Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 3)

[rhondapayter 0]

Hello family.

Kelly - I'm so sorry you are going through this but I wouldn't contact Ms. Mississippi....your problem should be with Craig not her.

Sorry, I don't agree. She knows he's married and yet she calls him at all hours of the night!! Kick her %#@ Kelly!

Let's not lose our class now Rhonda. It's just not worth it.

What would you do if it was YOUR man? She is half of the problem, like it or not. If these women would quit trying to get involved with MARRIED men, the world would be a much better place

[rhondapayter 0]

See I am the kind of person who wouldn't let a person who disrespects me even to stay in my house. I would of found him the nearst shelter and took him there. Then I would of changed all my locks on my house. Even if he was from here or wasn't.

That all changes when you're married. According to the law (at least here in MI) IF you are married, it is HIS house too and you can not prevent him from coming in because he lives there. Unless you have legally filed for seperation or divorce, the cops can force you to let him in the house. Just an FYI.

[rhondapayter 0]

the best hula dancer on all of the islands at the time was a man who weighed over 500 lbs (yes, you read right). Boy could that man move .

Oh my That is quite the visual I just can't imagine!!

[rhondapayter 0]

Hey SJB post that link for me too - I want to surprise D for our one year anniversary in Feb - that should give me enough time to work off the "happy pounds" I gained since he been here and get the routine down

Honey, I'll still working on losing my "visa trauma and marriage" weight gain....go to erotiquecardio.com.

I hear you ladies! I have gained 15-20 lbs. since I met Tony And it won't go away!!!

[rhondapayter 0]

As you may know, our interview was on Thursday, and despite our best efforts, the visa was denied--due to his admitted marijuana use from about 2 1/2 years ago...

Oh my gosh, I am soooooo sorry That is so crazy. As if there is anyone in JA who hasn't smoked before?!!! That's just not fair. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

[luvtravlin 0]

Hi all...well, I just want to start out saying that I thank each and every one of you for the help that you have provided along the way for our K-1 journey. As you may know, our interview was on Thursday, and despite our best efforts, the visa was denied--due to his admitted marijuana use from about 2 1/2 years ago...You know, a couple of weeks before the medical I said to him, if they ask you about drugs just say that you've never used them...it seemed fine then...he was like "cool"...but on the day of the medical he said that the doctor kept asking him had he used drugs in the past 3 years, and INSISTED to him that they would test to make sure....now, because I live here, and I guess I just know that weed can't be traced back any further than 30 days or so, I never really thought that that would be an issue...I just assumed that people pretty much knew that, but I guess not...unfortunately, he told them the truth because he was fearful that they would somehow find out and would deny him the visa...and for his honesty we have paid the price....I have never seen a man cry so much before in my life...and I have truly never felt more broken spirited and hopeless...I don't know where to go from here because I just knew that everything was going to work out according to plan...this has been the most devastating experience of my life....I wish everyone up here luck, and please please please heed the medical warnings---THESE PEOPLE ARE SO CANNIVING AND SNEAKY!! This was a hard lesson learned...I'm not sure what other options are available to us...we've talked, and we do both agree wholeheartedly that being together is what matters the most in the world to us...its just knowing what to do next (if there's anything we CAN do) that is the problem...like I said before, thank you for your well wishes!! I will definitely continue to post here and be of any help if I can...the actual interview experience-NO PROBLEM! Everyone have a wonderful evening and a good day at work tomorrow!!

I'm sorry to hear that you went through this.......but....the drug CAN be in your system for UP TO 90 days, especially when they do a blood test. Trust me........

See I am the kind of person who wouldn't let a person who disrespects me even to stay in my house. I would of found him the nearst shelter and took him there. Then I would of changed all my locks on my house. Even if he was from here or wasn't.

That all changes when you're married. According to the law (at least here in MI) IF you are married, it is HIS house too and you can not prevent him from coming in because he lives there. Unless you have legally filed for seperation or divorce, the cops can force you to let him in the house. Just an FYI.

Here in Maryland if they are in your home for 30 days....it's considered to be "their" home to. A good friend of mine went through this recently, it was reeeeeeeeeally ugly !!

[Jamaica to CT 0]

Good morning

Tamisha my heart goes out to you and Gregory.

[Jamaica to CT 0]

Congrats Jax, your case is just breezing along. Are you ready for your trip to JA to see hubby?

Is anyone traveling this holiday season?

[BelwinMills 0]

Congrats Jax, your case is just breezing along. Are you ready for your trip to JA to see hubby?

Is anyone traveling this holiday season?

Michele,

I really can't wait for next Thursday to get here. I am glad that the case work is done here so I don't have to worry about that when I am gone. The only part I am not looking foward to is sharing the bathroom with 5 other people. I am one of those who never stay in a resort can't afford it. I wish we could go to the El Greco again it was nice. When I get back from JA my mom and dad said I have to take a taxi into the city because we will be spending two nights at a hotel. So I will be seeing a Christmas Carol and they are going to 2nd City. Then the bears and packers game on New Years Eve. Go BEARS!!! So I won't be home until Jan 2nd and then work starts the next day. Crazy but lots of fun...

Everyone have a great morning!!

Jax

See I am the kind of person who wouldn't let a person who disrespects me even to stay in my house. I would of found him the nearst shelter and took him there. Then I would of changed all my locks on my house. Even if he was from here or wasn't.

That all changes when you're married. According to the law (at least here in MI) IF you are married, it is HIS house too and you can not prevent him from coming in because he lives there. Unless you have legally filed for seperation or divorce, the cops can force you to let him in the house. Just an FYI.

I would then suggest that people get prenuips. I don't know all the info on being married because I have only been for a year and we don't believe in divorice.

Have a great day and did you see the Bears Game whoopie!!

[morantbaygirl 0]

Hi all...well, I just want to start out saying that I thank each and every one of you for the help that you have provided along the way for our K-1 journey. As you may know, our interview was on Thursday, and despite our best efforts, the visa was denied--due to his admitted marijuana use from about 2 1/2 years ago...You know, a couple of weeks before the medical I said to him, if they ask you about drugs just say that you've never used them...it seemed fine then...he was like "cool"...but on the day of the medical he said that the doctor kept asking him had he used drugs in the past 3 years, and INSISTED to him that they would test to make sure....now, because I live here, and I guess I just know that weed can't be traced back any further than 30 days or so, I never really thought that that would be an issue...I just assumed that people pretty much knew that, but I guess not...unfortunately, he told them the truth because he was fearful that they would somehow find out and would deny him the visa...and for his honesty we have paid the price....I have never seen a man cry so much before in my life...and I have truly never felt more broken spirited and hopeless...I don't know where to go from here because I just knew that everything was going to work out according to plan...this has been the most devastating experience of my life....I wish everyone up here luck, and please please please heed the medical warnings---THESE PEOPLE ARE SO CANNIVING AND SNEAKY!! This was a hard lesson learned...I'm not sure what other options are available to us...we've talked, and we do both agree wholeheartedly that being together is what matters the most in the world to us...its just knowing what to do next (if there's anything we CAN do) that is the problem...like I said before, thank you for your well wishes!! I will definitely continue to post here and be of any help if I can...the actual interview experience-NO PROBLEM! Everyone have a wonderful evening and a good day at work tomorrow!!

I am so sorry my girlfriend fiance made the same mistake and they were denied also on 11/28/2006. The embassy told her that he can try again in March 2009. My grilfriend called a lawyer and he said that they couldn't do anything for them. The lawyer also said if anyone claims they can they are out to beat you out of money.She loves him very much so they have made plans to see each other every six months untill the time passes. I know it's hard but if you love someone then they are worth the wait!!!!. He is just going to make the most of his time and learn how to drive and futher his education since he didn't go to high school. I know it hurts but take the time and build your finaces and GO TO JAMAICA AS MUCH AS YOU CAN. The lady said all he'll have to do is another medical and another interview. God bless you and be strong.

[luvtravlin 0]

Is it me, am I losing it? where's the PM button ???

[Minfay 0]

As you may know, our interview was on Thursday, and despite our best efforts, the visa was denied--due to his admitted marijuana use from about 2 1/2 years ago...post here and be of any help if I can...the actual interview experience-NO PROBLEM!

