Girls trying to scam money out of Men

On the flip side you have Forgieners on the site hooking up with girls and spreading diseases.

In Texas if you have a STD you can go to jail for not telling your partner.

A few months ago, Some guy infected several ladies with HIV, and now is has long prison sentence for "using his body as a deadly weapon"

http://www.nbcdfw.com/news/local-beat/Jury...eading-HIV.html

[Llyne 0]

I feel sorry for what happened to you...I know that no amount of words/apologies could heal your broken heart and wounds.

First, I agree with what tallcoolone have posted.

Also, I am surprised as this is not the first time I've read this kind of story, and your story is the second, after reading your story, I recalled the first story strongly, because there are similarities... I will send you personal message, as this issue is very sensitive.

My advices:

1. Stop communicating with the guy and the girl (whoever the girl or girls is/are),

Based from your story, I know that you are truly, madly, deeply in love with your ex, but..be brave my fellow filipina, be strong. If they guy said he doesn't like any relationship, then accept. There is no other way but to accept. Reserve the remaining dignity of yourself. I know I may sound too stiff or rough, but girl..there's no other person who will help you but only you. Healing comes from within and starts from acceptance. Pray to God to help you accept things you cannot change and to give you the determination to move on.

2. (follow up from No.1) Stop communicating with the girl, as you have mentioned she doesn't reply to you. One email is enough, you already told her about the potential STD she might have and she never replied. Once is enough, two is too much, if she doesn't want to be cared about, then don't care for her. Anyway, its her body, its her life, she is also old enough to handle situations and before you care to other people, take care of yourself first, heal yourself first, physically, emotionally and the like.

3. I can say that the best thing to do for now is, continue your medications, find ways or medicines that can cure STD's, or if not cure at all, lessen it (viral/infectious), drink lots of water, sleep, love yourself, love people around you like your family, count your blessings and pray to God.

4. Though the situation as we can say is hopeless and helpless, never give up, this is a part of your life where your character is tested, never give up on life, life is a survival of the fittest remember that, don't let other people destroy your life-destroy the one and only life that God gave you. Just think that this is a phase of life you need to conquer, after 3, 5 years, who knows you might be in a better place/position.

Please my dear filipina...don't let other people abuse you, You are the only protector of your body and of your life.

Nurture the life that God gave you and we only have one life to live, so make it worth living for.

Sincerely,

Christallyne

[ladyinpink 1]

he wanted me for k1 but for some reason he had a cancelled k1 visa that is not yet officially cancelled.i found out he filed k1 then a month after he started chatting me ,he said he had a filipina before me and what i thought they were over, we meet on filipinaheart his profile was already deleted. I asked him if i was just a cover up of his pain from his ex girl he said no, but what i thought now was i am right, his friend told me they had an argument and thats the reason why he cancelled the visa for the girl. but it was very fresh, a month only and he found me.we did not have any visa process, our relationship is over coz he was chatting other girl when he was here.he said he didnt have other girl but im old enough and i can felt instinctly no matter how he tried hiding his actions. actions speaks louder than words and i can now say that we must follow our instinct coz some is right. i even emailed the girl asking if she was the new girlfriend, but they were mad with me. And now, they were over.

i fell sorry to you that is a nightmare you should go to doctor taking care of your healt

that guy is a moron.

[whisper 0]

maybe some who experienced my situation would understand my feelings now. Thank you so much for the replies, i appreciate the advises you gave for me. The only thing why maybe this happened to me was i am new on internet dating i dnt have any idea about engaging in foreign relationship or in long distance relationship and im not expose in having a relationship to a guy. What i thought was it was all ok and i was very positive and trust a lot if i felt the guy seems real coz i am real too. My first experience was very unforgettable and left a scar in my whole life. Yah you were right , there is nothing i can do except to accept but i hope this would be a lesson not only to myself but also to other people.

[Llyne 0]

maybe some who experienced my situation would understand my feelings now. Thank you so much for the replies, i appreciate the advises you gave for me. The only thing why maybe this happened to me was i am new on internet dating i dnt have any idea about engaging in foreign relationship or in long distance relationship and im not expose in having a relationship to a guy. What i thought was it was all ok and i was very positive and trust a lot if i felt the guy seems real coz i am real too. My first experience was very unforgettable and left a scar in my whole life. Yah you were right , there is nothing i can do except to accept but i hope this would be a lesson not only to myself but also to other people.

Its my again my fella filipina

You are welcome...thanks for appreciating our responses, its the least thing I can give as a help for now.

I can feel that you are a newbie in this digital dating and feels that you are a decent woman.

In this world....old world we can say..is a mix of bad people, good people, wise people, name it, the earth has all sorts of people.

I cannot questioned you for loving genuinely, and never regret..because at the time, at the height of your love, you did't know that it will come to a point like this...unbelievable it may seem...but ###### like this happen...and the only thing you can do for now is stand for yourself, stand for your values, stand for your dignity, rise up woman, rise up. It doesn't matter how many times we fall, but what matters are the lessons we learned each time we fall.

Next time, be cautious, especially when falling in love, if it takes to be suspicious in getting to know a person, then do so, anyway, its your self that you are protecting.

[ronalyn 0]

w0w! honestly, while i was reading your post, I can almost feel the pain in your heart and the anger you have for that selfish stupid guy! I guess you better stop communicating with your ex because he doesnt deserve you and your love at all! Let go of him and just focus on yourself most especially on your health. Just pray and God will be with you.

he wanted me for k1 but for some reason he had a cancelled k1 visa that is not yet officially cancelled.i found out he filed k1 then a month after he started chatting me ,he said he had a filipina before me and what i thought they were over, we meet on filipinaheart his profile was already deleted. I asked him if i was just a cover up of his pain from his ex girl he said no, but what i thought now was i am right, his friend told me they had an argument and thats the reason why he cancelled the visa for the girl. but it was very fresh, a month only and he found me.we did not have any visa process, our relationship is over coz he was chatting other girl when he was here.he said he didnt have other girl but im old enough and i can felt instinctly no matter how he tried hiding his actions. actions speaks louder than words and i can now say that we must follow our instinct coz some is right. i even emailed the girl asking if she was the new girlfriend, but they were mad with me. And now, they were over.