Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

1luv pm me yuh fb name so mi can sen a request

I say badger them to get citizenship..God forbid they are in the wrong place at the wrong time and end up i a bad situation...here comes the possibility of deportation..and what are u left with at that point? just think about it guys...

dat me say too

congrats heaven

princess i'm really hoping you can get your interview for nov

we just have to elevate our faith and accept its happening on God's time not ours

i am coming to terms with that myself

so i finally get the aos bill and the DS3032 in my email

another small victory

Bunz you are so right it all happens in God's time and all we can do is have faith! I am prying for a quick interview date for you girl. I would love to see you during the holiday but more than anything I want you to be here in the states wid yuh man! Canal Street here we come

lol, i'll probably be here for christmas

[Islandwoman 0]

OOOH....YUP AND MI MISS IRIE JAMBOREE TO..mi neva si yuh yuh banner...

wah dat mean Island is..u should use one man's mistake against everyman..basicly

Yeah, you did - maybe we can link for Irie next year. But mi ago bring a chair next time!!

Understand - I don't generalize like that. Every situation has to stand on their own.

[finesse 3]

yuh rite susi..my sister works in the city and she knows every deal and where..

a who wake you?

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

Exactly! Thank you. Jawi. When divorce was on it's way, removing my ring was a symbol to me that the marriage was over.

Again, I would feel the way you do Jawi. But to play devil's advocate, it's a lot colder up here than ATL so if his ring was a bit big to begin with, it's really loose now with cold hands.... As I said, he knows it bothered you and you were upset so I'm sure he will be making a point to always have it on.

so wah di big ole exactly fah! mi a go offa a wah yuh type..all yuh affi u a explain wah yuh mean..mi neva know sey oonuh did a divorce when u tek off di ring..it seem oonuh did still inna did same house

[NatPatBen 3]

Good morning. I'm still on page 50-something.

Looks like I won't be able to keep up on here anymore...

Just re-read the adjustment thread someone posted a few days ago. There were some excellent suggestions in the first 2/3 of that thread.

Yesterday, Steven SURPRISED me by cleaning the plate at this restaurant. He ate this item, which I thouht he'd find too weird:

WASABI AND CUCUMBER CRUSTED RED SNAPPER

with Stir Fried Vegetables, Crispy Wonton and Thai Red Curry Coconut Broth

Then he was still hungry, so I made some jerk chicken served with slightly-toasted bread and some spicy bbq sauce. He found it delicious and asked how I was able to jerk chicken without a jerk pan.

Acrow, sorry for your family's loss.

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

OOOH....YUP AND MI MISS IRIE JAMBOREE TO..mi neva si yuh yuh banner...

wah dat mean Island is..u should use one man's mistake against everyman..basicly

Yeah, you did - maybe we can link for Irie next year. But mi ago bring a chair next time!!

Understand - I don't generalize like that. Every situation has to stand on their own.

ok...cause no JA no inna next yr vaca plans..YET my girl mi shoulda tell yuh bout di chair..it is why i have folding chairs in my trunk

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

I think I will encourage A to do it...because I don't like the fact that as a permanent resident, they can still be deported. No one wants to think that something bad might happen..but I don't like thinking that my husband of twenty odd years can be taken away on a technicality.

The good thing is that Jamaica is a country that will recognize dual citizenship. I want to get my Jamaican citizenship this time around. I just never got around to it with my last marriage.

I had a small disagreement with A because his sister posted some pics of them dropping their other sister off at the airport, and I noticed that A didn't have his wedding band on. I didn't agrue or yell at him, but he knew I was upset because he can automatically sense my moods. He told his sister about it because she overheard him talking to me about it. He apologized and told me that he just forgot to put it on that day. Well, his sister sent me a message on FB telling me that she understands my point but not to be mad at him. She said that he is taking me being upset about it very hard...that he can't stop talking about me and he loves me so much. She asked me not to be mad at him because she forgets to put her rings on all the time. Then, she told me that she has my back because she believes in our love 1000%.

