How was your day today?

[sara..... 371]

im sorry......what happened?

sara

Sara,

It was a perfect match because we felt so and everyone agreed. We did everything together for eight months - laughed, cried, loved and understood each other. We also filed out our I-129F, got NOA1, then after 4 months got our NOA2... then in another two months while waiting eagerly for packet 3 and 4 and sending stuff back to consulate, we found out our interview date was yet another two months away. We got sad but were happy now we had a 60 day count down and then we will be together forever. Yea right!

Two weeks before the interview, he went for medical (passed it), submitted all the docs to VFS the next day and came home and said to me he doesn't want to come to America any more. Our interview would have been two days back but he didn't go to it. He said he didn't feel like coming any more... :'(

I withdrew our file and canceled the petition.

I don't want to ruin other people's day because they have good things happening. It's nice to see couples who stick together... for years. My hands are trembling seeing what is love and what I saw in my life.

Im so sorry this has happened to you......all men are not bad and its hard to know what one is good and what one is not until push comes to shove......plz dont give up on happiness....i dont know the reason that this happened i mean maybe God safe you from an abusive situation we just dont know........ur in my prayers and any time u want to talk i can listen i dont have a lot of advise but i can listen sometimes just that can help.........

sara

[k.loveh 0]

Congrats on the visa approval, K.loveh!

Thank you ELW! I am very very happy!!!

[k.loveh 0]

It was a perfect match because we felt so and everyone agreed. We did everything together for eight months - laughed, cried, loved and understood each other. We also filed out our I-129F, got NOA1, then after 4 months got our NOA2... then in another two months while waiting eagerly for packet 3 and 4 and sending stuff back to consulate, we found out our interview date was yet another two months away. We got sad but were happy now we had a 60 day count down and then we will be together forever. Yea right!

Two weeks before the interview, he went for medical (passed it), submitted all the docs to VFS the next day and came home and said to me he doesn't want to come to America any more. Our interview would have been two days back but he didn't go to it. He said he didn't feel like coming any more... :'(

I withdrew our file and canceled the petition.

I don't want to ruin other people's day because they have good things happening. It's nice to see couples who stick together... for years. My hands are trembling seeing what is love and what I saw in my life.

ONN, my heart is with you and I wish we all here could comfort you. I can't even imagine if it were me. I don't know why your fiance made this decision as he did or why he chose to do it when he did, but I'm sure one day he'll be remorseful for losing the heart he held in his hands. It sounds like in your story that you and he both were happy at some time?

I hope and pray that your heart is healed and that someday you can forgive him and find a love so perfect that you'll look back and thank God for this.

I believe that you will.

[Starlight95 1]

Hi there,

I am sorry that you went through this. But, you did the right thing of not pursuing this further. After all the trouble you went through and for him to back out last minute does not show responsibility or maturity on his part. Imagine if you did get married and last minute he cancelled. Count your blessings that this happened before you pursed this further. I am here if you want to talk, but I can tell you there are good guys out there and are committed to the relationship. I am really truly sorry, and I can completely relate to your pain.

Star

[Twisted K 2]

my day is going all right. glad to set the clocks back an hour husband has to go to the passport office to get his pcc on tuesday. the only thing standing in our way between us and his interview date. i don't know if he will make it in time for the december interview, but january is coming

[ELW 5]

Hey thanks for reminding me about setting back the clocks! Completely forgot until I read your post just now.

I got a lot done today, just staying at home. I have this project going of digitization all my family's old photos (from 1930s onwards) - I have to scan them, then crop, then save them with correct names, then label them digitally in Paint. Many hours work for hundreds of photos! But it's good knowing that we have all our photos safe in cyber space.

[ONN 1]

Kathy, thanks. How I wish this process wasn't so toll-taking... emotionally, physically, mentally, financially. Sigh.

Thanks, Third. It just feels horrible to post such negative things when you see others celebrating and so full of hope. And then at the same time you feel so left out... keep wondering "why me?"

ELW, Nina, Sara, thanks for the support & prayers. I'm trying to find meaningful things to do now to keep myself busy and not drive myself even crazier.

k.loveh, thank you. My congrats to you and your SO.

Starlight, thanks.

You all are so kind. I wish you all happiness and love. God bless.

[ms_jinga_lala 0]

It's a great day to be alive!! The sun is shining....we're awaiting packet 3 to come in the mail any day. I'm so happy. It's great to be in love, and I know there is no guarantee that we will pass the interview but at the same time, it feels good to know we are so close to our chance to prove ourselves. I'm really excited, even though it costs me $60 to mail round 2 of documents needed for last part of this process lol. I just feel good. I hope you all can be optimistic throughout the rest of your visa process.

[sara..... 371]

Kathy, thanks. How I wish this process wasn't so toll-taking... emotionally, physically, mentally, financially. Sigh.

Thanks, Third. It just feels horrible to post such negative things when you see others celebrating and so full of hope. And then at the same time you feel so left out... keep wondering "why me?"

ELW, Nina, Sara, thanks for the support & prayers. I'm trying to find meaningful things to do now to keep myself busy and not drive myself even crazier.

k.loveh, thank you. My congrats to you and your SO.

Starlight, thanks.

You all are so kind. I wish you all happiness and love. God bless.

dont feel bad about posting what is going on......after all we are all here for each other regardless of what some idiot has done to ruin his own chance at happiness.......

sara

[Nina~ 431]

So I have been having a lot of knee problems lately and I finally went and saw an orthopedic. It turns out that I need to have some viscous supplement injected under my kneecap... ouch ouch ouch

[sara..... 371]

So I have been having a lot of knee problems lately and I finally went and saw an orthopedic. It turns out that I need to have some viscous supplement injected under my kneecap... ouch ouch ouch

oh my gosh sounds painful but maybe it will help u so that u dont have knee pain?

[ELW 5]

Hi Nina Ballerina, sorry about your knee problems and hope the injection will make you feel much better, even though it is painful for a moment.

Were you ever a ballerina?

[fransha 0]

I am happy today I received a bouguet of flowers from my fiance ( 3 dozens in 4 different colors) They are so lovely. I was really surprised that a delivery man was looking at me and said that i had a delivery. when i looked at it, it's a box of flowers. There is no occasion to celebrate today but i know he just want to surprised me., he really loves to do it and this is not the first time he did this Also yesterday we got our schedule for our interview at he USEmbassy Mla even we didn't received the packet fyet rom the embassy till now but at least we had our interview date set already.

I am just happy fellow VJ' since yesterday and just want to share it....

God bless us all...

Fransha

[Twisted K 2]

congrats

my day is good, filled with nerves. i returned the rfe for my husband overnight last night. should be there by noon today. just hoping our case will be completed in time for a december interview. if not, i guess we will be in for january.

[ELW 5]

Ahhhh that's so sweet of your fiance, fransha!

Good luck Kaushalia, hope you get the interview date soon!

It's so nice having such nice weather these last couple of days - nearly 80 degrees in November! Whoohoo!