Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)

[Islandwoman 0]

That is the point I was trying to make Island. Maybe I should have just said that I guess I went into too much detail.

I got you Dada...but I think it was more about you saying you would bottle them and sell them. Since "selling" them is in the history of our country....it landed on here wrong.

[finesse 3]

What part of the story was sad?? I'm sorry did I say that out loud. I actually laughed like dem damn Jamaicans dey strike again. I'm telling you I'm about to bottle them up and start selling them. I bet I would make a killing as long as I didn't use most of the product myself. I can see why your hubby would feel like that he probably feels guilty like yeah we have that effect on American woman. This is a tough one I can see his point but at the same time I would hate to see him miss out on family gatherings due to it. I mean this is something your aunt and uncle will have to work out. Does she plan on not volunteering anymore?

By the way did anyone watch the video MsTee posted on FB the dance hall one? I was like OMG.. I had me rolling the way they were all over the gate. I was cracking up as soon as a girl got on the gate a guy was fighting to get behind her. Did you see the one girl kick the other in the but by accident? It had me rolling.

Do you even realize how inappropriate and offensive that comment is?

this is kind of what pisses hubby off about it. he hates that stereotype...that american woman just go to jamaica for a fling and then come back to their husbands and act like everything is cool....even tho, yes it does happen.

not just my aunt, but most of my family and a lot of my friends go to jamaica annually....some many times a year (good friends of the family have an apartment in ochie and have made it available to us when they are not there) so they/we have a real love for jamiaca and have made some real connections there....it is not like they just go there and get wasted and get some ####### and come home. it just sucks that for those that don't know the story, that that is how it appears. but for those who know, it is a situation of 2 friends hanging out and things just went too far....

[shrewdgal 0]

Anyone know what the code is on Digicel that will block your number when you are calling someone?

Shrewdie, it's good to see you hear! How is M's Mom feeling?

Hey Sus! She is doing much better, thanks!

Hi everyone it has been along time a lot of new faces. I am good just dropped in to say VJ is always on my mind. My Journey has ended filed for divorce. Newbies don't get scare just some differences you can't overcome. My only advice is if things don't work out don't beat yourself up. Sometimes what seems like it's right is not and it is just another life lesson. Hey Tre, Irie, portland and 1luv.

Oh gosh, Morant. Blessings

Hang in there!

[shrewdgal 0]

Hey Ladies!!!!!

I have missed checking in and reading about all that goes on

I see some new faces

Hope everyone is having a speedy and blessed journey

-Shrewdie

Wow! It's great to see you! How are u and hubby doing?

Things are going GREAT.

It was all worth the wait and frustrations!

We def. have some adjustments, just to marriage in general, but now, we are really settling into a comfort

I love it!

How are you?

Hey Shrewdie ((waving)) Glad to hear everything is Fabulous for the both of you!

Anyone know what the code is on Digicel that will block your number when you are calling someone?

Shrewdie, it's good to see you hear! How is M's Mom feeling?

Sus its #31#

thanks Philly! How are things your way?

Hey Ladies!!!!!

I have missed checking in and reading about all that goes on

I see some new faces

Hope everyone is having a speedy and blessed journey

-Shrewdie

Wow! It's great to see you! How are u and hubby doing?

Things are going GREAT.

It was all worth the wait and frustrations!

We def. have some adjustments, just to marriage in general, but now, we are really settling into a comfort

I love it!

How are you?

Don't get too comfortable girl.. Always keep him guessing...

Not a boring "comfortable" but..this is where I was supposed to be all my life "comfortable"

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

cho I've lost my appetite

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

What part of the story was sad?? I'm sorry did I say that out loud. I actually laughed like dem damn Jamaicans dey strike again. I'm telling you I'm about to bottle them up and start selling them. I bet I would make a killing as long as I didn't use most of the product myself. I can see why your hubby would feel like that he probably feels guilty like yeah we have that effect on American woman. This is a tough one I can see his point but at the same time I would hate to see him miss out on family gatherings due to it. I mean this is something your aunt and uncle will have to work out. Does she plan on not volunteering anymore?

By the way did anyone watch the video MsTee posted on FB the dance hall one? I was like OMG.. I had me rolling the way they were all over the gate. I was cracking up as soon as a girl got on the gate a guy was fighting to get behind her. Did you see the one girl kick the other in the but by accident? It had me rolling.

Do you even realize how inappropriate and offensive that comment is?

I didn't think it was offensive you just took it that way. Do you know how many married woman mess with Jamaicans? I don't blame the Jamaicans I blame the husbands. If they were doing their job then there would be no need for the woman to cheat and lately its becoming more and more common. Not just on VJ. All the things that are said on this board and you find my comment offensive. WOW!! Whatever!

How many? ...and what's being bottled up?

[sus 70]

I didn’t think it was offensive you just took it that way. Do you know how many married woman mess with Jamaicans? I don’t blame the Jamaicans I blame the husbands. If they were doing their job then there would be no need for the woman to cheat and lately its becoming more and more common. Not just on VJ. All the things that are said on this board and you find my comment offensive. WOW!! Whatever!