I'm so sorry....sometimes it's just better to lie....unfortunately, that's the truth. The three years will fly by and then you can re-apply. We will all be here if you need us

Is it me, am I losing it? where's the PM button ???

It disappeared....

[brownnskinn 0]

Hello family.

Kelly - I'm so sorry you are going through this but I wouldn't contact Ms. Mississippi....your problem should be with Craig not her.

Sorry, I don't agree. She knows he's married and yet she calls him at all hours of the night!! Kick her %#@ Kelly!

Let's not lose our class now Rhonda. It's just not worth it.

What would you do if it was YOUR man? She is half of the problem, like it or not. If these women would quit trying to get involved with MARRIED men, the world would be a much better place

No she is not Half the problem. He is all of the problem. If he was any kind of man, He would put her in check and not have her calling Kelly's house in the first damn place. HE had to give out the number. I know it hurts and I would hate to be in her shoes. But If I were, I wouldn't waste my time calling her. This is a matter of being mature. We are women not little girls. I've been through the little girl S#%#. and at this point in my life, If I were working on my second relationship and seeing how children are envolved. I would toerate no bull#$%. Life is too short

As you may know, our interview was on Thursday, and despite our best efforts, the visa was denied--due to his admitted marijuana use from about 2 1/2 years ago...post here and be of any help if I can...the actual interview experience-NO PROBLEM!

I'm so sorry....sometimes it's just better to lie....unfortunately, that's the truth. The three years will fly by and then you can re-apply. We will all be here if you need us

Is it me, am I losing it? where's the PM button ???

It disappeared....

Now you have to click on the persons name or aviator to send a PM. What happen to the spell check??

Hi all...well, I just want to start out saying that I thank each and every one of you for the help that you have provided along the way for our K-1 journey. As you may know, our interview was on Thursday, and despite our best efforts, the visa was denied--due to his admitted marijuana use from about 2 1/2 years ago...You know, a couple of weeks before the medical I said to him, if they ask you about drugs just say that you've never used them...it seemed fine then...he was like "cool"...but on the day of the medical he said that the doctor kept asking him had he used drugs in the past 3 years, and INSISTED to him that they would test to make sure....now, because I live here, and I guess I just know that weed can't be traced back any further than 30 days or so, I never really thought that that would be an issue...I just assumed that people pretty much knew that, but I guess not...unfortunately, he told them the truth because he was fearful that they would somehow find out and would deny him the visa...and for his honesty we have paid the price....I have never seen a man cry so much before in my life...and I have truly never felt more broken spirited and hopeless...I don't know where to go from here because I just knew that everything was going to work out according to plan...this has been the most devastating experience of my life....I wish everyone up here luck, and please please please heed the medical warnings---THESE PEOPLE ARE SO CANNIVING AND SNEAKY!! This was a hard lesson learned...I'm not sure what other options are available to us...we've talked, and we do both agree wholeheartedly that being together is what matters the most in the world to us...its just knowing what to do next (if there's anything we CAN do) that is the problem...like I said before, thank you for your well wishes!! I will definitely continue to post here and be of any help if I can...the actual interview experience-NO PROBLEM! Everyone have a wonderful evening and a good day at work tomorrow!!

Oh my gosh!!!!!! This is just too much!!

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Thank u everyone for your thoughts and prayers...the lady at the Embassy told us that his test had come back clean, but because he admitted to the use from a couple of years ago, that was enough for them...I just feel like I'm at a complete loss...I don't even know what I can do, if anything...we would still like to be married--does anyone know if we can get married now, and then just wait? I don't know...my thoughts are rambling right now...I haven't been able to concentrate on anything, eat, or sleep...

[Jonesie 1]

Thank u everyone for your thoughts and prayers...the lady at the Embassy told us that his test had come back clean, but because he admitted to the use from a couple of years ago, that was enough for them...I just feel like I'm at a complete loss...I don't even know what I can do, if anything...we would still like to be married--does anyone know if we can get married now, and then just wait? I don't know...my thoughts are rambling right now...I haven't been able to concentrate on anything, eat, or sleep...

I am sorry you went through this

Yes you can still get married (in Jamaica), and after his 3 year ban is up you can file K3/CR1 (if I'm wrong someone please correct me on this)

Good luck and God bless