Do the Research... and whatever else!

[ya falaha! 0]

Maybe...

[msheesha 548]

Considering this is Ramadan in the home stretch it's probably best to refrain from this topic for now as people still have 10 days left ending around the 19th of September and return to it after the feast or EID holiday which is 3 days later when they are feeling better. When people are hungry they get more aggravated and angry.

That is if anyone cares to discuss it further after then.

Priceless!!! Insinuating that Muslims aren't feeling well and are aggravated and angry because it's Ramadan! Clearly, a lack of understanding for the beauty of this blessed month of Ramadan. As you're throwing stones about people being aggravated and angry, I suggest you look inside for your own aggravation and anger, and see where this is really coming from. I'd hazard to guess it's not at all about whatever was going on years ago, and more connected to the situation of your husband choosing to live with his sister rather than you, now that he's finally getting his visa. When you point your finger at someone, all the rest of your fingers are pointing back at yourself. I can say with 100% certainty that if I went thru the visa process, only to have my husband decide not to live with me when he got here, I'd probably be lashing at at anyone and anything as well. I might even be spewing nonsense about free speech. It's understandable. But, not very insightful or useful to you. You'd serve yourself better by looking at what's really bothering you.

[ya falaha! 0]

[doodlebugg 10]

Considering this is Ramadan in the home stretch it's probably best to refrain from this topic for now as people still have 10 days left ending around the 19th of September and return to it after the feast or EID holiday which is 3 days later when they are feeling better. When people are hungry they get more aggravated and angry.

That is if anyone cares to discuss it further after then.

Priceless!!! Insinuating that Muslims aren't feeling well and are aggravated and angry because it's Ramadan! Clearly, a lack of understanding for the beauty of this blessed month of Ramadan. As you're throwing stones about people being aggravated and angry, I suggest you look inside for your own aggravation and anger, and see where this is really coming from. I'd hazard to guess it's not at all about whatever was going on years ago, and more connected to the situation of your husband choosing to live with his sister rather than you, now that he's finally getting his visa. When you point your finger at someone, all the rest of your fingers are pointing back at yourself. I can say with 100% certainty that if I went thru the visa process, only to have my husband decide not to live with me when he got here, I'd probably be lashing at at anyone and anything as well. I might even be spewing nonsense about free speech. It's understandable. But, not very insightful or useful to you. You'd serve yourself better by looking at what's really bothering you.

That's really sad but is it really his sister?

[msheesha 548]

Considering this is Ramadan in the home stretch it's probably best to refrain from this topic for now as people still have 10 days left ending around the 19th of September and return to it after the feast or EID holiday which is 3 days later when they are feeling better. When people are hungry they get more aggravated and angry.

That is if anyone cares to discuss it further after then.

Priceless!!! Insinuating that Muslims aren't feeling well and are aggravated and angry because it's Ramadan! Clearly, a lack of understanding for the beauty of this blessed month of Ramadan. As you're throwing stones about people being aggravated and angry, I suggest you look inside for your own aggravation and anger, and see where this is really coming from. I'd hazard to guess it's not at all about whatever was going on years ago, and more connected to the situation of your husband choosing to live with his sister rather than you, now that he's finally getting his visa. When you point your finger at someone, all the rest of your fingers are pointing back at yourself. I can say with 100% certainty that if I went thru the visa process, only to have my husband decide not to live with me when he got here, I'd probably be lashing at at anyone and anything as well. I might even be spewing nonsense about free speech. It's understandable. But, not very insightful or useful to you. You'd serve yourself better by looking at what's really bothering you.

That's really sad but is it really his sister?

It is sad, and it'd make me a lot more aggravated and angry than fasting for Ramadan ever has.

[morocco4ever 63]

Considering this is Ramadan in the home stretch it's probably best to refrain from this topic for now as people still have 10 days left ending around the 19th of September and return to it after the feast or EID holiday which is 3 days later when they are feeling better. When people are hungry they get more aggravated and angry.

That is if anyone cares to discuss it further after then.

Priceless!!! Insinuating that Muslims aren't feeling well and are aggravated and angry because it's Ramadan! Clearly, a lack of understanding for the beauty of this blessed month of Ramadan. As you're throwing stones about people being aggravated and angry, I suggest you look inside for your own aggravation and anger, and see where this is really coming from. I'd hazard to guess it's not at all about whatever was going on years ago, and more connected to the situation of your husband choosing to live with his sister rather than you, now that he's finally getting his visa. When you point your finger at someone, all the rest of your fingers are pointing back at yourself. I can say with 100% certainty that if I went thru the visa process, only to have my husband decide not to live with me when he got here, I'd probably be lashing at at anyone and anything as well. I might even be spewing nonsense about free speech. It's understandable. But, not very insightful or useful to you. You'd serve yourself better by looking at what's really bothering you.

That's really sad but is it really his sister?

It is sad, and it'd make me a lot more aggravated and angry than fasting for Ramadan ever has.

I am stunned. I had no idea, nor do I have any idea what to say about any of this. I thought everything was good between them.

[ya falaha! 0]

Good only because she claimed it was good. Just goes to show you that you never really know....

I knew there was trouble back with the Myspace thing and her paranoia everytime someone posted about infidelity.

[100% Al Ahly Fan 53]

I wish this thread would close. Oh Vj God's PLEASE oh please, close this thread!! Enough is enough already!

[doodlebugg 10]

in before the lock!

[ya falaha! 0]

Is this the longest fight thread in MENA? Anyone remember?

*stealing doodle's thunder*

[doodlebugg 10]

Is this the longest fight thread in MENA? Anyone remember?

*stealing doodle's thunder*

A quickie look says that this was the longest one http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...5&start=435 but then there might be one I missed.

[ya falaha! 0]

Doh! That one was way long! I think it was feistier, too.

[Nagishkaw 510]

I'd wager that 95% here CLAIM it's good. I also think it is dirty and low down to drag 0livia's marital relationship into this cesspool of a thread when it is sheer speculation. Sloppy finger pointing at it's MENA finest ...some things never change. Kthanxbai.

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

I'd wager that 95% here CLAIM it's good. I also think it is dirty and low down to drag 0livia's marital relationship into this cesspool of a thread when it is sheer speculation. Sloppy finger pointing at it's MENA finest ...some things never change. Kthanxbai.

[ya falaha! 0]

I agree...most probably "claim" it's good. But some know how to keep marital issues to themselves. This is not the place to air your own dirty laundry. Some ppl never learn.