I'm upset because A NEVER put his ring on with his ex-wife...and he told me it was because he didn't love her. Am I making too big a deal out of this? He said he will just get in the habit of putting it on before his other jewelry...so he doesn't forget. I'm still upset. On the other hand, I feel like I am sweating the small stuff. The symbolism of the ring is important to me...even though I know it won't stop a man or woman from doing what they want to do. How do you guys feel about the wearing of the wedding band?

i'm with you on the symbolism thing but i can't even lie, i still forget to wear my ring often but that's because i'm not big on jewelry

but don't sweat it, this is a work in progress yunno

but don't feel too bad for being annoyed because you have good reason to be

[sus 70]

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

lmao @ the dog

[Shemmy 4]

Good morning. Haven't read everything but Damien almost never wears his ring due to his job...usually 6 days a week. He cannot wear jewerly of any type. He tries to remember to wear it when we go out...not a big deal to me. We are not less married.

I never take my ring off cuz I love the bling bling...just kidding. We first had plain matching bands then he upgraded mine so he still has his band. Plan to upgrade his for our anniversary as a surprise. I bet he'll wear it more

[Shemmy 4]

Jawi - I do understand how you feel.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Good morning. Haven't read everything but Damien almost never wears his ring due to his job...usually 6 days a week. He cannot wear jewerly of any type. He tries to remember to wear it when we go out...not a big deal to me. We are not less married.

I never take my ring off cuz I love the bling bling...just kidding. We first had plain matching bands then he upgraded mine so he still has his band. Plan to upgrade his for our anniversary as a surprise. I bet he'll wear it more

That's how I look at it also. I don't keep mine on all the time, no biggie.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((jawi)))))))))))))))) come yah!

[jawi876 2]

good to be upset sometimes, especially if your feelings are hurt. let it be known rather than act like it is no big deal when to you it is not. i doubt he will forget again....

Oh I didn't pretend not to be upset...I just didn't get all indignant about it. He would change the subject, and we would talk but he KNEW that I was still on slow boil.

mi did a talk IF HE was the one doing the "wrongs"..since something prompted her to take her ring off

Mi knoa mi younger bandi leg twin.

Jawi, I wouldn't think too hard on the issue with the ring - When I first got my engagement ring, I would take it off - DJ would get mad at me cause I would take it off to put on sunscreen, and forget to put it back on before we went out - It wasn't something I was used to doing or wearing every day -

If you had been married a year and he religiously put it on, then "forgot" - I might be thinking twice about it - But you are newly married, the ring is new - I know it hurts, but I would try to not read too too much into it.

Zeen...a different perspective to consider.

haha how onoo stay so bad

request is coming

nat sent me a list of vj ppl

going go back thru it

Eeeehhhhhhnnnnnn. *kiss teet* Thanks for the add! Cha dis ooman mek mi beg fe wan FB add. 'teva!

so wah di big ole exactly fah! mi a go offa a wah yuh type..all yuh affi u a explain wah yuh mean..mi neva know sey oonuh did a divorce when u tek off di ring..it seem oonuh did still inna did same house

baxside...gwaan easy general! LMAO...

[phillyfashionista 8]

Jawi,

I definitely understand how you feel as I feel the ring is a symbol of your commitment as well and we never take ours off. Poor Hubby's ring was stuck on h is finger for 3 weeks because he has gained weight and poor man was in pain but we finally got it off with a valiant effort! Although he can't wear it on married finger until its stretched he is now wearing it on his pinky because he knows how upset I would be if he doesn't have it on. I know it's not in any way a reflection of his love if he doesn't wear it but it's like our wonder twin powers ( I know that is silly ) but its a part of the bond we share.

Jawi that man loves you and the ring is only an inanimate object and our emotions get the best of us most times. I am sure he knows now how much it means to you and he and the ring won't ever part. I so wish you could fly to him now and put your arms around him and all will be right in the world again

[finesse 3]

Good morning. I'm still on page 50-something.

Looks like I won't be able to keep up on here anymore...

Just re-read the adjustment thread someone posted a few days ago. There were some excellent suggestions in the first 2/3 of that thread.

Yesterday, Steven SURPRISED me by cleaning the plate at this restaurant. He ate this item, which I thouht he'd find too weird:

WASABI AND CUCUMBER CRUSTED RED SNAPPER

with Stir Fried Vegetables, Crispy Wonton and Thai Red Curry Coconut Broth

Then he was still hungry, so I made some jerk chicken served with slightly-toasted bread and some spicy bbq sauce. He found it delicious and asked how I was able to jerk chicken without a jerk pan.

Acrow, sorry for your family's loss.

Nat, he sounds pretty adventurous! i think my hubby starved the first month he was here....he even thought a sandwich was wierd...