There is a lot on here that I find offensive - I usually don't bother to reply, cause you don't get it anyway - This board is not about married women messing with Jamaicans - it's about people dealing with the immigration process and the struggles of an LDR - The comment was offensive because it seems to encompass so many of your posts that lead me to believe you view Jamaicans as play toys - and there is no excuse for cheating or for blaming the husbands - if the wife isn't happy then she needs to get the hell outta the marriage before she cheats -

this is kind of what pisses hubby off about it. he hates that stereotype...that american woman just go to jamaica for a fling and then come back to their husbands and act like everything is cool....even tho, yes it does happen.

not just my aunt, but most of my family and a lot of my friends go to jamaica annually....some many times a year (good friends of the family have an apartment in ochie and have made it available to us when they are not there) so they/we have a real love for jamiaca and have made some real connections there....it is not like they just go there and get wasted and get some ####### and come home. it just sucks that for those that don't know the story, that that is how it appears. but for those who know, it is a situation of 2 friends hanging out and things just went too far....

Exactly Finesse - and the more that people perpetuate the stereotype, the worse that it gets for the good ones that are out there -

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

not just my aunt, but most of my family and a lot of my friends go to jamaica annually....some many times a year (good friends of the family have an apartment in ochie and have made it available to us when they are not there) so they/we have a real love for jamiaca and have made some real connections there....it is not like they just go there and get wasted and get some ####### and come home. it just sucks that for those that don't know the story, that that is how it appears. but for those who know, it is a situation of 2 friends hanging out and things just went too far....

finesse, mi an yuh a fren??

mi waa free apartment fi stay inna :whistle:

[MsSheka 0]

I didn’t think it was offensive you just took it that way. Do you know how many married woman mess with Jamaicans? I don’t blame the Jamaicans I blame the husbands. If they were doing their job then there would be no need for the woman to cheat and lately its becoming more and more common. Not just on VJ. All the things that are said on this board and you find my comment offensive. WOW!! Whatever!

There is a lot on here that I find offensive - I usually don't bother to reply, cause you don't get it anyway - This board is not about married women messing with Jamaicans - it's about people dealing with the immigration process and the struggles of an LDR - The comment was offensive because it seems to encompass so many of your posts that lead me to believe you view Jamaicans as play toys - and there is no excuse for cheating or for blaming the husbands - if the wife isn't happy then she needs to get the hell outta the marriage before she cheats -

this is kind of what pisses hubby off about it. he hates that stereotype...that american woman just go to jamaica for a fling and then come back to their husbands and act like everything is cool....even tho, yes it does happen.

not just my aunt, but most of my family and a lot of my friends go to jamaica annually....some many times a year (good friends of the family have an apartment in ochie and have made it available to us when they are not there) so they/we have a real love for jamiaca and have made some real connections there....it is not like they just go there and get wasted and get some ####### and come home. it just sucks that for those that don't know the story, that that is how it appears. but for those who know, it is a situation of 2 friends hanging out and things just went too far....

Exactly Finesse - and the more that people perpetuate the stereotype, the worse that it gets for the good ones that are out there -

[*JG* 2]

the first human

according to scienists

SEXY!

I am glad our feet no longer look like that.

[finesse 3]

not just my aunt, but most of my family and a lot of my friends go to jamaica annually....some many times a year (good friends of the family have an apartment in ochie and have made it available to us when they are not there) so they/we have a real love for jamiaca and have made some real connections there....it is not like they just go there and get wasted and get some ####### and come home. it just sucks that for those that don't know the story, that that is how it appears. but for those who know, it is a situation of 2 friends hanging out and things just went too far....

finesse, mi an yuh a fren??

mi waa free apartment fi stay inna :whistle:

and wha yuh go do fi mi?

[finesse 3]

cho I've lost my appetite

whappen?

[*JG* 2]

i sort of understand his feelings but still don't really think they feel any way towards him about it.

i guess because my aunt and uncle have been in a relationship for so long and everyone has kind of admired their relationship. they are very cool people and always are doing things together and seem so happy. so now not only is her marraige compromised but she is losing a great friend too..

she was supposed to go next month with a few friends of hers and they have all cancelled their trip..

Ahh that is true.. That is along time to be married and so uncommon in my neck of the woods lately. I see your point my husbands aunt and uncle have bene married I think 25 years and they always look so happy. Because of them I had faith in marriage but now lately I don't know. Its like the bad is overpowering the good.

Not always...on Sunday my parents will be married for 40 years.

My parents have been married 46 years.

[finesse 3]

i sort of understand his feelings but still don't really think they feel any way towards him about it.

i guess because my aunt and uncle have been in a relationship for so long and everyone has kind of admired their relationship. they are very cool people and always are doing things together and seem so happy. so now not only is her marraige compromised but she is losing a great friend too..

she was supposed to go next month with a few friends of hers and they have all cancelled their trip..

Ahh that is true.. That is along time to be married and so uncommon in my neck of the woods lately. I see your point my husbands aunt and uncle have bene married I think 25 years and they always look so happy. Because of them I had faith in marriage but now lately I don't know. Its like the bad is overpowering the good.

Not always...on Sunday my parents will be married for 40 years.

My parents have been married 46 years.

and they are still speaking?

[sus 70]

i sort of understand his feelings but still don't really think they feel any way towards him about it.

i guess because my aunt and uncle have been in a relationship for so long and everyone has kind of admired their relationship. they are very cool people and always are doing things together and seem so happy. so now not only is her marraige compromised but she is losing a great friend too..

she was supposed to go next month with a few friends of hers and they have all cancelled their trip..

Ahh that is true.. That is along time to be married and so uncommon in my neck of the woods lately. I see your point my husbands aunt and uncle have bene married I think 25 years and they always look so happy. Because of them I had faith in marriage but now lately I don't know. Its like the bad is overpowering the good.

Not always...on Sunday my parents will be married for 40 years.

My parents have been married 46 years.

and they are still speaking?

My neighbors across the street just celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary!